HWadvise4us
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Hey members! I’ve been creeping the forums for about 2 years now. I am in need of some help please.
Wife and I have been married 4 years, together 8 and known each other for 16. I am the 3rd man she has ever been with. First 2 were black guys. Let me preface by saying I am NOT a cuck. Nothing against that, just not me and do not take to the humiliation/ disrespect that comes with it. To each their own! My attraction stems from seeing my wife pleasured. Can’t help but naturally get aroused by the thought of her being pleasured by another man. A man that is not like me. I’m no chump, 6’0, 215lbs and a true 7”. Our sex is great, I’m not under performing. So when I watch porn I always watch girls that look like her, PAWG/BBW brunette interracial category. She’s barley 5’3”, 130-140lbs, brunette, greenish eyes, 34C/24”/42” thiccc lol. I grew up in “the hood” and with mostly black guys. We’ve ran trains on chicks,
Tag team etc. Gotta hand it to the brothers, they can lay it down! Always admired it and have learned/ emulate the way they fuck. Something though that was always attractive to see the color contrast, the “taboo” (society) effect and how white girls act towards black guys. It’s all just a great performance. I’m not gay or bi, I’m a straight dude with a different than normal fetish. When I watch porn I always think of that woman being her getting pleasured by another man. A big black man. I get feelings of excitement with the thought of my wife being pleasured to a level I can’t. I genuinely want her to feel that. It’s also oddly an empowering feeling for me, her is and the bull. It also fuels the competitiveness in me. Not in a bad way, I a way of wanting to serve my queen more!
I have already broke the ice to her. Not sure if I did it “correctly” but hind sights suggests maybe? I brought up the fetish topic. She said she has none. Now she is a shy person in regards to embarrassment.
I think she might feel that if she told me. So I took the leap and went first. Told her that the thought of her being with another man turns me on. That I would love to see her physically interact with another man. Like dancing and flirting. She was TOOK BACK lol. Quite, didn’t know how to respond. Then said “ok, I can see that. Is this something you WANT to happen, or just like to think it?” I told her I would want to take baby steps. She immediately shot it down. I tried to assure her that this is no back door way to be with another woman or anything. I just want to see her satisfied fully. Also because I think it’s hot. After shooting it down she said she’s not worried about the reservations I brought up. That although she wasn’t open to it she would be worried about her corporate job and that I already satisfy her. She said she was sorry that she couldn’t give this to me. Then jokingly asked “you would be cool with me giving head? Lol. And kissing you after??” She said this in a much different way. About a hour or two after the initial conversation. She said it as if it was a normal conversation. Like as if there was hope.
She says she does not watch porn but once a few years back while looking something up on her phone while she was there with her permission I accidentally saw pornhub pages on her tabs. The categories were interracial (Shane diesel), interracial creampie/ gangbang and girl on girl. I was SHOCKED but in a good way. She saw my shocked face and immediately said that her and her friend were looking for a girl that they know who got into porn. I tried telling her this is ok! She didn’t believe me and kept defending. I think this was out of embarrassment.
Her parents are pretty conservative. I think this plays into her not wanting to open up more sexually. I know she’s attracted to black men. I’m VERY observant. When there is a black man in the room, she doesn’t hid her eyes sticking to him. When she notices a black man eye fucking her, she does things to purposely let him see. Hair flicking, standing up, either back to him or from the side pull her jeans up and hop a little. Walking the long way by them etc. When they hit on her she gets all giddy and eats it up.
So, with ALL that said. My request is what now friends?
thank you!
Wife and I have been married 4 years, together 8 and known each other for 16. I am the 3rd man she has ever been with. First 2 were black guys. Let me preface by saying I am NOT a cuck. Nothing against that, just not me and do not take to the humiliation/ disrespect that comes with it. To each their own! My attraction stems from seeing my wife pleasured. Can’t help but naturally get aroused by the thought of her being pleasured by another man. A man that is not like me. I’m no chump, 6’0, 215lbs and a true 7”. Our sex is great, I’m not under performing. So when I watch porn I always watch girls that look like her, PAWG/BBW brunette interracial category. She’s barley 5’3”, 130-140lbs, brunette, greenish eyes, 34C/24”/42” thiccc lol. I grew up in “the hood” and with mostly black guys. We’ve ran trains on chicks,
Tag team etc. Gotta hand it to the brothers, they can lay it down! Always admired it and have learned/ emulate the way they fuck. Something though that was always attractive to see the color contrast, the “taboo” (society) effect and how white girls act towards black guys. It’s all just a great performance. I’m not gay or bi, I’m a straight dude with a different than normal fetish. When I watch porn I always think of that woman being her getting pleasured by another man. A big black man. I get feelings of excitement with the thought of my wife being pleasured to a level I can’t. I genuinely want her to feel that. It’s also oddly an empowering feeling for me, her is and the bull. It also fuels the competitiveness in me. Not in a bad way, I a way of wanting to serve my queen more!
I have already broke the ice to her. Not sure if I did it “correctly” but hind sights suggests maybe? I brought up the fetish topic. She said she has none. Now she is a shy person in regards to embarrassment.
I think she might feel that if she told me. So I took the leap and went first. Told her that the thought of her being with another man turns me on. That I would love to see her physically interact with another man. Like dancing and flirting. She was TOOK BACK lol. Quite, didn’t know how to respond. Then said “ok, I can see that. Is this something you WANT to happen, or just like to think it?” I told her I would want to take baby steps. She immediately shot it down. I tried to assure her that this is no back door way to be with another woman or anything. I just want to see her satisfied fully. Also because I think it’s hot. After shooting it down she said she’s not worried about the reservations I brought up. That although she wasn’t open to it she would be worried about her corporate job and that I already satisfy her. She said she was sorry that she couldn’t give this to me. Then jokingly asked “you would be cool with me giving head? Lol. And kissing you after??” She said this in a much different way. About a hour or two after the initial conversation. She said it as if it was a normal conversation. Like as if there was hope.
She says she does not watch porn but once a few years back while looking something up on her phone while she was there with her permission I accidentally saw pornhub pages on her tabs. The categories were interracial (Shane diesel), interracial creampie/ gangbang and girl on girl. I was SHOCKED but in a good way. She saw my shocked face and immediately said that her and her friend were looking for a girl that they know who got into porn. I tried telling her this is ok! She didn’t believe me and kept defending. I think this was out of embarrassment.
Her parents are pretty conservative. I think this plays into her not wanting to open up more sexually. I know she’s attracted to black men. I’m VERY observant. When there is a black man in the room, she doesn’t hid her eyes sticking to him. When she notices a black man eye fucking her, she does things to purposely let him see. Hair flicking, standing up, either back to him or from the side pull her jeans up and hop a little. Walking the long way by them etc. When they hit on her she gets all giddy and eats it up.
So, with ALL that said. My request is what now friends?
thank you!
