#1 if my preference is to be with a man of a darker persuasion, it's going to be what I am actually with.
#2 Why would I deny myself what I prefer
#3 If I was in a relationship with white bread, I would always want it toasted
So why would ANY women live her life that way? And if she did it bc the hubby wanted it, and now it's what SHE prefers then let her go..