It was my idea. I proposed it to my wife. Maria was shocked and surprised. She couldn't believe her ears! She couldn't believe that I was really asking something like this! And her answer was "no".
Advice on trying to convince BF on this lifestyle?
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Ohh I see. So how did you two get into it more or how did it end up to being to where you two are at now?
Because I feel if would be worse if she asked and you didn't like it :/ ie the roles were reversed
I can tell you from experience as a real woman that turned into a hotwife and then into a QOS; there are several prerequisite aspects of your relationship with your boyfriend that need to exist in order to determine whether or not you can have a fruitful and lasting relationship with him while also requiring sexual satisfaction from hung black men.
1. You must already enjoy sex with your bf/husband and be able to orgasm from penetration by him. If not then this lifestyle will ruin your relationship with him if any portion of your being together is based on sexual chemistry. The only way it can work otherwise is if he’s a complete beta bitchboi in which case there’s no reason to even be with him unless he is your sugar-boi.
2. He must want it as much or more than you. If you want it more then there’s no way that works unless again, beta bitchboi.
3. Unless he’s a beta and you’re dominating him then there needs to be mutual respect for each other’s willingness to continue in the lifestyle. If my husband asked me today to stop getting fucked by black men then I would (and I would expect him to respect me enough to stop having sex with other women too) just the same as he wouldn’t pressure me to continue to have sex with black men if I said I wanted to stop (but let’s be realistic, neither of those would ever happen
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4. Both of you need to be mature adults and be able to separate sex from love. Sometimes emotionally immature individuals can let lust confuse them into thinking it’s something more than it is. I’ve personally known several couples that went down the non-interracial swinging path that were not emotionally mature enough to not let themselves be fooled and it ruined relationships/marriages for multiple parties.
It’s normally better if one person in the relationship has prior experience with swinging in order to lead the way and show that they’re able to distinguish between lust and genuine intimacy. My husband had had prior experience with swinging and introduced me to it. That established the foundation for him to introduce me to sex with black men and thus my deciding to only ever have extramarital sex with black men from that point on. I actually went black only when it comes to my playmates almost 11 years ago now and have been married for nearly 10. Even after I had been run through by a couple dozen hung black men in my first year we still both knew we loved each other more than ever before and decided to get married since we both knew we’d never find anyone as compatible in every way including sexually. So if you think that’s who your man is and you think that urge isn’t going to go away then I suggest the next time you’re getting frisky you just ask him point blank if he’s like to see you get fucked by another man (a black man of course). Chances are very good that he will like that idea. If not, then you know that piece of information going forward. It’s not something to throw a relationship away over unless it’s actually impacting you mentally/emotionally. Good luck to you either way, if you are even a legit woman.
1. You must already enjoy sex with your bf/husband and be able to orgasm from penetration by him. If not then this lifestyle will ruin your relationship with him if any portion of your being together is based on sexual chemistry. The only way it can work otherwise is if he’s a complete beta bitchboi in which case there’s no reason to even be with him unless he is your sugar-boi.
2. He must want it as much or more than you. If you want it more then there’s no way that works unless again, beta bitchboi.
3. Unless he’s a beta and you’re dominating him then there needs to be mutual respect for each other’s willingness to continue in the lifestyle. If my husband asked me today to stop getting fucked by black men then I would (and I would expect him to respect me enough to stop having sex with other women too) just the same as he wouldn’t pressure me to continue to have sex with black men if I said I wanted to stop (but let’s be realistic, neither of those would ever happen
)4. Both of you need to be mature adults and be able to separate sex from love. Sometimes emotionally immature individuals can let lust confuse them into thinking it’s something more than it is. I’ve personally known several couples that went down the non-interracial swinging path that were not emotionally mature enough to not let themselves be fooled and it ruined relationships/marriages for multiple parties.
It’s normally better if one person in the relationship has prior experience with swinging in order to lead the way and show that they’re able to distinguish between lust and genuine intimacy. My husband had had prior experience with swinging and introduced me to it. That established the foundation for him to introduce me to sex with black men and thus my deciding to only ever have extramarital sex with black men from that point on. I actually went black only when it comes to my playmates almost 11 years ago now and have been married for nearly 10. Even after I had been run through by a couple dozen hung black men in my first year we still both knew we loved each other more than ever before and decided to get married since we both knew we’d never find anyone as compatible in every way including sexually. So if you think that’s who your man is and you think that urge isn’t going to go away then I suggest the next time you’re getting frisky you just ask him point blank if he’s like to see you get fucked by another man (a black man of course). Chances are very good that he will like that idea. If not, then you know that piece of information going forward. It’s not something to throw a relationship away over unless it’s actually impacting you mentally/emotionally. Good luck to you either way, if you are even a legit woman.
Good answer and details. Hopefully she will listen if she's a woman.I can tell you from experience as a real woman that turned into a hotwife and then into a QOS; there are several prerequisite aspects of your relationship with your boyfriend that need to exist in order to determine whether or not you can have a fruitful and lasting relationship with him while also requiring sexual satisfaction from hung black men.
1. You must already enjoy sex with your bf/husband and be able to orgasm from penetration by him. If not then this lifestyle will ruin your relationship with him if any portion of your being together is based on sexual chemistry. The only way it can work otherwise is if he’s a complete beta bitchboi in which case there’s no reason to even be with him unless he is your sugar-boi.
2. He must want it as much or more than you. If you want it more then there’s no way that works unless again, beta bitchboi.
3. Unless he’s a beta and you’re dominating him then there needs to be mutual respect for each other’s willingness to continue in the lifestyle. If my husband asked me today to stop getting fucked by black men then I would (and I would expect him to respect me enough to stop having sex with other women too) just the same as he wouldn’t pressure me to continue to have sex with black men if I said I wanted to stop (but let’s be realistic, neither of those would ever happen
4. Both of you need to be mature adults and be able to separate sex from love. Sometimes emotionally immature individuals can let lust confuse them into thinking it’s something more than it is. I’ve personally known several couples that went down the non-interracial swinging path that were not emotionally mature enough to not let themselves be fooled and it ruined relationships/marriages for multiple parties.
It’s normally better if one person in the relationship has prior experience with swinging in order to lead the way and show that they’re able to distinguish between lust and genuine intimacy. My husband had had prior experience with swinging and introduced me to it. That established the foundation for him to introduce me to sex with black men and thus my deciding to only ever have extramarital sex with black men from that point on. I actually went black only when it comes to my playmates almost 11 years ago now and have been married for nearly 10. Even after I had been run through by a couple dozen hung black men in my first year we still both knew we loved each other more than ever before and decided to get married since we both knew we’d never find anyone as compatible in every way including sexually. So if you think that’s who your man is and you think that urge isn’t going to go away then I suggest the next time you’re getting frisky you just ask him point blank if he’s like to see you get fucked by another man (a black man of course). Chances are very good that he will like that idea. If not, then you know that piece of information going forward. It’s not something to throw a relationship away over unless it’s actually impacting you mentally/emotionally. Good luck to you either way, if you are even a legit woman.
Open and honest communication removes doubt.
No magical formula
No manipulation
No Jedi Mind tricks
Give "The Ethical Slut" and or "Opening Up" a read. If so do I together and discuss along the way. The easiest things are the hardest things to do: Talk. Listen. Be empathetic. Mutually agree or respectfully disagree on who what why when how. If you can't relate to enjoy openly (whether you do this lifestyle or not) you might as well be "single" and act accordingly. My perspective...take what you want, disregard the rest.
No magical formula
No manipulation
No Jedi Mind tricks
Give "The Ethical Slut" and or "Opening Up" a read. If so do I together and discuss along the way. The easiest things are the hardest things to do: Talk. Listen. Be empathetic. Mutually agree or respectfully disagree on who what why when how. If you can't relate to enjoy openly (whether you do this lifestyle or not) you might as well be "single" and act accordingly. My perspective...take what you want, disregard the rest.
So if your husband wants to walk away from this lifestyle completely and never return you would do it?I can tell you from experience as a real woman that turned into a hotwife and then into a QOS; there are several prerequisite aspects of your relationship with your boyfriend that need to exist in order to determine whether or not you can have a fruitful and lasting relationship with him while also requiring sexual satisfaction from hung black men.
1. You must already enjoy sex with your bf/husband and be able to orgasm from penetration by him. If not then this lifestyle will ruin your relationship with him if any portion of your being together is based on sexual chemistry. The only way it can work otherwise is if he’s a complete beta bitchboi in which case there’s no reason to even be with him unless he is your sugar-boi.
2. He must want it as much or more than you. If you want it more then there’s no way that works unless again, beta bitchboi.
3. Unless he’s a beta and you’re dominating him then there needs to be mutual respect for each other’s willingness to continue in the lifestyle. If my husband asked me today to stop getting fucked by black men then I would (and I would expect him to respect me enough to stop having sex with other women too) just the same as he wouldn’t pressure me to continue to have sex with black men if I said I wanted to stop (but let’s be realistic, neither of those would ever happen
4. Both of you need to be mature adults and be able to separate sex from love. Sometimes emotionally immature individuals can let lust confuse them into thinking it’s something more than it is. I’ve personally known several couples that went down the non-interracial swinging path that were not emotionally mature enough to not let themselves be fooled and it ruined relationships/marriages for multiple parties.
It’s normally better if one person in the relationship has prior experience with swinging in order to lead the way and show that they’re able to distinguish between lust and genuine intimacy. My husband had had prior experience with swinging and introduced me to it. That established the foundation for him to introduce me to sex with black men and thus my deciding to only ever have extramarital sex with black men from that point on. I actually went black only when it comes to my playmates almost 11 years ago now and have been married for nearly 10. Even after I had been run through by a couple dozen hung black men in my first year we still both knew we loved each other more than ever before and decided to get married since we both knew we’d never find anyone as compatible in every way including sexually. So if you think that’s who your man is and you think that urge isn’t going to go away then I suggest the next time you’re getting frisky you just ask him point blank if he’s like to see you get fucked by another man (a black man of course). Chances are very good that he will like that idea. If not, then you know that piece of information going forward. It’s not something to throw a relationship away over unless it’s actually impacting you mentally/emotionally. Good luck to you either way, if you are even a legit woman.
Once the black dick pops out and about to fuck the wife in front of the husband for the first time, there's a long pause in the atmosphere and time stops for the husband. It could go smoothly or crazy in that moment.
If that’s what he asked me to do then yes because we love and respect each other. I know that will never happen though because he enjoys seeing me get run through by black men as much as I enjoy it. It also doesn’t hurt that we’re now monetizing my escapades and are both benefiting from that additional income.
I can tell you from experience as a real woman that turned into a hotwife and then into a QOS; there are several prerequisite aspects of your relationship with your boyfriend that need to exist in order to determine whether or not you can have a fruitful and lasting relationship with him while also requiring sexual satisfaction from hung black men.
1. You must already enjoy sex with your bf/husband and be able to orgasm from penetration by him. If not then this lifestyle will ruin your relationship with him if any portion of your being together is based on sexual chemistry. The only way it can work otherwise is if he’s a complete beta bitchboi in which case there’s no reason to even be with him unless he is your sugar-boi.
2. He must want it as much or more than you. If you want it more then there’s no way that works unless again, beta bitchboi.
3. Unless he’s a beta and you’re dominating him then there needs to be mutual respect for each other’s willingness to continue in the lifestyle. If my husband asked me today to stop getting fucked by black men then I would (and I would expect him to respect me enough to stop having sex with other women too) just the same as he wouldn’t pressure me to continue to have sex with black men if I said I wanted to stop (but let’s be realistic, neither of those would ever happen
4. Both of you need to be mature adults and be able to separate sex from love. Sometimes emotionally immature individuals can let lust confuse them into thinking it’s something more than it is. I’ve personally known several couples that went down the non-interracial swinging path that were not emotionally mature enough to not let themselves be fooled and it ruined relationships/marriages for multiple parties.
It’s normally better if one person in the relationship has prior experience with swinging in order to lead the way and show that they’re able to distinguish between lust and genuine intimacy. My husband had had prior experience with swinging and introduced me to it. That established the foundation for him to introduce me to sex with black men and thus my deciding to only ever have extramarital sex with black men from that point on. I actually went black only when it comes to my playmates almost 11 years ago now and have been married for nearly 10. Even after I had been run through by a couple dozen hung black men in my first year we still both knew we loved each other more than ever before and decided to get married since we both knew we’d never find anyone as compatible in every way including sexually. So if you think that’s who your man is and you think that urge isn’t going to go away then I suggest the next time you’re getting frisky you just ask him point blank if he’s like to see you get fucked by another man (a black man of course). Chances are very good that he will like that idea. If not, then you know that piece of information going forward. It’s not something to throw a relationship away over unless it’s actually impacting you mentally/emotionally. Good luck to you either way, if you are even a legit woman.
wow that is very detailed and concise! yes my bf and I (not husband just yet! hopefully..) have a great life and we definitely are still attracted to each other still
I don't really want my bf to change much either so no beta or stuff like that. I think the biggest thing for me would be to disconnect sex and love. I come from a more traditional household but I know it's easier for men lol. I trust my bf but that's sort of my anxiety with this. your marriage and situation sounds great! but obviously I don't want to jeapardize anything either :/
what I think I can do is at least ask but not as away to convince him either way, but more just as a way to get a sense of what his opinion is. Especially since it seems like this lifestyle can be ended fairly easily back to a "normal" life
Also it looks like there's a bit of a problem with fake profiles so thanks for letting me know lol
Thanks for the recommended books!
Wife and I have been in the swinger/cuck lifestyle for 30 years. She still gets off knowing I am watching her. unless your first experience is horrific, it will likely lead to more play. Have you floated the idea? he may be thinking the same thing you are but afraid to say anything.
I think you should rub your husbands cock while watching porn. Ask about his fantasies. Tell him you wish there were 2 of him so you could suck him while being fkd. He will open up.
That awesome but honest inwould bring u home bbc every night if u want me too
It's time to open courses for beginnersI can tell you from experience as a real woman that turned into a hotwife and then into a QOS; there are several prerequisite aspects of your relationship with your boyfriend that need to exist in order to determine whether or not you can have a fruitful and lasting relationship with him while also requiring sexual satisfaction from hung black men.
1. You must already enjoy sex with your bf/husband and be able to orgasm from penetration by him. If not then this lifestyle will ruin your relationship with him if any portion of your being together is based on sexual chemistry. The only way it can work otherwise is if he’s a complete beta bitchboi in which case there’s no reason to even be with him unless he is your sugar-boi.
2. He must want it as much or more than you. If you want it more then there’s no way that works unless again, beta bitchboi.
3. Unless he’s a beta and you’re dominating him then there needs to be mutual respect for each other’s willingness to continue in the lifestyle. If my husband asked me today to stop getting fucked by black men then I would (and I would expect him to respect me enough to stop having sex with other women too) just the same as he wouldn’t pressure me to continue to have sex with black men if I said I wanted to stop (but let’s be realistic, neither of those would ever happen
4. Both of you need to be mature adults and be able to separate sex from love. Sometimes emotionally immature individuals can let lust confuse them into thinking it’s something more than it is. I’ve personally known several couples that went down the non-interracial swinging path that were not emotionally mature enough to not let themselves be fooled and it ruined relationships/marriages for multiple parties.
It’s normally better if one person in the relationship has prior experience with swinging in order to lead the way and show that they’re able to distinguish between lust and genuine intimacy. My husband had had prior experience with swinging and introduced me to it. That established the foundation for him to introduce me to sex with black men and thus my deciding to only ever have extramarital sex with black men from that point on. I actually went black only when it comes to my playmates almost 11 years ago now and have been married for nearly 10. Even after I had been run through by a couple dozen hung black men in my first year we still both knew we loved each other more than ever before and decided to get married since we both knew we’d never find anyone as compatible in every way including sexually. So if you think that’s who your man is and you think that urge isn’t going to go away then I suggest the next time you’re getting frisky you just ask him point blank if he’s like to see you get fucked by another man (a black man of course). Chances are very good that he will like that idea. If not, then you know that piece of information going forward. It’s not something to throw a relationship away over unless it’s actually impacting you mentally/emotionally. Good luck to you either way, if you are even a legit woman.
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Use your panties to jerk him off.. then tell him anytime he is wearing them you will jerk him off.. soon he will be in panties all the time..
lol well yes thanks I guess. We do already watch porn with black guys in it so it's already something we'd enjoy!
I would love to be in a relationship with a girl like you. As someone who really loves what you have with your BF I can tell you this...Hi! I hope everyone is doing well. I don't know where to really ask this but hopefully this is the right place
To sort of start off, I've been watching interracial porn for a few years now and developed a bit of a kink for black men haha. I have a bf and we actually sometimes watch interracial porn together.
Obviously since I have a bf, I never really had this fantasy of trying it until I started learning there's these alternative types of relationships. I've been learning a lot about things like hotwife, cuckhold, three somes, open relationships lol. I've been wondering if these would be right for me as I lately have an urge to experience this fantasy once.
He seems to express interest but I've never actually asked him directly. Like this week I was dirty talking a bit and said something like "I wish a porn guy was here". He sort of just laughed and smiled so I think that's a positive sign?
Anyway any perspective would be nice or just share your experiences!
Your BF is more than ready to share you with a BBC. You really and absolutely have no reason to be ashamed by your desires. Your boyfriend would also love to see you get bred by a black man. There is only one thing... BE SINCERE WITH HIM!! As you share the BBC fantasy, whatch porn together and role play, trust me that he is absolutely willing to whatch a black bull cum inside you. Just be sincere, be open. When you role play step up the game. When he is inside you, consider his cock as black. Whisper to his ear that you love black cock cumming inside you when he cums. In your everyday life also just be sincere and tell him that you got hooked on the idea that BBC dominates your pussy. Ask him what he thinks about it but trust me, he is already into it. Just play innocent and tell him that you don't actually have to do it but that it is just the thing that makes you horny and wet the most. I hope that your boyfriend treats you right. Listen princess, no matter what people tell you on this forum the truth is only one... THERE IS NOTHING BETTER FOR A WHITE GIRL THEN A WHITE MAN THAT UNDERSTANDS AND SUPPORTS HER DESIRES! Be always aware of that. Your boyfriend is ready for this, trust me, but my other advice is... When you get blacked, you really have to get down with yourself and your own thoughts and demons. Be honest to yourself and introspect yourself in order to see if breeding with a BBC makes you love your BF even more or not? If it makes your love for him grow, respect him, love him, never lose him because it would mean that you are living your dream and in the end IT IS WHAT HE AND HIS LOVE FOR YOU ENABLED YOU TO HAVE! It is a possibility that when you experience BBC breeding, you lose all love and respect for your BF, BBC just converts you... AGAIN! JUST BE SINCERE WITH YOUR BF! Explain to him that you tried and opened Pandora's box and now things just changed. Admitt to him that now you want something different and get the guts to be truthfull to him and set him free.
If what you say is the truth, trust me, he wants to see BBC breed you and cum inside you more than you do! Sincerity and nothing else and you will have everything you wish for!
P.S: You will be bred by the BBC, its obvious... Just make sure for one thing when you choose your black bull... MAKE SURE THE BBC IS AS BIGGER AS POSSIBLE THAN YOUR BF IS! The bigger BBC you find, the more respect and love you get from your BF.
You are so pathetic its unbelievable... I really wish to respect you but your thoughts reek of hatred, insecurity and similar. Its really a shame since you are a good stud and have potential to be even better... Whats got into you? Many people here act so superficial and animalistic and ruin the experience for many...
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