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Just curious, am I the only normal white dude on this page?
I see these idiots with cages on their dicks, being pussy free, and tons of guys that only do what the 'bbc bull' tells them.

Honestly, it's sad. How have you became so feminized or emasculated that you enjoy this?

I'm honestly asking.

I tried to get my wife to go for a black guy, and it didn't work. I'm decently hung (7.5"), have an amazing oral game that gets her off, I make sure of it. My only issue is longevity during intercourse. So I wanted to find her someone that was as/more hung than me to make it last longer. And, honestly, I've had an attraction to black men. Since I was in my teens.
So for me, best of both worlds. Wife gets the longevity in the bedroom, maybe I get to tease my black-bi mentality.

But sweet Jesus, the shìt I see on here is unreal. I would never, NEVER, go without sex. And I would rather be killed than have my Italian cock caged up. So, I honestly just want to know the mindset of the guys that are into that, and the reasons why.

What do you honestly get out of not banging your wife?
What level of joy do you achieve from wearing a cage around your dick?

I would never do either of those things, but I'm curious.
 
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Talked about chastity with my wife, we decided it was a bad idea because as soon as I get hard I want to fuck her. We’ll talk dirty about some of the things people post on here, but it’s just fantasy for us. I don’t know if the people talking about the BNWO are serious or not, it’s the type of thing that’s hot in fantasy but soon as I cum I lose all interest. And my wife has pointed out that I’m the one attracted to bbc not her, she said any threesome with a black guy will focus on me.
 
This lifestyle has many many angles that all fall under this same umbrella. Your kink in this is just one type of aspect.
Humiliation is a huge part of the cuckold lifestyle in whatever form that takes.
In your case, it doesn't sound like its expressed outwardly so much.
In other's cases, its very out front and apparent and is expressed by being caged, verbal humiliation of the cuckold husband by the hotwife, bull or both, and then leading to more extreme cases of feminization of the husband to further achieve that humilation gratification.

In some cases, the turn on isn't coming from the husband as much as the wife wanting the husband to do that and him submitting to her wishes for her and her bulls pleasure. Him getting off on her getting off.
Othertimes its a mutual turn on where as other times it might only be the husband who gets off on being humiliated by the wife and bull and they just go with it.
What does the husband get from any of this?

That is the question! Its different for every single husband and hotwife..

You are asking a question you may not be able to understand the answer because you are only getting off on what you like, not what you don't like.

Looks like you have a lot of reading to do.
 
Pegramguy said:
This lifestyle has many many angles that all fall under this same umbrella. Your kink in this is just one type of aspect.
Humiliation is a huge part of the cuckold lifestyle in whatever form that takes.
In your case, it doesn't sound like its expressed outwardly so much.
In other's cases, its very out front and apparent and is expressed by being caged, verbal humiliation of the cuckold husband by the hotwife, bull or both, and then leading to more extreme cases of feminization of the husband to further achieve that humilation gratification.

In some cases, the turn on isn't coming from the husband as much as the wife wanting the husband to do that and him submitting to her wishes for her and her bulls pleasure. Him getting off on her getting off.
Othertimes its a mutual turn on where as other times it might only be the husband who gets off on being humiliated by the wife and bull and they just go with it.
What does the husband get from any of this?

That is the question! Its different for every single husband and hotwife..

You are asking a question you may not be able to understand the answer because you are only getting off on what you like, not what you don't like.

Looks like you have a lot of reading to do.
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I understand and am actually in to some of what you said. The humiliation part, especially. But for me it would be in a controlled atmosphere.
I, like you said, cannot understand the other aspect.
Pussy free, being caged. To me, and I might sound ignorant, but I literally don't understand, how that is sexually pleasing.

Again, I'm just curious.

The title to my post probably seems hypocritical and bigoted, but that wasn't my intention. I just don't understand how that works for the husband, sexually speaking.
 
Kellivoegele said:
Talked about chastity with my wife, we decided it was a bad idea because as soon as I get hard I want to fuck her. We’ll talk dirty about some of the things people post on here, but it’s just fantasy for us. I don’t know if the people talking about the BNWO are serious or not, it’s the type of thing that’s hot in fantasy but soon as I cum I lose all interest. And my wife has pointed out that I’m the one attracted to bbc not her, she said any threesome with a black guy will focus on me.
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I agree. And somewhat see that in my relationship. I, however, was actually wanting her to get more than 10 minutes of sex. Because that's when she seems to really get going.
But, like you said, if I truly think about it, it is/was probably more for my arousal than hers. Good point.
 
Ucumiclean said:
Just curious, am I the only normal white dude on this page?
I see these idiots with cages on their dicks, pussy free morons, and tons of guys that only do what the 'bbc bull' tells them.

Honestly, it's sad. How have you became so feminized or emasculated that you enjoy this?

I'm honestly asking.

I tried to get my wife to go for a black guy, and it didn't work. I'm decently hung (7.5"), have an amazing oral game that gets her off, I make sure of it. My only issue is longevity during intercourse. So I wanted to find her someone that was as/more hung than me to make it last longer. And, honestly, I've had an attraction to black men. Since I was in my teens.
So for me, best of both worlds. Wife gets the longevity in the bedroom, maybe I get to tease my black-bi mentality.

But sweet Jesus, the shìt I see on here is unreal. I would never, NEVER, go without sex. And I would rather be killed than have my Italian cock caged up. So, I honestly just want to know the mindset of the guys that are into that, and the reasons why.

What do you honestly get out of not banging your wife?
What level of joy do you achieve from wearing a cage around your dick?

I would never do either of those things, but I'm curious.
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Your normal is going to be different than someone else’s Normal. It’s all subjective to the person and what gives them pleasure. For example if you told your best friend you want a black guy to fuck your wife and to explore your black bi side my guess is he wouldn’t think your normal. some Men get pleasure out of being emasculated and feminized It’s why women get paid good money to be dominatrix. you say it’s sad that men have become feminized and emasculated but I’m sure there are lots of friends and family of yours that would say the same thing to you. It’s sad you want to share your wife sexually. Lots of men on here aren’t pussy free or caged and are stags instead of cucks. obviously being caged and pussy free isn’t your thing just like being bi might not be another persons thing. As couples progress in this lifestyle relationships change. I’ve seen many wives cut their husbands off from sex as the sex isn't pleasurable for them. So they find other ways to be Intimate As a couple. For most the cage is a sign of power and who is in charge in the relationship. Some are 24/7 caged and some are caged for maybe a day or two when the bull is coming over. some bulls will only agree To be with the wife if she agrees to cut her husband off as he wants to claim the pussy as his. As you can see there are a lot of dynamics and scenarios in this lifestyle and each couple will tailor there wants and desires for what bests for for them.
 
Not all men are capable of servicing a woman’s sexual needs in general, let alone with their dicks. Especially if they’re sporting average or below dicklets. So when those betas decide to get their pleasure a way without involving stimulation of their dicklets inside of a woman it’s just them realizing their place. It’s the natural progression of things and I appreciate it when small dick betas understand that rather than trying to overcompensate and pretend they’re something they’re not. Just be happy with your situation and let others find their happy place too. Look at it this way; the more that beta men accept being gay / feminized / caged / etc the more premium pussy there is for alpha men to have. It’s a win for everyone! 😁
 
Ucumiclean said:
I understand and am actually in to some of what you said. The humiliation part, especially. But for me it would be in a controlled atmosphere.
I, like you said, cannot understand the other aspect.
Pussy free, being caged. To me, and I might sound ignorant, but I literally don't understand, how that is sexually pleasing.

Again, I'm just curious.

The title to my post probably seems hypocritical and bigoted, but that wasn't my intention. I just don't understand how that works for the husband, sexually speaking.
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Understood. You have to pick and choose what parts of this lifestyle turn you on and leave the rest. I also could not be pussy free. Sex is a huge part of my life and a couple's life.. together.
But I understand there are just elements of this lifestyle that don't work for me, and vice versa. I just understand that part works for someone else and not me.
I don't try to rationalize or get in their head to help me feel better about what is getting them off because I can't imagine having to explain to someone completely repulsed by this lifestyle who isn't in it, and me attempting to explain what I get out of it.
And the same goes for the guys that put a wig on, dress up in lingerie and get completely feminized while servicing their wife's bull and letting the bull fuck them.
Its not my game or angle.
But, I understand its just their expression and take on taking the humiliation kink to the ultimate level for them as a couple, regardless that it was her, his or both of their ideas. I just ignore that part if it comes up in porn i happen to be watching.
 
Ucumiclean said:
Just curious, am I the only normal white dude on this page?
I see these idiots with cages on their dicks, pussy free morons, and tons of guys that only do what the 'bbc bull' tells them.

Honestly, it's sad. How have you became so feminized or emasculated that you enjoy this?

I'm honestly asking.

I tried to get my wife to go for a black guy, and it didn't work. I'm decently hung (7.5"), have an amazing oral game that gets her off, I make sure of it. My only issue is longevity during intercourse. So I wanted to find her someone that was as/more hung than me to make it last longer. And, honestly, I've had an attraction to black men. Since I was in my teens.
So for me, best of both worlds. Wife gets the longevity in the bedroom, maybe I get to tease my black-bi mentality.

But sweet Jesus, the shìt I see on here is unreal. I would never, NEVER, go without sex. And I would rather be killed than have my Italian cock caged up. So, I honestly just want to know the mindset of the guys that are into that, and the reasons why.

What do you honestly get out of not banging your wife?
What level of joy do you achieve from wearing a cage around your dick?

I would never do either of those things, but I'm curious.
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Sounds like that dynamic doesn’t work for you, it works for some people. There’s definitely some crazy stuff in the LS but to each their own.
 
Pegramguy said:
Understood. You have to pick and choose what parts of this lifestyle turn you on and leave the rest. I also could not be pussy free. Sex is a huge part of my life and a couple's life.. together.
But I understand there are just elements of this lifestyle that don't work for me, and vice versa. I just understand that part works for someone else and not me.
I don't try to rationalize or get in their head to help me feel better about what is getting them off because I can't imagine having to explain to someone completely repulsed by this lifestyle who isn't in it, and me attempting to explain what I get out of it.
And the same goes for the guys that put a wig on, dress up in lingerie and get completely feminized while servicing their wife's bull and letting the bull fuck them.
Its not my game or angle.
But, I understand its just their expression and take on taking the humiliation kink to the ultimate level for them as a couple, regardless that it was her, his or both of their ideas. I just ignore that part if it comes up in porn i happen to be watching.
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Very well said, and explained.
I am, and have always been, an 'each there own' kind of guy.
I was just looking to understand the how or why men go down that road. But yeah, I guess if that's what gets you off and makes you happy. Whatever works.
 
QOShotwifeDFW said:
Not all men are capable of servicing a woman’s sexual needs in general, let alone with their dicks. Especially if they’re sporting average or below dicklets. So when those betas decide to get their pleasure a way without involving stimulation of their dicklets inside of a woman it’s just them realizing their place. It’s the natural progression of things and I appreciate it when small dick betas understand that rather than trying to overcompensate and pretend they’re something they’re not. Just be happy with your situation and let others find their happy place too. Look at it this way; the more that beta men accept being gay / feminized / caged / etc the more premium pussy there is for alpha men to have. It’s a win for everyone! 😁
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It's especially a win for you. 😃
Love the ink, btw.
 
Its simple. You are taking something that you do not like, and you are fetishizing it. Packaging it into
QOShotwifeDFW said:
Not all men are capable of servicing a woman’s sexual needs in general, let alone with their dicks. Especially if they’re sporting average or below dicklets. So when those betas decide to get their pleasure a way without involving stimulation of their dicklets inside of a woman it’s just them realizing their place. It’s the natural progression of things and I appreciate it when small dick betas understand that rather than trying to overcompensate and pretend they’re something they’re not. Just be happy with your situation and let others find their happy place too. Look at it this way; the more that beta men accept being gay / feminized / caged / etc the more premium pussy there is for alpha men to have. It’s a win for everyone! 😁
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I think you explained it the best, this could have been my exact response and it would fit with my scenario. Especially the overcompensate part which I can say was me for most of my adult life... yuck
 
I guess it really comes down to the person! Our relationship doesn't involve cuckolding or denial. Sex between a couple builds upon that relationship and makes it stronger. My husband is dominant and in good shape. We enjoy interracial sex as part of our fantasy and sexual desires. He enjoys black and white females. I stick with black males because that is my turn on. We play together and have established rules to keep our relationship safe and honest. If I don't like a female he is interested in, it stops at that point. Same with if we meet a black male or I am interested in talking with him, my husband has to be in agreement. Some people get into this purely for fantasy, others realize that the cuckolding and chastity enhances their sexual experience. I have never once wanted to leave my husband for another man! I also have shut down his sexual playtimes when the females become attached. That is a no go area when you become emotionally attached regardless of your fantasy.
 
You have described and communicated it very well and you pointed a significant description, and I agree in my opinion he is a stag and certainly not a cuckold

There are stags and there are us cuckolds as mentioned 😀

As a sisicuckold myself it is a "norm" for me and I receive intense pleasure from this lifestyle
 
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Ucumiclean said:
Just curious, am I the only normal white dude on this page?
I see these idiots with cages on their dicks, pussy free morons, and tons of guys that only do what the 'bbc bull' tells them.

Honestly, it's sad. How have you became so feminized or emasculated that you enjoy this?

I'm honestly asking.

I tried to get my wife to go for a black guy, and it didn't work. I'm decently hung (7.5"), have an amazing oral game that gets her off, I make sure of it. My only issue is longevity during intercourse. So I wanted to find her someone that was as/more hung than me to make it last longer. And, honestly, I've had an attraction to black men. Since I was in my teens.
So for me, best of both worlds. Wife gets the longevity in the bedroom, maybe I get to tease my black-bi mentality.

But sweet Jesus, the shìt I see on here is unreal. I would never, NEVER, go without sex. And I would rather be killed than have my Italian cock caged up. So, I honestly just want to know the mindset of the guys that are into that, and the reasons why.

What do you honestly get out of not banging your wife?
What level of joy do you achieve from wearing a cage around your dick?

I would never do either of those things, but I'm curious.
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I agree with you.
 
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