Easygliderpro
Male
It’s called addiction. Nothing good comes out of addiction....Gf was in the lifestyle when I met her. She's my neighbour in a flats building. But I'm regretting my role in what's happening to this lady. She obsessed with her black men and her children are missing out on having a real *******.
Whatever you feed into your fantasy, if it becomes a reality, then addiction.....
I have seen and witnessed a happily married couple with children, their lives spiraled out of control because of this lifestyle. It was a bitter and ugly divorce, each one of them taking turns; punching back at each other in courts.
Some fantasies are better off kept as a fantasy. You can play out your fantasy in bed with your partner, but you can’t rewind or undo reality once It’s done.