Advice on trying to convince BF on this lifestyle?

sexygirl4u

sexygirl4u

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Hi! I hope everyone is doing well. I don't know where to really ask this but hopefully this is the right place :)

To sort of start off, I've been watching interracial porn for a few years now and developed a bit of a kink for black men haha. I have a bf and we actually sometimes watch interracial porn together.

Obviously since I have a bf, I never really had this fantasy of trying it until I started learning there's these alternative types of relationships. I've been learning a lot about things like hotwife, cuckhold, three somes, open relationships lol. I've been wondering if these would be right for me as I lately have an urge to experience this fantasy once.
He seems to express interest but I've never actually asked him directly. Like this week I was dirty talking a bit and said something like "I wish a porn guy was here". He sort of just laughed and smiled so I think that's a positive sign?

Anyway any perspective would be nice or just share your experiences!
 
sexygirl4u said:
Hi! I hope everyone is doing well. I don't know where to really ask this but hopefully this is the right place :)

To sort of start off, I've been watching interracial porn for a few years now and developed a bit of a kink for black men haha. I have a bf and we actually sometimes watch interracial porn together.

Obviously since I have a bf, I never really had this fantasy of trying it until I started learning there's these alternative types of relationships. I've been learning a lot about things like hotwife, cuckhold, three somes, open relationships lol. I've been wondering if these would be right for me as I lately have an urge to experience this fantasy once.
He seems to express interest but I've never actually asked him directly. Like this week I was dirty talking a bit and said something like "I wish a porn guy was here". He sort of just laughed and smiled so I think that's a positive sign?

Anyway any perspective would be nice or just share your experiences!
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You have to try and see what the rest of us have found out we can't live without
 
sexygirl4u said:
Hi! I hope everyone is doing well. I don't know where to really ask this but hopefully this is the right place :)

To sort of start off, I've been watching interracial porn for a few years now and developed a bit of a kink for black men haha. I have a bf and we actually sometimes watch interracial porn together.

Obviously since I have a bf, I never really had this fantasy of trying it until I started learning there's these alternative types of relationships. I've been learning a lot about things like hotwife, cuckhold, three somes, open relationships lol. I've been wondering if these would be right for me as I lately have an urge to experience this fantasy once.
He seems to express interest but I've never actually asked him directly. Like this week I was dirty talking a bit and said something like "I wish a porn guy was here". He sort of just laughed and smiled so I think that's a positive sign?

Anyway any perspective would be nice or just share your experiences!
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How kinky has he been? Let you tie him up or put a cockcage on him yet?
 
wit said:
Hot.

cockages prevent him from getting a full erection, unless you allow that by unlocking him. So, you literally have him by the balls.


Try watching Cuckold Sessions porn. How long does he measure? Much small penis insecurity? Yet
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Oh okay I see it's probably like a kink thing lol. I've seen some cuckhold porn I guess

I'd say he's average? I don't think he's small
 
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sexygirl4u said:
Oh okay I see it's probably like a kink thing lol. I've seen some cuckhold porn I guess

I'd say he's average? I don't think he's small
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tell him you want to tie the up. Then measure 📏 him in inches and centimeters and ask him how he thinks he compares to the Black men in porn…

the teasing about small penis humiliation can be more about the power exchange of surrendering power to you, before, or because/in anticipation of a bigger, thicker, better Black man getting to fuck you.

if he really wanted you to get the best of all things, let it start with sex
 
sexygirl4u said:
lol welll I don't want to insult him! He's about 13-14 cm

I guess you have a good point about getting the best sex though. So why do think it's the best then? I've heard a lot of positive things
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Size matters. Thickness and length.

Big dick energy and that inherent confidence too.
Plus how much you lust due to natural curiosity….

Teasing insults can be erotic for him too
 
sexygirl4u said:
Ah okay :p SO I guess size does matter to some people. But yes confidence is important too :)

I'll maybe hold off on the teasing comments lol. I feel like it can be a bit hit or miss since many men have insecurities about that stuff
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Yes, but you can first ask in a nice way if he does have such insecurities? Part of how he feels excitement can be seeing you right there getting a longer, and much thicker penis to satisfy you too and his wonder of how that makes you feel going deeper inside than could dream of, and likely often does wish he had, so can want you to appreciate and like, or even acknowledge you enjoy that extra size
 
sexygirl4u said:
Hi! I hope everyone is doing well. I don't know where to really ask this but hopefully this is the right place :)

To sort of start off, I've been watching interracial porn for a few years now and developed a bit of a kink for black men haha. I have a bf and we actually sometimes watch interracial porn together.

Obviously since I have a bf, I never really had this fantasy of trying it until I started learning there's these alternative types of relationships. I've been learning a lot about things like hotwife, cuckhold, three somes, open relationships lol. I've been wondering if these would be right for me as I lately have an urge to experience this fantasy once.
He seems to express interest but I've never actually asked him directly. Like this week I was dirty talking a bit and said something like "I wish a porn guy was here". He sort of just laughed and smiled so I think that's a positive sign?

Anyway any perspective would be nice or just share your experiences!
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Just date black guy and see if you like it you can always tell your husband after or not lol
 
sexygirl4u said:
That's true I guess. Is that sort of why a lot of white men seem to be into this?

I was a bit surprised to learn that it's very popular with them too! If anything I'd thought they'd be a bit more jealous or hesitant of this kink or fantasy
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That jealousy is also acknowledging Black men as superior in bed, espeywhen much, much better endowed.

that and the urge for female dominance and wanting to be shown up in the bedroom
 
ChristyandJake said:
Just date black guy and see if you like it you can always tell your husband after or not lol
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lol wellll wouldn't that sort of be cheating or infidelity lol?

wit said:
That jealousy is also acknowledging Black men as superior in bed, espeywhen much, much better endowed.

that and the urge for female dominance and wanting to be shown up in the bedroom
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oh okay I see. I do hear that sometimes the jealousy does exist but then it seems like they sort of find it a turn on afterwards.
Hopefully he's like that too. I mean if he looks at interracial porn it's just the more "real version" of that lol
 
sexygirl4u said:
lol wellll wouldn't that sort of be cheating or infidelity lol?



oh okay I see. I do hear that sometimes the jealousy does exist but then it seems like they sort of find it a turn on afterwards.
Hopefully he's like that too. I mean if he looks at interracial porn it's just the more "real version" of that lol
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No turns him on more than interracial and now more than getting to watch you take BBC in person. The fear of you likely liking BBC much more than his smaller penis is a turn on too.

as long as he knows you will not dump him for BBC it’s will be fine.

does he cum inside you often?

Eat you out afterwards if so? Want to lick your pussy immediately after a Black man fucks you full of cum? Or lick that cum off your face and nipples?

See if he will lick his own cum up and swallow? Kiss him and feed him cum after sucking him off
 
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