College girlfriend and I had a... falling out, as it were. Reverse cowgirl, didn't realize the true situation.Forgive me for what I’m bout to say…..
But I’m anal about cleanliness and prep.
Someone had to do it.
I have been on both ends of butt stuff, and have taken a strap on and a real dick, and honestly large versions of both. I have a very specific cleaning routine I go with, and even if I know a date is happening in advance, I’ll adjust my diet that day too. Also taking daily fiber supplements helps if you play consistently. There are definitly ways to minimize the risk of something embarrassing….
But that risk is NEVER zero. It’s just a fact of nature. I have done it to people and I’ve had it done to me. Does it mess up the moment? Sure. But every time I’ve wanted to see the person again I did. I never let it stop a genuine connection. If you play enough with anal, it WILL eventually happen. Clean up, laugh about it, move on and enjoy.
She was initially mortified, calmed down immediately when she saw I wasn't upset (hey, it's a thing that can happen... at least none of it hit the sheets). Wiped up, had a shower, no worries.