Are There Any Husbands Here Who Regret Letting Their wife Play?

[Latina 4 BBC]

They're always fearful. I try my best to tell them the reality of things: that not every wife would want this. And even if she does, it might take a while. But there're as well some husbands who inevitably get jealous seeing how much their wives get to enjoy their Black lovers so much.

This is where i find my self. My wife has shown interest in black guys but is too shy and scared to cuck me. I brought up the subject about 3 years ago and still nothing.
Deep inside i am scared that she will not want me anymore after a bull pounds her deep and good.

 

[Latina 4 BBC]

Most bulls won't care for wanting to involve a husband, of course. Hence why I don't share with them.

So i should give up the idea of my wife being taken by a bull in front of me?

 

[dunacouple]

This is where i find my self. My wife has shown interest in black guys but is too shy and scared to cuck me. I brought up the subject about 3 years ago and still nothing.
Deep inside i am scared that she will not want me anymore after a bull pounds her deep and good.

Before you push too much make sure of the following:

She has zero doubt you will leave her.
She is reminded constantly of your love.
She feels special and secure about her body.
To please her emotionally.

This will give her confidence you are committed. While increasing the likelihood she will want to be reassured by a 3rd party. Humans are innately pre disposed to cheat. You are offering her a much better option. Psychologists think claiming your partner too much or too little is one of the main components to cheating. Be sure not to be too claiming. But realize the power of this knowledge...

I am not a typical beta cuck. We enjoy a D/s dynamic, have an open raltionship etc. But I appreciate the difference: you have to be honest about your beta status. If you are a beta make sure she knows and feels this during sex. If ou are more alpha and don't get excited by humiliation etc, make sure your role is very clearly defined.

I talk with my wife about sperm competition and possible evolutionary reasons for this kink. This brings some normalcy to the discussion, making it less taboo. Read up on evolutionary psychology if you are interested in these type of things. Just googling the term why do people cuckold will yield plenty of interesting articles you can bring up to create a shared understanding of the kink.

 

[extrafun]

I doubt its real.

Agreed

 

[bigblackcocklover]

Yet another sick fantasy story.

That's your thoughts

 

[bellnyc]

I don't know WHY people can't get hard for days after and penis shrinks? I call bullshit.
My problem is i can't stop being hard.. i agree it is a bit strange after you nut especially if the guy is still fucking her or putting on his clothes but the feeling comes back and you get turned on again and again.

Its all for fun don't take nothing too serious

 

[dunacouple]

I don't know WHY people can't get hard for days after and penis shrinks? I call bullshit.
My problem is i can't stop being hard.. i agree it is a bit strange after you nut especially if the guy is still fucking her or putting on his clothes but the feeling comes back and you get turned on again and again.

Its all for fun don't take nothing too serious

Lack of testosterone.

 

[alansub]

I don't know WHY people can't get hard for days after and penis shrinks? I call bullshit.
My problem is i can't stop being hard.. i agree it is a bit strange after you nut especially if the guy is still fucking her or putting on his clothes but the feeling comes back and you get turned on again and again.

Its all for fun don't take nothing too serious

Yea it varies by person but, iv had moments that I am hard nonstop even after I cum. but normally I shut down right after orgasm for a good bit. My bestfriend can stay hard on command for as long as he wants, hence why my wife cant get enough lol

 

[bellnyc]

Yea it varies by person but, iv had moments that I am hard nonstop even after I cum. but normally I shut down right after orgasm for a good bit. My bestfriend can stay hard on command for as long as he wants, hence why my wife cant get enough lol

all I'm saying is some responses are extreme and probably by people who have never lived this. i started at a young age letting my girl (19) school friends gangbang and nut on her face till now with my fiancé (29) fucking college ******* in club bathrooms lol i never lost my mojo

 

[pirates16]

It might sound sick but I luv watching my wife cream all over her bbc lovers

 

[KCCUCKOLDCOUPLE]

This is Brian. The Cuckold. We have NO regrets. Whatsoever. I have none. Its all about communication.

Just last night we had 3 BBC men over fucking Amber. I can say it was lengthy. She was worse out after, but no regrets. She enjoyed it and I loved watching it.

Insecurity in a relationship will breed regret. I am secure. Secure in my bisexuality. That it is a strength. Not a weakness. Secure in my ability to provide pleasure to my woman, if not directly then by her BBC lovers.

Envious? Of course. Jealous? Nah. Humiated. Of course. But I get my reward. I LOVE that creampie. LOVE it. Everytime. We both get what we want. If one partner isn't then that will breed regret.

I will post some pics and videos of last night's adventure later.

 

[Craig Rudd]

I do, then I don't, then I don't then I do.

It's a mindfuck at times.

The swingers we know help me with these feelings. I know my wife is a naturally sexual woman. She's beautiful and liberated and I should embrace that.... but sometimes it's about the sex when I'm not feeling it, and she's learning but still gets upset about me not willing to let her. It's not all the time, sometimes I'm down and I tell her to go for it, call him up. But not all the time, and sometimes she just goes when she knows I'll be busy. She tells me, always does but still.

What really gets me is when she gets really personal with them, texting and selfies and booty call at inopportune times.

 

[KCCUCKOLDCOUPLE]

I do, then I don't, then I don't then I do.

It's a mindfuck at times.

The swingers we know help me with these feelings. I know my wife is a naturally sexual woman. She's beautiful and liberated and I should embrace that.... but sometimes it's about the sex when I'm not feeling it, and she's learning but still gets upset about me not willing to let her. It's not all the time, sometimes I'm down and I tell her to go for it, call him up. But not all the time, and sometimes she just goes when she knows I'll be busy. She tells me, always does but still.

What really gets me is when she gets really personal with them, texting and selfies and booty call at inopportune times.

i will say that the ANGST and swinging moods is a part that i think ANY sane man would feel. i completly understand everything you said. Amber is the same way. VERY sexual. BUT i know she loves me and for her its "Just SEX". emotionally WE are attached. so, in that way i have no regrets.

 

[Craig Rudd]

Another thing I don't like and would like to change is that there are times I need a little more sensitivity from her. She gets a little cold with me when she gets smitten about being with a particular partner.. like a date is made and I was not in the decision yet she tells me like as if I agreed to it, or she wears something she and I bought for her, but she wears it first on a date with him... I know it's stupid small stuff but sometimes that ******* matters to me.

 

[KCCUCKOLDCOUPLE]

I don't know WHY people can't get hard for days after and penis shrinks? I call bullshit.
My problem is i can't stop being hard.. i agree it is a bit strange after you nut especially if the guy is still fucking her or putting on his clothes but the feeling comes back and you get turned on again and again.

Its all for fun don't take nothing too serious

I get rock hard and have plenty of jack off material for quite some time after is see her getting fucked. To me, even porn doesnt compare.
Do i wish i could make her scream like that? Sure. Do i regret her getting fucked and getting to scream like that? No. Im secure enough to know if i keep her well fucked she isnt leaving me.

 

[Jimsopen]

Another thing I don't like and would like to change is that there are times I need a little more sensitivity from her. She gets a little cold with me when she gets smitten about being with a particular partner.. like a date is made and I was not in the decision yet she tells me like as if I agreed to it, or she wears something she and I bought for her, but she wears it first on a date with him... I know it's stupid small stuff but sometimes that ******* matters to me.

The cat is out of the bag Craig and that ship has sailed. Your opinion and feelings don't really matter to her anymore. IMO it's only gonna get more severe. Sorry bro. Embrace it. You're say doesn't matter. Her black men say what goes

 

[TopCat]

The high point of cuckolding is when your wife says she wants the other guy all the time and never wants you. Emotional scarring isn’t for everyone. Even if you never do cuckolding again, your wife will have always had that great time, and you'll both know.

 

[dunacouple]

The cat is out of the bag Craig and that ship has sailed. Your opinion and feelings don't really matter to her anymore. IMO it's only gonna get more severe. Sorry bro. Embrace it. You're say doesn't matter. Her black men say what goes

If he is a smart man he states his case, let's his partner decide if she obliges and if not he leaves her.

Because it will indeed only get worse. And frankly it sounds like he became a beta the wife does not like. Embracing it would just be detrimental to his self esteem. I think such advice is harmful.

 

[Latina 4 BBC]

I get rock hard and have plenty of jack off material for quite some time after is see her getting fucked. To me, even porn doesnt compare.
Do i wish i could make her scream like that? Sure. Do i regret her getting fucked and getting to scream like that? No. Im secure enough to know if i keep her well fucked she isnt leaving me.

That is where i find my self today. I finally got her to admit she wants to have a black man. How ever her expression about them and how much shes always wanted to be with a black lover makes me feel like inadequate for her.
I want her to have fun but i think we all have a limit.

 

[dunacouple]

That is where i find my self today. I finally got her to admit she wants to have a black man. How ever her expression about them and how much shes always wanted to be with a black lover makes me feel like inadequate for her.
I want her to have fun but i think we all have a limit.

Just because you have the wrong skin color? if you really are inadequate and you love your wife, leave her. She deserves better. But that would also mean she is with a man she actually does not like. Does any of that sound reasonable?