We do this semi regularly with a guy we know, many many times with him on and off for 5 years.
We have kinda dabbled with 2 different guys, one once, another three times.
We are not the swinger type, whatever that is. You'd never know we do this if you met us, none of our friends know.
When we started it was maybe 3 times a year. During covid we weren't working or going anywhere so it was 3 or 4 times a week. Now it's 2 or 3 times a month.
We rarely argue, we never argue about sex, we have sex often. Sometimes it's a quicky in the kitchen, backyard or garage, other times it's a nice session at night.
Him visiting is something extra we enjoy, it dosent consume our lives. There's been times we've lined it up but we or him had to cancel, it's not a big deal.
We do enjoy when he visits, he's a cool guy, we're all comfy together, we relax and enjoy a night of sex.
He's younger, 34, clean, polite, can carry on an intelligent conversation.
We are mid 50s, normal as hell. We're classy, clean, don't smoke, we have jobs. We have a nice home, clean cars, we can afford to go out to dinner and on vacations. We have a pretty big group of social friends.
I will say my very conservative, classy wife gets really turned on and wants fucked for hours when he's with us.
It's a fun time.