Approaching a Black Guy In Public

[Thegoodtj]

That was exactly our experience when we were out together trying to do pick ups for her! We gave that up and now I watch like a stranger as she either approaches the guy or waits till someone approaches her! Totally agree with the fishing analogy and she dresses the bait well and teases well! The eye contact and smile usually do it! I gave up watching the sex but love hearing about it later. Some guys she tells that I am aware but most she tells she caught her husband cheating with his secretary and has never done anything like this before! IT is all worth it to see her well used body after! Since it is usually in a hotel bar, she either comes back down to me or texts that she is sleeping over which makes a long sleepless erotic night for me. And HER! LOL. Picking her up the next morning is so damn hot!

No sleep for you. Lol. Actually no sleep for her either. I actually enjoy calling the hub from her phone so he can hear us or it leaves a nice memorable recording if it goes to voicemail.

 

[Ezekiel]

No sleep for you. Lol. Actually no sleep for her either. I actually enjoy calling the hub from her phone so he can hear us or it leaves a nice memorable recording if it goes to voicemail.

I have never had him call but she calls sometimes or FaceTimes on rare occasions! And you are right about both of our lack of sleep! But it is so damn erotic and hot, who wants to sleep! My imagination runs wild! Then I get to hear what really happened! Twice the fun!

 

[Thegoodtj]

You can also have her wear her wireless ear piece and be in her ear while she is with him. That is also fun like you are there but not physically there.

 

[europa9922]

You DON'T. I've said this before and it might bear repeating. The vast, vast, vast majority of brothers aren't into this. The same way the vast majority of couples aren't into this. The internet along with sites like this and porn have got your mind all twisted into thinking that every black man you see is interested in fucking your girl. They're not. The same way every couple isn't interested in me fucking the wife/girlfriend. You're much better off joining a site(a paid one) and reaching out that way.

IMHO

Agree.......as much as all us here love the lifestyle..have to be very careful about mentioning anything about it in settings other than swinger oriented events......at nudist places/events it's poss. to subtly " put something out there " that the others can respond to..

 

[TarheelsMan71]

A handsome black man came to our office ...he is a pharmaceutical rep..we talked and he gave me his card..we have talked but just a matter of time till hes mine...mmmmmm

You can have me anyday

 

[cuckcplSTL]

a smile goes a long way, who know he might smile back

That would probably work if its the wife/girlfriend doing the smiling. Some dude starts smiling at another guy and probably making a wrong impression lol

 

[cuckcplSTL]

Thanks for your advice. I was thinking I could say: "My friend is shy, but she wants me to show you her picture and would like to go out with you" As you state, with confidence.

Regards

My advice would be let her do the flirting, better odds of success and she knows what she finds attractive. Just stay out of the way lol

 

[blkbull4whtcpl]

That's a hard one. Maybe just start a regular convo. Then act like you got a message. And tell him it's my wife she sent a pic. And well show him one of her in lingerie not naked. And on his reaction just tell him shes a freak. And then just tell him she's always wanted a black Male. So on and so on

This is great advice....this has happened to me several times. I've shared a few times on here...that I have been approached probably MORE often than I approach women. In the one time...the husband walked up and started a silly convo in the store about golf shoes (Dick's Sporting). I was wondering where he was going and then started thinking..."oh, he's gay). So I politely told him I had to go...good luck on the purchase. Just as I turned to walk away...he blurts out.."my wife finds you sexy". I froze, turned around and said..."what did she says exactly"? He smiled and took a deep breath...I could tell he was relieved by my response. He says..."let's go ask her". WOW...so freakin glad I didn't blow this guy off. What a dynamite wife...so now I'm thinking this is some kind of game. Not because she was above me...but she was easily a full 10 and they are picking up random guys in sporting good store. The way she looked and her body...he didn't have to do this at all. She was very shy and didn't say much except..."Hi, I know this is strange..it's strange for us too. I've wanted to try black and my husband finally convinced me to just try. I saw you walk in and told him...I'd would do you". Obviously the rest was history. Lasted 3 years...and used to see them out together often. We lived in the same area. I approached their table once with a load of their friends and said hi to him first then her. She smiled and quickly looked away...I later found out her sister and a close friend were at the table and saw her reaction to me and questioned her til she finally spilled the beans. I fucked the sister later. It depends upon the approach....directness without pushiness worked for me...otherwise I would have kept walking. Soooooo glad I didn't though. Helps to have a hot wife to offer too!