Almost everyone will tell you that you don't have choice. It's in your dna. You cant change who you are attracted to. Its who you are. Yourre too far gone. No one has ever came back. Blah blah blah.
It's all bullshit. Non of it is scientifically sound. I'm not saying it's easy. Or that's there is a quick fix. But there are so many resources and methods for mental help. People beat all sorts of addictions and fetishes. Imagine telling a heroine addict or ******* they don't have a choice and they should just embrace it.
Not everyone wants this. How many women or men have been manipulated into doing things they have regreted? How many destroyed their families over this? Or lost their lover? Men and women both often end up hating themselves.
Don't get me wrong. I'm not hating. If you love it and it positively ads to your life go for it. Just be honest as to why ypu are doing it and what you truly want. And stop telling people who want out they have no hope.
It's all bullshit. Non of it is scientifically sound. I'm not saying it's easy. Or that's there is a quick fix. But there are so many resources and methods for mental help. People beat all sorts of addictions and fetishes. Imagine telling a heroine addict or ******* they don't have a choice and they should just embrace it.
Not everyone wants this. How many women or men have been manipulated into doing things they have regreted? How many destroyed their families over this? Or lost their lover? Men and women both often end up hating themselves.
Don't get me wrong. I'm not hating. If you love it and it positively ads to your life go for it. Just be honest as to why ypu are doing it and what you truly want. And stop telling people who want out they have no hope.