markmarkrv
Male
I agree. He could get upset and tell me to fuck off. Thanks for the advice.
Approaching a Black Guy In Public
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You DON'T. I've said this before and it might bear repeating. The vast, vast, vast majority of brothers aren't into this. The same way the vast majority of couples aren't into this. The internet along with sites like this and porn have got your mind all twisted into thinking that every black man you see is interested in fucking your girl. They're not. The same way every couple isn't interested in me fucking the wife/girlfriend. You're much better off joining a site(a paid one) and reaching out that way.
IMHO
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markmarkrv
Male
I understand. Thanks for the advise.
Yes some of us would think it’s some Jeffrey Damer setup, you can never tell! Shoot your shot man, just do it like with confidence! It’s like a sales pitch, give her number let the chips fall where they may!
I myself am curios and don’t know how to approach blk men to see if they interested in my wife
Yea, I’m w Moody on this one.
1, we tend to be suspicious of motives. ******* could be a set up or some gay *******. And some pussy falln into the lap out of the blue always seems too good to be true, especially coming from a dude without the pussy. lol. The 1 time I went against my better judgement, turned out dude was on some gay *******. Never again, smh.
2. Most bruhs aren’t into this *******. Out of all my homies, only 3 of us get down with couples.
I share my adventures and have tried to put some on when I’ve been requested to bring a friend, but my homies have zero interest and likely couldn’t get it up if they were to find themselves in the situation.
But... do you, nothing beats a fail but a try.
Very well said man and exactly why I haven’t approached a guy myself I wouldn’t want him to think bad or not even be into this
markmarkrv
Male
Thanks for your advice. I was thinking I could say: "My friend is shy, but she wants me to show you her picture and would like to go out with you" As you state, with confidence.
Regards
If you're wife is HOT just ask Ol,Boy if he want to "Crush Dem Gutz" lol...Ain't that Hard.Oh boy may say Hell Yeah homie I will KNOCK the CERVIX out ya ol lady.
hotwife7417
Couple
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hotwife7417
Couple
Very well stated opinion. That’s real talk. I think that as a husband that absolutely loves watching his wife coming on cox that areAt least twice as big as mine, there is a special dynamic that occurs when my wife has sex with very large men. We enjoy the cultural taboo of interracial but that is not the main motivation behind our lifestyle choice. The main reason is that she just thoroughly enjoys a large dick is nothing more nothing less the fact that it is a very large black cock as a extra dimension of pleasure for us but it is not the deciding factor. I agree join a paid site and support the platforms that provide freaks like us to have fun but if a black man is a paid verified member of a paid site then we know that there is a higher chance that he is an experienced bowl ultimately we come and pay on sites like this to find a bone and the bottom line is it’s just a lot simpler to go online and interact with a group of men that already enjoy sucking other men’s wives. We want an experience bowl that knows what to do how to do it and it just clicks is just the right one so if anyone is interested in South CarolinaPlease hit us up. It is better to have tried and been rejected then it is to try none at all
hotwife7417
Couple
Sorry for the typos I’m actually voice typing right now and you already know how that goes usually
Where you located in SC? And do you have a picture
Him how tall. hands an shoe size is he just talk.
And tell us what you want. We don’t read minds but we are approachable
Sorry... but this is horrible advice. DO NOT go up to random black men with a picture of your "wife" asking if they might be interested.
The vast, vast, vast, majority of brothers(and people in general) aren't into this.
I would say it's like fishing. Patience being the key and understanding that you may be using the wrong bait when you are searching. For most Men of Color especially non lifestyle men there is a lot skepticism especially when a man approaches about wife sharing or even wife watching. So, the first thought is this dude is on some (gay) bisexual stuff. Could lead to confrontation because you are using the wrong bait. Even pulling out your phone to show pics is skeptical because for non lifestyle men it usually can be viewed as a setup.
By having the right bait (your wife/GF) you can have her walk by a potential and you stand back watching his behavior. Most men can't really resist turning their head to watch a sexy woman walk by. If nothing more than to see her from the back. If he bites you have the right bait. Then you have her circle back with non verbal communication (eye contact and a smile) . Most white women very rarely take notice of a man of color and for me once eye contact and a smile is established indicates some interest.
At that point he should (I would) start with a conversation starter and she has the opportunity to engage in conversation and at some point you can be introduced non confrontational and more encouraging of their continued conversation.
Again, the regular guy isn't actually going to be cool with a female interested in him and then asking can her hub watch. Very surreal experience and mind blowing regardless how beautiful she is to the Male.
I am looking for people who are looking for me and with that being said, you have to be in the right fishing hole. A supermarket or shopping mall aren't the best fishing holes. There are lifestyle sites, clubs and conventions where you can find like minded people. It is much easier to catch a big one rather than trying to convert a new man regardless how ideal he may be for your wife. Most of the world is Vanilla and the Men 9f Color that can play at this level are unique and a small group that can actually handle being with a woman and her hub watches, videotapes or even participates in her pleasure.
My apologies for the dissertation.
TJ
By having the right bait (your wife/GF) you can have her walk by a potential and you stand back watching his behavior. Most men can't really resist turning their head to watch a sexy woman walk by. If nothing more than to see her from the back. If he bites you have the right bait. Then you have her circle back with non verbal communication (eye contact and a smile) . Most white women very rarely take notice of a man of color and for me once eye contact and a smile is established indicates some interest.
At that point he should (I would) start with a conversation starter and she has the opportunity to engage in conversation and at some point you can be introduced non confrontational and more encouraging of their continued conversation.
Again, the regular guy isn't actually going to be cool with a female interested in him and then asking can her hub watch. Very surreal experience and mind blowing regardless how beautiful she is to the Male.
I am looking for people who are looking for me and with that being said, you have to be in the right fishing hole. A supermarket or shopping mall aren't the best fishing holes. There are lifestyle sites, clubs and conventions where you can find like minded people. It is much easier to catch a big one rather than trying to convert a new man regardless how ideal he may be for your wife. Most of the world is Vanilla and the Men 9f Color that can play at this level are unique and a small group that can actually handle being with a woman and her hub watches, videotapes or even participates in her pleasure.
My apologies for the dissertation.
TJ
That was exactly our experience when we were out together trying to do pick ups for her! We gave that up and now I watch like a stranger as she either approaches the guy or waits till someone approaches her! Totally agree with the fishing analogy and she dresses the bait well and teases well! The eye contact and smile usually do it! I gave up watching the sex but love hearing about it later. Some guys she tells that I am aware but most she tells she caught her husband cheating with his secretary and has never done anything like this before! IT is all worth it to see her well used body after! Since it is usually in a hotel bar, she either comes back down to me or texts that she is sleeping over which makes a long sleepless erotic night for me. And HER! LOL. Picking her up the next morning is so damn hot!
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