Very lucky here in industrial West Midlands Uk. Very large population area and very multiracial. When i was a girl back in the 80s there were negative comments but not now. White girls with black or Pakistani/Indian boyfriends are very common. Lots of children with mixed heritage. Lots of families with non white relatives. When I go to a wedding or whatever now, you see family members of all different ethnicities. This has stopped a lot of racist and silly comments. How can you criticsize if your own family members have non white *******? Hopefully this will be the same everywhere and racism will slowly disappear. X
Backlash against white women who date Blackmen
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youngblackcock
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It's interesting on how some black women think that proper Carlton black guys date white women.
London is very multicultural but it's still a big taboo here. At least from the Asian perspective.
You see white women with black men all the time. But an Asian women is much more likely to be seen with a white guy than a black guy. Most Asian girls/women I know would consider dating a white guy if they were daring enough to take the chance. Even if they were into black guys it's not something many women seen willing to admit to.
One of my friends is dating a black guy and has shared a few hush hush stories with us. The other girls all say they don't find black men attractive but they're all unsubtle about wanting to know what it's like in bed with one. I have to smirk and hold my tongue lol.
He might've been a member of this site.
We know a black women who sees an English man. She won't introduce him to her family as she is terrified of how they will react.
missfitness92
Female
Quintessential query remains, that why are black women left behind.. ? If there's such a mad rush in dating white/Indian ladies by their men? I feel, the link above is somewhat justified.
I agree with you. Problem is (and its probably a good problem) is many black guys or white guys think they will have an angry Indian ******* and brothers after them or if Pakistani that the men will only let their daughters go out with muslims etc!
Theyre a bit nervous I think of upsetting communities! But like everything, hopefully barriers will come down over time. X
We have chosen to live in a very progressive area. However, I've experienced this within the swinger community. Somehow you're a big slut if you are into beautiful, hung black men but if you just swap spouses with people just like yourselves it's okay. F*ck them. We like what we like. I think some of it is jealousy and some people are just into shaming. Don't waste your energy on that stuff.
I was 13 before I ever saw a real live black guy, other than on TV, magazine, etc. There just weren't any black people in the area of the country I grew up in. So being prejudice just wasn't in our nature. It wasn't until I attended a cadet summer camp that I came face to face with my first black person. I wasn't the least bit intimidated by them, nor did I discriminate against any of them. Unfortunately, I did hear some rather disparaging remarks made, both ways, by some of the older cadets.
I hope no one is offended by my recounting my initial reaction upon meeting my fellow black cadets. I often recall that experience with a chuckle, even with the many black friends I still have. Naturally I knew they were black, that was evident, but my curiosity was, "are they really black all over!" It was truly baby's naivety and I honestly laugh at myself every time I think of it, even now as I write about it. Another thing that happened the second day we were at camp that has left a long lasting impression on me. It was after an evening baseball game when three other cadets and I headed for the showers! We were billeted in barracks on a military base and the showers were all in one room with the usual military concern for privacy. In other words, "nonexistent". There were however dividers about waist high and probably measured 2 ft. square. Anyway, we entered the shower room from the change room, towels wrapped around us, and very unassuming. Then we noticed this much older black cadet, the shower running, he was all soaped up and was masturbating like nothing either of us had ever seen before. Either he didn't notice us or didn't give a damn, or perhaps, was so near ejaculating he just couldn't stop. Within minutes he cum, again neither of us had ever seen anything like this in our short lives. Naturally that experience became a cause célèbre for discussion each evening whenever the four of us got together, and for the balance of our two week stay there. Of course those conversations included some, well maybe a lot, exaggeration, so much so that this guys member grew from what we thought initially to be 10 - 12 inches, to multiples of feet! It's a fact, one kid had sworn, through some mathematical calculation with which he held qualification for, that this guys BBC had to be at least 27 inches! Of course, considering our age, we almost believed it.
The reason I relate this story is two fold. Firstly, I can honestly say that this was, and still is, the only time that I ever shared comment about black people, but it wasn't in a negative way. Secondly, it was this experience that left me with the fantasy of wanting to see a black guy do a white girl! Imagine, a BBC into a tiny white horny pussy! Little did I ever think that I'd have that experience. Lesser still that the black man screwing that white girl with the tight white pussy would be my old university friend and roommate, Edwin! Never, even in my wildest of fantasies did I ever dream that the white girl my black friend was screwing would be my wife!
Have I seen discrimination since then. Unfortunately I have. I do extensive global travel on a monthly basis. I've seen descrimination in every direction, white against black, black against white, Asian against Caucasian, and vice versa. You'll find it between religions, right now at this time in history it's never been so prevalent! Different denominations against each other, different religious faiths against each other. They say there are three main reasons for war, Politics, Religion and Race! Need I say more. There are no monopolies on descrimination, it's an equal opportunity failure on all parts of the human genre!
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VPLBLK
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but they're all unsubtle about wanting to know what it's like in bed with one. I have to smirk and hold my tongue lol.[/QUOTE]
I think the conversation would be the same if It was a bunch of black girls and one of them was the only one that had ever dated a white guy, It's just what girls do, would not read to much into it.
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VPLBLK
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I find this interesting some people posting in reaction to you seem to be defending women who say they only date men of certain race in this case black men, but are at the same time saying that white people and Asian people who prefer to stick to there own people are some how prejudiced and have racist views. Just an observation.
AMEN SISTER!!!!! I AM AND WILL BE TOTALLY UNDER THE RADAR. WE HAVE TO BE VERY VERY DISCREET AND WILL NOT PLAY IN OUR CITY. IF IT WAS FOUND OUT WE WOULD BE DESTORIED.
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MikeD
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People in 2015 with hang ups about race and dating or marriage are complete fools and should be ignored or if need be put in their place. As a white guy with bi-racial nephews and a niece I would be as guilty as anyone who made derogatory comments if I heard them and didn't speak up. Love is love.
I live in Alabama, and go out with my bf quite often. We never get derogatory stares from the people you'd think we would. The ugly stares we've received were from black women. Then it was just on one occasion.
nevercanthinkof1
Couple
Wife here
I was a closet BBC slut for a while because I saw what the other girl that I knew went through when it became known that she was into Black guys. My senior year of college, when I was living away from my family, I was pretty open about it and I still got flack from people. I got it equally from white and Black people (well Black women).
I'm a closet BBC slut again, but thats more because I don't want my ******* finding out. Its easier these days, from what I've seen in the area where I live. But I remember when it was very not.
I was a closet BBC slut for a while because I saw what the other girl that I knew went through when it became known that she was into Black guys. My senior year of college, when I was living away from my family, I was pretty open about it and I still got flack from people. I got it equally from white and Black people (well Black women).
I'm a closet BBC slut again, but thats more because I don't want my ******* finding out. Its easier these days, from what I've seen in the area where I live. But I remember when it was very not.
I've been dating white women (all ethnicities, actually) my entire life. I think people stare becuz it is something different. I thought it was because me and my gal looked so hot together
yeah that happens a lot, lol!
I was married to a beautiful asian woman for a long time...
I don't think that is true for ALL asian women as 'sluts' because we had a very large social/professional circle and never experienced any crazy racial backlash.
maybe it depends on where you are in the world - and maybe it depends on how people carry themselves in public?
I know that people would stop and compliment us all the time as a 'beautiful couple'.
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I bet alot of those same men who bash IR relationships are the same men who go on websites like this or watch IR porn at night when nobodys around. I happen to get ALOT of enjoyment out of IR porn alot more than regular white on white in fact. And if women of any color enjoy being with black men as much as I like
watching it, then more power to em! You
girls rock, just keep doing your thing!
watching it, then more power to em! You
girls rock, just keep doing your thing!
