Brand new to this....I have a dilemma.

[Beth4cock]

Hi there. I am a happily married white female, late 40's. Have been married for over 25 years to a wonderful older guy. He has encouraged me over the years to find guys to have sex with as he would like to watch. I have never taken him up on this offer. Although I am not comfortable having him watch me, it has made me think about what it would be like to have sex with another man, particularly someone completely different to my husband such as a BBC. I'm only "curious" about all this just now, but the thought of a 9 inch or bigger cock penetrating me.....is very tempting. I'm just wondering though morally. If i did sleep with another guy I wouldn't want hubby to watch as it would make me feel uncomfortable and restrict my enjoyment. So although he has encouraged me to do it. He doesn't know that I am on here and i don't know if I would want him to ever know. Is it wrong to do it behind his back....when he has sort of pushed me in this direction anyway? Would like some opinions please. Any other ladies been in this predicament?

 

[leanncarter]

You should tell him how you feel and what you want he may ok with you doing it without him watching and you can tell him about it afterwards

 

[Nymedic81]

You are in a tough spot. What if you recorded it to watch with him at another time?

My ex wife always said it was better sex when I wasn’t present with select guys that we trusted.
She said the sex was stronger and more focused between them even though she loved the attention of two guys at once. Does your older hubby have performance problems? If he does is this something that helps him get hard or excited? This might be something to help him enjoy sex again is what he might be thinking and he wants you to enjoy sex since you are in your prime still!

You have an amazing body and you will have no problem finding suitable men to fuck you.

You should probably be honest with him and tell him how you feel. Just always reinforce your love and feelings for husband and find some way to keep included. Examples like setting up the dates, helping you prepare, go down on you to get you excited before your date, call him or send him pics or have your lover do it, and always go home freshly fucked to him, kiss him and tell him you love him after getting a good fuck!

Good luck and be safe.

Plus FYI there are a lot fakes on this site and tons of fantasy stuff on here it so take it with a grain of salt. Plus if you want to be taken serious you should get verified but enjoy the site and don’t become to addicted lol!

 

[whtboiforGoddess]

I would go for it.

 

[newcuckcplpa]

Or maybe a compromise is doing it without him there but video it for him to see afterwards

 

[Beth4cock]

You should tell him how you feel and what you want he may ok with you doing it without him watching and you can tell him about it afterwards

Yes...thanks for the reply. The problem is that when he has suggested that I sleep with other men it has been with the express condition that he is present. BUT I guess it's worth a try. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. lol

 

[leanncarter]

I have done it both ways him watching and alone and I have to say I enjoy both but I think bulls perform better when alone

 

[OwnMyAsian]

Yes...thanks for the reply. The problem is that when he has suggested that I sleep with other men it has been with the express condition that he is present. BUT I guess it's worth a try. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. lol

Try it the first time with him present and see how it goes. Afterward you can talk about the next step. You have to keep him involved in some manner even if he is not present when you’re playing such as texts, pics, video, Skype/FaceTime, etc. Communication is key. But prior to all this you must develop trust with your new partner before playing alone.

 

[waynerobertson]

I don't like sneaking around. I don't like the drama. He has encouraged you so why hide it? If he has been honest with you be honest with him.

 

[maccachew]

Yes...thanks for the reply. The problem is that when he has suggested that I sleep with other men it has been with the express condition that he is present. BUT I guess it's worth a try. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. lol

Negotiate he's probably going to want see that as that bbc is push deep into your pussy.. Let him be there then and ask him for some privacy in time you'll realize that you will be experiencing so much pleasure that you won't even think or care that he's there

 

[BBC247]

Considering that he is open to you having lovers outside the marriage, I would not keep anything from him. Like a friend once told me, “why sneak in the backdoor when the hubby will let you walk in the front door”. If you are nervous about your hubby being present, maybe start off by either videoing the encounter for him or let him listen on the phone. That way, you both get something from thebexperience. Then once you get more comfortable, then you can gradually phase in your hubby being present. Regardless, I would recommend that before you hook up with a new guy, all three of you should meet or communicate so that you are all on the same page. I wish you luck with your endeavor.

 

[Astounded]

All the husband needs is a snapchat photo of your hand cupping the stud's heavy nuts. You should get an encouraging response !!

 

[jdflacpl]

Hubby her I wouldn't suggest doing it behind his back and i can tell you my wife didn't think she could do it with me just watching but I think that the fact we had a few mfm 3 somes in the past helped. One thing i have found that helps my wife with any new bulls is to let them get a head start alone then I slowly enter the room and she doesn't even know it some times

 

[Beth4cock]

Thanks for all the advice folks. I'll take it all to heart. Nice to hear from those who have experience in this matter. It's certainly given me a lot to think about.

 

[Bbcrunsmylife]

You should definetly communicate your feelings with him. I believe he only offered sleeping with other men because he wanted to be part of the experience. Just talk to him about your urges, maybe he is OK with you fucking someone else and not being present. What's the worst that could happen. A girls gotta have what a girl wants, and if it's bbc you need I really hope you get it

 

[Blkcocknu]

Thanks for all the advice folks. I'll take it all to heart. Nice to hear from those who have experience in this matter. It's certainly given me a lot to think about.

So where are you from?

 

[Beth4cock]

New Zealand. But we travel a lot.

 

[Sussex_Couple]

You need to point out to him that its your body and your rules, dont let him dictate the situation

 

[NYCuckCpl]

We started in this lifestyle a few years ago and at first I had "playtime" alone with my BBC but I decided that husband needed to be included.
So I let him watch and I found it quite exciting and I dont feel as guilty when he participates.

 

[Cfashonice]

Hi there. I am a happily married white female, late 40's. Have been married for over 25 years to a wonderful older guy. He has encouraged me over the years to find guys to have sex with as he would like to watch. I have never taken him up on this offer. Although I am not comfortable having him watch me, it has made me think about what it would be like to have sex with another man, particularly someone completely different to my husband such as a BBC. I'm only "curious" about all this just now, but the thought of a 9 inch or bigger cock penetrating me.....is very tempting. I'm just wondering though morally. If i did sleep with another guy I wouldn't want hubby to watch as it would make me feel uncomfortable and restrict my enjoyment. So although he has encouraged me to do it. He doesn't know that I am on here and i don't know if I would want him to ever know. Is it wrong to do it behind his back....when he has sort of pushed me in this direction anyway? Would like some opinions please. Any other ladies been in this predicament?

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