.... I always thought perhaps a black ring next to her wedding ring on the same finger would start a few conversations.
Tattoos fade over time or can be hidden by clothes.
Yeah, I agree, tattoos discolor over time + if her decision to not be "black owned" should change, she's stuck with a very expensive tattoo removal. Jewelry, however, like earrings, necklaces, and anklets, stay shiny and located in areas that are much easier to see. Although, I do like the small "black spade" tattoo on a breast when its located near the cleavage ... what a turn-on.