Not what should you do? Do what you want. Do a sissy husband one time, and see how it goes. Doesn't make you gay. Makes you an alpha bisexual possibly. So what? Only you and the couples would ever know... and in the meantime you can have big fun dominating horny wives and their punk ass husbands.
Black bull needs advice. Should I dominate the wife and her sissified husband, but I am not gay.
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Still a man regardless how he looks. Sounds like you are trying to convince yourself and rationalize. Stop worrying about titles, so men dressed like a woman turns you on. You are bisexual like most people enjoy.
Yep. You hit that on the money
Woke2BlackPowr
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Tbh yea. If they into you owning them, then tell the husbands it's not about him, or bring a brother you know who don't mind using a white boy and let him use her husband while you with her
Do it brotha. Fuck societal labels. Do what you enjoy
Yeah but see Cuckolding is not specific. Some ppl can just sit there and watch. Some ppl like to take videos and not get any pleasure from it. Until later when you sit down and watch it on your tv with your wife. Some ppl participate. Some ppl like to be humiliated. Some ppl do it for the money. I think their is a fine line between being submissive and being a slave. Being submissive you can say no and your wife should respect you. But sonce you dont say no and take the cock in your mouth that is a gay act.
I agree. The label is irrelevant. If you enjoy having sex with a cuck, even if it’s only about the dominance, then do it. Real men don’t worry about whether it’s gay or not.
Ok, but I don't think that contradicts anything I said. Obviously, when a man has sexual contact with another man, the act itself is a "same sex," or "homosexual" act. The question people seem stuck on here is whether that "makes you gay." The best answer is probably, "who cares?" But if the definition of homosexual, as a sexual orientation, is that you are attracted to members of the same sex, and gay is typically used as a synonym for homosexual, and you may have enjoyed an isolated activity with someone but AREN'T attracted to members of the same sex and don't seek out same-sex encounters, I'd argue you're not automatically gay. At most, in my opinion, maybe it means you're at least a little bit bi. To what degree someone is attracted to people of each sex is really up to each person. Nobody else can tell you where you sit on the spectrum. Do you spend more time thinking about male or female bodies? Are you more comfortable touching one than the other? Nobody else can answer that for you.
It's also really weird to me that people want to use the word gay instead of bi, but only when it comes to men, and that it carries so much derision here. My wife is bi, and nobody tries to correct her on that. Nobody has ever said, "your wife enjoyed eating another woman's pussy while her bull fucked her? Bro, she gay as fuck!" Nobody has ever called her a dyke, or any other derogatory word for lesbian, or suggested she was some kind of dishonest closet case. In fact, the ONLY reaction we've ever gotten is, "that's fucking hot!" My wife is WAY more bi than I am. Yes, the majority of her sexual activity is with men, but she actually finds women sexually attractive as well, and does act on that impulse. It's not a desire to be obedient driving her, it's a desire to sometimes feel the touch of another woman. Nobody acts like her occasionally going down on other women automatically makes her a lesbian, but when they hear that she's had me fluff her bull, even though 99% of my sexual activity is hetero, I'm 100% gay to the people who speak up about it here. Oh, well. Their problem, not mine. I'm pretty sure they're the minority anyway. They're the most vocal about it, but I am fairly confident most people don't give a rat's ass what I do or what doing it makes me.
Last, obviously you're right, a dominant person should always respect the limits of a sub. But I mean, that's D/s 101. Non-consensual sex is still called *******. But a lot of submissives, myself included, get off on the idea of having their boundaries pushed by a Dom(me) they trust. So yes, obviously I could have been like, "no way, honey. I'm not doing that." But I get off on proving my obedience to her and she gets off on watching me do various things at her command. That's all we're thinking about in those moments, not whether something we try will "make me gay," according to a few people on the internet. I obey because I get a rush turning my sexual autonomy over to her, and although she may take me outside my comfort zone, she doesn't ever abuse my trust. We'd never put each other in real danger and we think what we do is hot. Neither of us claims we're 100% rigidly straight, we're just open-minded and not particularly hung up on labels or what others think.
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Yeah, but in this day and age our society is being heavily influenced on Identity. As transgender ppl are being more advertised and supported by certain political parties, corporations are beginning to adopt these new normals and advertise using gay and trans ppl. Look back to the 80s and 90s when gay ppl were being oppressed through the media due to hiv and std and satanic rituals. They put the fear in ppl who follow social norms to those who dont. Especially in a Country where probably 85 % are christians and are influenced by its belief system. So id say their is a good majority that cares what you do. Especially if your wife decides she wants to put a leash on you and panties and walk you down the street. And theyd probably expose you for it. If a majority of the ppl in your community were church going Christians and learned of your lifestyle theyd target you and shame you and your wife. Ive experienced this treatment quite often. But when I realised ppl I didnt even know knew I had to move cause of the harassment.
fourinch
Couple
As a beta male
As a small cocked white beta male I have to make myself available for use by a black alpha male. I am not gay and see it as a role that I have to do for the guy. As a black man you are superior to me and so I have to show you by willingly serve you.
I agree. I must admit, black men are superior to me by nature. I must not argue.
fourinch
Couple
We can’t argue and have to serve.
What is your name on fetlife?
castrated cuck
Couple
ya
Kkylie5683
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It definitely is very gay/bisexual. If a man is sucking a man's dick yes. To say otherwise is denial and you might want to see a therapist for your internalized homosexual ideals that you haven't come to grip with
JonMwan
Male
bisexual, not straight or gay
JonMwan
Male
Exactly, I don't know why these people are scared to come out or at least find a gay black man to have sex with at least
JonMwan
Male
dblcklover9973
Couple
my wife does not do anal. but her young bull loves it and wants it very much. he wanted to stop the relationship. so my wife gave her ass up once but she still did not like it. next meetup, when the bull was demanding anal again, she offered him my ass. at first he was taken aback, but when he watched her peg me he warmed to the idea. now he is fucking me regularly.
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