That is where i find my self today. I finally got her to admit she wants to have a black man. How ever her expression about them and how much shes always wanted to be with a black lover makes me feel like inadequate for her.
I want her to have fun but i think we all have a limit.
First of all, if your not comfortable don't do it. On the other hand, it IS a leap. Look, sex is a carnal need. People get into bad relationships for all kind of reasons but I sure as Fuck wouldn't want to be with a woman that i thought would leave me for a good FUCK. That's ridiculous. Does it happen. Sure. I suppose. Typically it's other reasons though. Sex. Is sex. Thats it. Period. End of story. When my woman is fucking another man, it's because she wants to get fucked by a hard cock and quite honestly one cock can only do so much. There are different sizes, shapes, and colors and to me, there's nothing wrong with trying those different sizes shapes and colors out. Inadequate? In what way. Do you do your part in the relationship? Are you ignoring her needs? Then you would be inadequate.