I think if a relationship is healthy and stable, then there is nothing wrong with formulating your needs openly. Through such honest conversations your connection can even improve. Honesty and trust is very important. Good luck for you two
It's good to hear from the man's side! I just feel sometimes a relationship can be tested since this is a really new thing
Sit down and have the honest conversation with him about you entering this lifestyle. If he says no and against it....well darling you have a serious choice to make. Unlike everyone else I'm not going to push you into leaving a stable relationship for this lifestyle which could be chaotic at times. Since you haven't had a threesome and kinda vanilla to this I strongly advise you to proceed with caution. Maybe you just need a black boyfriend and nothing else. I suggest you take a long time to think before making the leap into this lifestyle because majority of people don't revert back to "normal" once crossing that line.Hi! I hope everyone is doing well. I don't know where to really ask this but hopefully this is the right place
To sort of start off, I've been watching interracial porn for a few years now and developed a bit of a kink for black men haha. I have a bf and we actually sometimes watch interracial porn together.
Obviously since I have a bf, I never really had this fantasy of trying it until I started learning there's these alternative types of relationships. I've been learning a lot about things like hotwife, cuckhold, three somes, open relationships lol. I've been wondering if these would be right for me as I lately have an urge to experience this fantasy once.
He seems to express interest but I've never actually asked him directly. Like this week I was dirty talking a bit and said something like "I wish a porn guy was here". He sort of just laughed and smiled so I think that's a positive sign?
Anyway any perspective would be nice or just share your experiences!
If it's an once and done thing. Maybe a black male ******* would be a way to do it without having any connections to the black guy
Sorry I think you were censored. A black male what?If it's an once and done thing. Maybe a black male ******* would be a way to do it without having any connections to the black guy
I suggested a black male e-scort. You can pick him out and leave him be whenever you're done with him.
It most likely won't be a one and done thing,
Perhaps you bf will like it so much he begs monthly for you to do it so he and watch. That happens too
How would u like u 1st experience 2 goHi! I hope everyone is doing well. I don't know where to really ask this but hopefully this is the right place
To sort of start off, I've been watching interracial porn for a few years now and developed a bit of a kink for black men haha. I have a bf and we actually sometimes watch interracial porn together.
Obviously since I have a bf, I never really had this fantasy of trying it until I started learning there's these alternative types of relationships. I've been learning a lot about things like hotwife, cuckhold, three somes, open relationships lol. I've been wondering if these would be right for me as I lately have an urge to experience this fantasy once.
He seems to express interest but I've never actually asked him directly. Like this week I was dirty talking a bit and said something like "I wish a porn guy was here". He sort of just laughed and smiled so I think that's a positive sign?
Anyway any perspective would be nice or just share your experiences!
Hopefully it's a positive experience if we try it!So wats his concernsOh I guess so haha. Well I don't know. If that happens we can talk about it
I'm not really sure to be honest
If there is love and confidence between you and your bf there is nothing to fear. Our relationship got much better and stronger since my wife started having sex with other men as well. We absolutely trust each other very much.The porn is very hot so I definitely understand. I
Thank you for sharing!
most of us here bloody would!
your bf is living the dream, he just doesn't know it yet!Ah so it got even stronger? So even more trust than before you opened it up?
Lol! I hope my bf is at least is as half as open minded as you all are
Exactly! This sexual lifestyle is based on confidence and trust. We don't have secrets between each other. There is no jealousy anymore. Maria is much happier and satisfied since she started having sex with other men, so our relationship is now much better and stronger than it was before.
your bf is living the dream, he just doesn't know it yet!
I'm jealous of him!
you'll get there, I have no doubthaha well It's not like we did anything yet other than look at porn
Ah okay. Who started or initiated this conversation? what was the reaction at first lol
