A woman can have the Queen of Spades tattoo and still be happily married to a white man. I am, I have the tattoo on my lower back permanently, its to attract black guys and so I cant back out! My hubby is happy its on there, its not an 'either/or' between BBC and hubby, but both.I as I said cant understand the tattoo of black cock only or black cock owned! I would see it as the end of your marriage. If anyone owns the woman it should be her husband and if anyone owns him it should be his wife. Allowing a "black man" to own either of you and demean the other is the beginning of the end of your marriage. To allow that BBC to knock your wife up without a discussion of it between the husband and wife will in the long run bring a end to your marriage. The most important thing two people regardless of race possess is there marriage. The only way I can conceive of having a black baby and it working for all is if the two people husband and wife are unable to conceive because of his low sperm count and with discussion they decide that the bull is to be the ******* of the baby. Human ego and super ego will somewhere down the line if the words you could not even give me a baby are spoken will ******* the marriage.