Advice for young aspiring cuckolds?

WhiteCuck973

WhiteCuck973

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I'm a 25 year old married white man, my wife is about the same age. She's a beautiful redhead who is kind, sweet, caring, loving, smart, devoted, and somewhat vanilla. She says that she likes to be told what to do, and is traditional, but certainly loves bossing me around. Our marriage is strong and we are in love, however I cannot ever full satisfy her in bed and often times lose interest in sex, as I feel as though I do not deserve her and cannot please her, which I have accepted. I have an exceedingly strong desire for her to find a boyfriend/bull and enjoy that free lifestyle, which I have admitted to and expressed to her on several occasions. She has not taken these admissions well, and even expresses that the idea makes her upset. I am nervous to talk to her more about it, as I'm afraid that this will backfire and push her further away. I've told her that not only is it okay for her to have boyfriends and see other men, but that I encourage it and will help her in finding bulls. I want more than anything for her to take interest in black men, and have expressed this interest. I've even had her watch interracial cuckold porn with me, and periodically comment how hot black guys are, how manly, and how much I envy them. It has not been going well with her. I've been researching the benefits of an interracial cuckold marriage, which she has caught me doing so, and has watched me watching BBC cuckold porn multiple times. I told her that its what I'm into, and what I want for us, and she seems disgusted. I'm convinced that if I managed to get her to try meeting with a strong black man, let them establish a relationship, and eventually succeeded in getting her to have sex with a black man, her entire mindset would change. In our years of marriage, I've only ever made her orgasm once, and I'm fairly sure she faked it. I know that an experienced BBC Bull could show her how good sex should feel, and she would fall in love with it. The only thing that even arouses me is the thought of her having black boyfriends, but she currently only likes white guys. Does anybody have any advice for me and her? Is there any hope for me? I won't give up until she exclusively has sex with black men or other men in general. Sometimes I worry that I'll have to divorce her, and find a woman who will do this. I want her to have complete control to enjoy a bull(s) whenever and wherever she wants, and I'm not afraid or embarrassed about it. I want to get videos while I'm at work of her bull making her cum, and of her giving him head. I know some will say that this is a porn-induced fantasy, but the fact is I've always had a thing for black guys secretly, and ever since I was young I always enjoyed the thought of women I loved having lovers and boyfriends. Any thoughts or advice, I'm sure somebody else is in the same boat?
Also would love to talk to some bulls who might have useful insight.
 
Pretty similar story here also. I have been trying for 25 years for my wife to find a boyfriend or a fwb. I have given her a hall pass and have encouraged her to use it. I get turned down every time I mention it. It would really make my day to have her tell me she fulfilled my wildest dreams and had found a younger black stud. Do not get discouraged as someday you may get your desires fulfilled.
 
WhiteCuck973 said:
I'm a 25 year old married white man, my wife is about the same age. She's a beautiful redhead who is kind, sweet, caring, loving, smart, devoted, and somewhat vanilla. She says that she likes to be told what to do, and is traditional, but certainly loves bossing me around. Our marriage is strong and we are in love, however I cannot ever full satisfy her in bed and often times lose interest in sex, as I feel as though I do not deserve her and cannot please her, which I have accepted. I have an exceedingly strong desire for her to find a boyfriend/bull and enjoy that free lifestyle, which I have admitted to and expressed to her on several occasions. She has not taken these admissions well, and even expresses that the idea makes her upset. I am nervous to talk to her more about it, as I'm afraid that this will backfire and push her further away. I've told her that not only is it okay for her to have boyfriends and see other men, but that I encourage it and will help her in finding bulls. I want more than anything for her to take interest in black men, and have expressed this interest. I've even had her watch interracial cuckold porn with me, and periodically comment how hot black guys are, how manly, and how much I envy them. It has not been going well with her. I've been researching the benefits of an interracial cuckold marriage, which she has caught me doing so, and has watched me watching BBC cuckold porn multiple times. I told her that its what I'm into, and what I want for us, and she seems disgusted. I'm convinced that if I managed to get her to try meeting with a strong black man, let them establish a relationship, and eventually succeeded in getting her to have sex with a black man, her entire mindset would change. In our years of marriage, I've only ever made her orgasm once, and I'm fairly sure she faked it. I know that an experienced BBC Bull could show her how good sex should feel, and she would fall in love with it. The only thing that even arouses me is the thought of her having black boyfriends, but she currently only likes white guys. Does anybody have any advice for me and her? Is there any hope for me? I won't give up until she exclusively has sex with black men or other men in general. Sometimes I worry that I'll have to divorce her, and find a woman who will do this. I want her to have complete control to enjoy a bull(s) whenever and wherever she wants, and I'm not afraid or embarrassed about it. I want to get videos while I'm at work of her bull making her cum, and of her giving him head. I know some will say that this is a porn-induced fantasy, but the fact is I've always had a thing for black guys secretly, and ever since I was young I always enjoyed the thought of women I loved having lovers and boyfriends. Any thoughts or advice, I'm sure somebody else is in the same boat?
Also would love to talk to some bulls who might have useful insight.
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It is very hot and maybe she may do it
Just give her time and find the right people
Since you guys are young that might be an issue maybe she feels you will then want to do that with another female.
I can only say age can change things
It’s a great porn fantasy but even hotter in reality
Personally to many people get hung up about sex. Life is short. Very short You can never get time back
 
WhiteCuck973 said:
I'm a 25 year old married white man, my wife is about the same age. She's a beautiful redhead who is kind, sweet, caring, loving, smart, devoted, and somewhat vanilla. She says that she likes to be told what to do, and is traditional, but certainly loves bossing me around. Our marriage is strong and we are in love, however I cannot ever full satisfy her in bed and often times lose interest in sex, as I feel as though I do not deserve her and cannot please her, which I have accepted. I have an exceedingly strong desire for her to find a boyfriend/bull and enjoy that free lifestyle, which I have admitted to and expressed to her on several occasions. She has not taken these admissions well, and even expresses that the idea makes her upset. I am nervous to talk to her more about it, as I'm afraid that this will backfire and push her further away. I've told her that not only is it okay for her to have boyfriends and see other men, but that I encourage it and will help her in finding bulls. I want more than anything for her to take interest in black men, and have expressed this interest. I've even had her watch interracial cuckold porn with me, and periodically comment how hot black guys are, how manly, and how much I envy them. It has not been going well with her. I've been researching the benefits of an interracial cuckold marriage, which she has caught me doing so, and has watched me watching BBC cuckold porn multiple times. I told her that its what I'm into, and what I want for us, and she seems disgusted. I'm convinced that if I managed to get her to try meeting with a strong black man, let them establish a relationship, and eventually succeeded in getting her to have sex with a black man, her entire mindset would change. In our years of marriage, I've only ever made her orgasm once, and I'm fairly sure she faked it. I know that an experienced BBC Bull could show her how good sex should feel, and she would fall in love with it. The only thing that even arouses me is the thought of her having black boyfriends, but she currently only likes white guys. Does anybody have any advice for me and her? Is there any hope for me? I won't give up until she exclusively has sex with black men or other men in general. Sometimes I worry that I'll have to divorce her, and find a woman who will do this. I want her to have complete control to enjoy a bull(s) whenever and wherever she wants, and I'm not afraid or embarrassed about it. I want to get videos while I'm at work of her bull making her cum, and of her giving him head. I know some will say that this is a porn-induced fantasy, but the fact is I've always had a thing for black guys secretly, and ever since I was young I always enjoyed the thought of women I loved having lovers and boyfriends. Any thoughts or advice, I'm sure somebody else is in the same boat?
Also would love to talk to some bulls who might have useful insight.
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Same story here, I have always been small, 5”, and for the last 5 years or so have not been able to get an erection. I have been suggesting she try sex else where, and she only gets mad and says she has told me no. I really want her to be able to enjoy having sex with a real man. I am at a loss where to go from here .
 
Frankly 66 said:
Same story here, I have always been small, 5”, and for the last 5 years or so have not been able to get an erection. I have been suggesting she try sex else where, and she only gets mad and says she has told me no. I really want her to be able to enjoy having sex with a real man. I am at a loss where to go from here .
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Seriously……????????
Not being mean but my gawd if you are that young and you have erection or sexual health problems please go seek a medical professional. You need it…… unless you are a online whacker then carry on
 
WhiteCuck973 said:
I'm a 25 year old married white man, my wife is about the same age. She's a beautiful redhead who is kind, sweet, caring, loving, smart, devoted, and somewhat vanilla. She says that she likes to be told what to do, and is traditional, but certainly loves bossing me around. Our marriage is strong and we are in love, however I cannot ever full satisfy her in bed and often times lose interest in sex, as I feel as though I do not deserve her and cannot please her, which I have accepted. I have an exceedingly strong desire for her to find a boyfriend/bull and enjoy that free lifestyle, which I have admitted to and expressed to her on several occasions. She has not taken these admissions well, and even expresses that the idea makes her upset. I am nervous to talk to her more about it, as I'm afraid that this will backfire and push her further away. I've told her that not only is it okay for her to have boyfriends and see other men, but that I encourage it and will help her in finding bulls. I want more than anything for her to take interest in black men, and have expressed this interest. I've even had her watch interracial cuckold porn with me, and periodically comment how hot black guys are, how manly, and how much I envy them. It has not been going well with her. I've been researching the benefits of an interracial cuckold marriage, which she has caught me doing so, and has watched me watching BBC cuckold porn multiple times. I told her that its what I'm into, and what I want for us, and she seems disgusted. I'm convinced that if I managed to get her to try meeting with a strong black man, let them establish a relationship, and eventually succeeded in getting her to have sex with a black man, her entire mindset would change. In our years of marriage, I've only ever made her orgasm once, and I'm fairly sure she faked it. I know that an experienced BBC Bull could show her how good sex should feel, and she would fall in love with it. The only thing that even arouses me is the thought of her having black boyfriends, but she currently only likes white guys. Does anybody have any advice for me and her? Is there any hope for me? I won't give up until she exclusively has sex with black men or other men in general. Sometimes I worry that I'll have to divorce her, and find a woman who will do this. I want her to have complete control to enjoy a bull(s) whenever and wherever she wants, and I'm not afraid or embarrassed about it. I want to get videos while I'm at work of her bull making her cum, and of her giving him head. I know some will say that this is a porn-induced fantasy, but the fact is I've always had a thing for black guys secretly, and ever since I was young I always enjoyed the thought of women I loved having lovers and boyfriends. Any thoughts or advice, I'm sure somebody else is in the same boat?
Also would love to talk to some bulls who might have useful insight.
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Ok please listen to this very carefully. I have useful advice for this, but I also noticed something disturbing. You said you were afraid that if you can’t convert her to a cuckolding lifestyle you may have to divorce her and find another woman that will do this with you. I am going to say you should part ways with her right now. The reason being that just you saying that means you love the idea of being cuckolded more than you love your wife. If you even think that you may need to leave her, because she won’t engage in your desired fantasies, then I doubt you have a real or deep love for this woman. So stringing her along is unfair. Let her go, not for the reason you attached here in your message, but for the reason she can go and find someone who will really love her. I can’t believe I just said that to someone but psychology is my thing and it needed to be said. Then again if you are just one of these guys that likes to type your fantasies here online and this story is just fiction then ignore everything I said. I can never tell if you people are serious or just writing jerkoff material. Ok, If you two manage to stay together after you have been such a prick to her then my advice for being a cuckold would be this. Back off a little bit. Geez you sound like you are in her face about this constantly and you are ignoring her wants and desires because your micro penis needs stroking. You are so desperate that of course she is going to reject your advances. Do you know anything about courting? The inner game in male female behavior? How did you even land this beauty? You could not possibly have used these same tactics when you first approached her to date because I know she would have rejected your ass then too. When you are trying to sway someone to your type of thinking you have to plant seeds and let if grow. You don’t throw a seed in the dirt and water it and then yell at it if it’s not giving you fruit the next day do you? You are actually driving her away from the idea instead of toward the idea with your relentless pushing. You can’t catch a muddy pig by squeezing hard. Come on now.
 
WhiteCuck973 said:
I'm a 25 year old married white man, my wife is about the same age. She's a beautiful redhead who is kind, sweet, caring, loving, smart, devoted, and somewhat vanilla. She says that she likes to be told what to do, and is traditional, but certainly loves bossing me around. Our marriage is strong and we are in love, however I cannot ever full satisfy her in bed and often times lose interest in sex, as I feel as though I do not deserve her and cannot please her, which I have accepted. I have an exceedingly strong desire for her to find a boyfriend/bull and enjoy that free lifestyle, which I have admitted to and expressed to her on several occasions. She has not taken these admissions well, and even expresses that the idea makes her upset. I am nervous to talk to her more about it, as I'm afraid that this will backfire and push her further away. I've told her that not only is it okay for her to have boyfriends and see other men, but that I encourage it and will help her in finding bulls. I want more than anything for her to take interest in black men, and have expressed this interest. I've even had her watch interracial cuckold porn with me, and periodically comment how hot black guys are, how manly, and how much I envy them. It has not been going well with her. I've been researching the benefits of an interracial cuckold marriage, which she has caught me doing so, and has watched me watching BBC cuckold porn multiple times. I told her that its what I'm into, and what I want for us, and she seems disgusted. I'm convinced that if I managed to get her to try meeting with a strong black man, let them establish a relationship, and eventually succeeded in getting her to have sex with a black man, her entire mindset would change. In our years of marriage, I've only ever made her orgasm once, and I'm fairly sure she faked it. I know that an experienced BBC Bull could show her how good sex should feel, and she would fall in love with it. The only thing that even arouses me is the thought of her having black boyfriends, but she currently only likes white guys. Does anybody have any advice for me and her? Is there any hope for me? I won't give up until she exclusively has sex with black men or other men in general. Sometimes I worry that I'll have to divorce her, and find a woman who will do this. I want her to have complete control to enjoy a bull(s) whenever and wherever she wants, and I'm not afraid or embarrassed about it. I want to get videos while I'm at work of her bull making her cum, and of her giving him head. I know some will say that this is a porn-induced fantasy, but the fact is I've always had a thing for black guys secretly, and ever since I was young I always enjoyed the thought of women I loved having lovers and boyfriends. Any thoughts or advice, I'm sure somebody else is in the same boat?
Also would love to talk to some bulls who might have useful insight.
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Maybe try to start off by having her cage your cock and control your orgasms. Do it a manner that is just fun for you 2. Maybe giving her more control will open up more possibilities for you.
 
This is a really porn-induced fantasy but maybe you see just going about it all wrong. Why not start off by buying her bigger and bigger dildos? Have her use them in front of you from time to time. But before that, ask her about why she doesn't have an orgasm with you? Then present her the dildo or you get a strap on and use it on her. Make her orgasm to the point that she creams and quivering. At least by then she'll understand what she feels like and then make point of the cuckold videos you watched with black kings
 
WhiteCuck973 said:
I'm a 25 year old married white man, my wife is about the same age. She's a beautiful redhead who is kind, sweet, caring, loving, smart, devoted, and somewhat vanilla. She says that she likes to be told what to do, and is traditional, but certainly loves bossing me around. Our marriage is strong and we are in love, however I cannot ever full satisfy her in bed and often times lose interest in sex, as I feel as though I do not deserve her and cannot please her, which I have accepted. I have an exceedingly strong desire for her to find a boyfriend/bull and enjoy that free lifestyle, which I have admitted to and expressed to her on several occasions. She has not taken these admissions well, and even expresses that the idea makes her upset. I am nervous to talk to her more about it, as I'm afraid that this will backfire and push her further away. I've told her that not only is it okay for her to have boyfriends and see other men, but that I encourage it and will help her in finding bulls. I want more than anything for her to take interest in black men, and have expressed this interest. I've even had her watch interracial cuckold porn with me, and periodically comment how hot black guys are, how manly, and how much I envy them. It has not been going well with her. I've been researching the benefits of an interracial cuckold marriage, which she has caught me doing so, and has watched me watching BBC cuckold porn multiple times. I told her that its what I'm into, and what I want for us, and she seems disgusted. I'm convinced that if I managed to get her to try meeting with a strong black man, let them establish a relationship, and eventually succeeded in getting her to have sex with a black man, her entire mindset would change. In our years of marriage, I've only ever made her orgasm once, and I'm fairly sure she faked it. I know that an experienced BBC Bull could show her how good sex should feel, and she would fall in love with it. The only thing that even arouses me is the thought of her having black boyfriends, but she currently only likes white guys. Does anybody have any advice for me and her? Is there any hope for me? I won't give up until she exclusively has sex with black men or other men in general. Sometimes I worry that I'll have to divorce her, and find a woman who will do this. I want her to have complete control to enjoy a bull(s) whenever and wherever she wants, and I'm not afraid or embarrassed about it. I want to get videos while I'm at work of her bull making her cum, and of her giving him head. I know some will say that this is a porn-induced fantasy, but the fact is I've always had a thing for black guys secretly, and ever since I was young I always enjoyed the thought of women I loved having lovers and boyfriends. Any thoughts or advice, I'm sure somebody else is in the same boat?
Also would love to talk to some bulls who might have useful insight.
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My wife was a red head also. She wouldn't have done it the way you are trying either. It took a friend of mine that she really liked to seduce her. So you need to find someone, probably a friend of yours, that your wife likes. Then you have to give them the opportunity. And don't make it obvious. We'd known the first guy and his wife as neighbors. My wife never admitted it, but I believe she had fucked him within months of moving 2 doors down. I worked weird shift work. The neighbor next door figured it out, but I ignored her, and I didn't believe it happened. I also believe he gave her, her first orgasm, because she then talked to me about orgasms, and I was able to go down on her and make her cum once in a while.

Eventually my wife told me he was flirting with her. I asked " would you like me to talk to him about it". And she said no. And then I asked if she was interested in "having fun with him", and she said "I don't know...maybe". So I told her to just wear a large t-shirt the next day with nothing underneath, (although a bathing suit would have worked too) and if she wanted to have fun, she could. He took good care of my wife for the next couple of months coming over while I was at work until she got pregnant.

My wife also never did one night stands. She was always in long term relationships with her lovers. So be prepared to allow this for maybe even years. Most of the guys my wife fucked didn't know she was telling me except for one, and he was her second lover. Their relationship last about 15 years of our marriage, but they never

Also understand that the guys your wife fucks will tell their friends. I didn't expect that. I was unexpectedly introduced (shown off) to friends of 2 of the guys. I just blew it off and smiled, and acted as if I didn't know what was going on. Some of our neighbors knew my wife was "cheating", but my wife was such a nice person I'm sure most of the blame was on me, like my lack of size, and/or me not good enough in bed. I'm sure some of our neighbors thought I was a loser because she was fucking other neighbors.
 
Jimmydong said:
Ok please listen to this very carefully. I have useful advice for this, but I also noticed something disturbing. You said you were afraid that if you can’t convert her to a cuckolding lifestyle you may have to divorce her and find another woman that will do this with you. I am going to say you should part ways with her right now. The reason being that just you saying that means you love the idea of being cuckolded more than you love your wife. If you even think that you may need to leave her, because she won’t engage in your desired fantasies, then I doubt you have a real or deep love for this woman. So stringing her along is unfair. Let her go, not for the reason you attached here in your message, but for the reason she can go and find someone who will really love her. I can’t believe I just said that to someone but psychology is my thing and it needed to be said. Then again if you are just one of these guys that likes to type your fantasies here online and this story is just fiction then ignore everything I said. I can never tell if you people are serious or just writing jerkoff material. Ok, If you two manage to stay together after you have been such a prick to her then my advice for being a cuckold would be this. Back off a little bit. Geez you sound like you are in her face about this constantly and you are ignoring her wants and desires because your micro penis needs stroking. You are so desperate that of course she is going to reject your advances. Do you know anything about courting? The inner game in male female behavior? How did you even land this beauty? You could not possibly have used these same tactics when you first approached her to date because I know she would have rejected your ass then too. When you are trying to sway someone to your type of thinking you have to plant seeds and let if grow. You don’t throw a seed in the dirt and water it and then yell at it if it’s not giving you fruit the next day do you? You are actually driving her away from the idea instead of toward the idea with your relentless pushing. You can’t catch a muddy pig by squeezing hard. Come on now.
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ty for saying this.

I really like "real" cuckolds, because they put their wives NEEDS before their own.
This dude is SELFISH beyond excuse.
Not a real cuckold - this is a narcissist who is letting his little PENIS run his life. He should be in a CAGE and not allowed to touch his tiny penis for at least a month or two.
 
WhiteCuck973 said:
I'm a 25 year old married white man, my wife is about the same age. She's a beautiful redhead who is kind, sweet, caring, loving, smart, devoted, and somewhat vanilla. She says that she likes to be told what to do, and is traditional, but certainly loves bossing me around. Our marriage is strong and we are in love, however I cannot ever full satisfy her in bed and often times lose interest in sex, as I feel as though I do not deserve her and cannot please her, which I have accepted. I have an exceedingly strong desire for her to find a boyfriend/bull and enjoy that free lifestyle, which I have admitted to and expressed to her on several occasions. She has not taken these admissions well, and even expresses that the idea makes her upset. I am nervous to talk to her more about it, as I'm afraid that this will backfire and push her further away. I've told her that not only is it okay for her to have boyfriends and see other men, but that I encourage it and will help her in finding bulls. I want more than anything for her to take interest in black men, and have expressed this interest. I've even had her watch interracial cuckold porn with me, and periodically comment how hot black guys are, how manly, and how much I envy them. It has not been going well with her. I've been researching the benefits of an interracial cuckold marriage, which she has caught me doing so, and has watched me watching BBC cuckold porn multiple times. I told her that its what I'm into, and what I want for us, and she seems disgusted. I'm convinced that if I managed to get her to try meeting with a strong black man, let them establish a relationship, and eventually succeeded in getting her to have sex with a black man, her entire mindset would change. In our years of marriage, I've only ever made her orgasm once, and I'm fairly sure she faked it. I know that an experienced BBC Bull could show her how good sex should feel, and she would fall in love with it. The only thing that even arouses me is the thought of her having black boyfriends, but she currently only likes white guys. Does anybody have any advice for me and her? Is there any hope for me? I won't give up until she exclusively has sex with black men or other men in general. Sometimes I worry that I'll have to divorce her, and find a woman who will do this. I want her to have complete control to enjoy a bull(s) whenever and wherever she wants, and I'm not afraid or embarrassed about it. I want to get videos while I'm at work of her bull making her cum, and of her giving him head. I know some will say that this is a porn-induced fantasy, but the fact is I've always had a thing for black guys secretly, and ever since I was young I always enjoyed the thought of women I loved having lovers and boyfriends. Any thoughts or advice, I'm sure somebody else is in the same boat?
Also would love to talk to some bulls who might have useful insight.
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I've been a cuckold since I was 19. My advice? Don't start out trying to get her to fuck a bull. Start out with toys, tell her you want to see her ride a dildo, make it something you guys do regularly. Ask her to tell you about past boyfriends, or men she finds attractive. Give her free roam to flirt with other guys whether they're bulls or not. Set boundaries. You cant just start off with a Bull, especially if she is unsure about it. You've gotta work your way to a bull. Cuckolding is about watching your wife have fun, and exploring her sexuality.
Edit: If she doesn't want to fuck other guys, then she won't, and you can't make her. You can always tell if a hotwife isn't enjoying herself, and as a cuckold it isn't fun to watch.
 
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Swingerwanabe said:
I've been a cuckold since I was 19. My advice? Don't start out trying to get her to fuck a bull. Start out with toys, tell her you want to see her ride a dildo, make it something you guys do regularly. Ask her to tell you about past boyfriends, or men she finds attractive. Give her free roam to flirt with other guys whether they're bulls or not. Set boundaries. You cant just start off with a Bull, especially if she is unsure about it. You've gotta work your way to a bull.
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Well said
 
Swingerwanabe said:
I've been a cuckold since I was 19. My advice? Don't start out trying to get her to fuck a bull. Start out with toys, tell her you want to see her ride a dildo, make it something you guys do regularly. Ask her to tell you about past boyfriends, or men she finds attractive. Give her free roam to flirt with other guys whether they're bulls or not. Set boundaries. You cant just start off with a Bull, especially if she is unsure about it. You've gotta work your way to a bull. Cuckolding is about watching your wife have fun, and exploring her sexuality.
Edit: If she doesn't want to fuck other guys, then she won't, and you can't make her. You can always tell if a hotwife isn't enjoying herself, and as a cuckold it isn't fun to watch.
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very good real life advice.

most cuckolds should read this post.
 
wasacuc said:
Pretty similar story here also. I have been trying for 25 years for my wife to find a boyfriend or a fwb. I have given her a hall pass and have encouraged her to use it. I get turned down every time I mention it. It would really make my day to have her tell me she fulfilled my wildest dreams and had found a younger black stud. Do not get discouraged as someday you may get your desires fulfilled.
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I like the way I think..good luck
 
WhiteCuck973 said:
I'm a 25 year old married white man, my wife is about the same age. She's a beautiful redhead who is kind, sweet, caring, loving, smart, devoted, and somewhat vanilla. She says that she likes to be told what to do, and is traditional, but certainly loves bossing me around. Our marriage is strong and we are in love, however I cannot ever full satisfy her in bed and often times lose interest in sex, as I feel as though I do not deserve her and cannot please her, which I have accepted. I have an exceedingly strong desire for her to find a boyfriend/bull and enjoy that free lifestyle, which I have admitted to and expressed to her on several occasions. She has not taken these admissions well, and even expresses that the idea makes her upset. I am nervous to talk to her more about it, as I'm afraid that this will backfire and push her further away. I've told her that not only is it okay for her to have boyfriends and see other men, but that I encourage it and will help her in finding bulls. I want more than anything for her to take interest in black men, and have expressed this interest. I've even had her watch interracial cuckold porn with me, and periodically comment how hot black guys are, how manly, and how much I envy them. It has not been going well with her. I've been researching the benefits of an interracial cuckold marriage, which she has caught me doing so, and has watched me watching BBC cuckold porn multiple times. I told her that its what I'm into, and what I want for us, and she seems disgusted. I'm convinced that if I managed to get her to try meeting with a strong black man, let them establish a relationship, and eventually succeeded in getting her to have sex with a black man, her entire mindset would change. In our years of marriage, I've only ever made her orgasm once, and I'm fairly sure she faked it. I know that an experienced BBC Bull could show her how good sex should feel, and she would fall in love with it. The only thing that even arouses me is the thought of her having black boyfriends, but she currently only likes white guys. Does anybody have any advice for me and her? Is there any hope for me? I won't give up until she exclusively has sex with black men or other men in general. Sometimes I worry that I'll have to divorce her, and find a woman who will do this. I want her to have complete control to enjoy a bull(s) whenever and wherever she wants, and I'm not afraid or embarrassed about it. I want to get videos while I'm at work of her bull making her cum, and of her giving him head. I know some will say that this is a porn-induced fantasy, but the fact is I've always had a thing for black guys secretly, and ever since I was young I always enjoyed the thought of women I loved having lovers and boyfriends. Any thoughts or advice, I'm sure somebody else is in the same boat?
Also would love to talk to some bulls who might have useful insight.
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good luck with this desire,, we r older redhead wife couple, many redheads harbor yearnings n desires and r real slow to tell by or hubby, I suspect a stranger from out I town might be told more about her true desires,,, I bet ur sweet young redhead is just Very reluctant for u to know All..
 
Jimmydong said:
Ok please listen to this very carefully. I have useful advice for this, but I also noticed something disturbing. You said you were afraid that if you can’t convert her to a cuckolding lifestyle you may have to divorce her and find another woman that will do this with you. I am going to say you should part ways with her right now. The reason being that just you saying that means you love the idea of being cuckolded more than you love your wife. If you even think that you may need to leave her, because she won’t engage in your desired fantasies, then I doubt you have a real or deep love for this woman. So stringing her along is unfair. Let her go, not for the reason you attached here in your message, but for the reason she can go and find someone who will really love her. I can’t believe I just said that to someone but psychology is my thing and it needed to be said. Then again if you are just one of these guys that likes to type your fantasies here online and this story is just fiction then ignore everything I said. I can never tell if you people are serious or just writing jerkoff material. Ok, If you two manage to stay together after you have been such a prick to her then my advice for being a cuckold would be this. Back off a little bit. Geez you sound like you are in her face about this constantly and you are ignoring her wants and desires because your micro penis needs stroking. You are so desperate that of course she is going to reject your advances. Do you know anything about courting? The inner game in male female behavior? How did you even land this beauty? You could not possibly have used these same tactics when you first approached her to date because I know she would have rejected your ass then too. When you are trying to sway someone to your type of thinking you have to plant seeds and let if grow. You don’t throw a seed in the dirt and water it and then yell at it if it’s not giving you fruit the next day do you? You are actually driving her away from the idea instead of toward the idea with your relentless pushing. You can’t catch a muddy pig by squeezing hard. Come on now.
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