Very similar thoughts as well. The older I’ve become (55), the more my fantasies have morphed into being the woman. Probably lower testosterone. But, you’re not alone my friend!
Not alone at all. I’m 52 and have the same desires!Very similar thoughts as well. The older I’ve become (55), the more my fantasies have morphed into being the woman. Probably lower testosterone. But, you’re not alone my friend!
Your very welcome and thank you again for sharing.Thank you for addressing my post. My desire to share my wife started when she told me about a couple of hot dreams she had. One where she was touched by a man at a party and she knew she should stop him but was too turned on and let him continue. A couple of weeks later she told me she had another dream where she was at a party and had sex with a man under a blanket while people were around.
When she shared those stories I was incredibly turned on and let her know. I believed she must have shared them for a reason and asked her if she was interested in being with another man. She told me they were just dreams and I was reading too much into them. From that point on I had the desire to share her. I thought maybe it would pass but it doesnt go away and only grows stronger and is something I think about almost daily.
My wife enjoys the fantasy and will even comment on other men occasionally. She has even agreed to go out to a bar with me no panties. After we had some hot sex and when I asked her if she was excited that other men may have gotten a glimpse of her she said she was excited because she knew she was turning me on. I keep it all light and dont push it because I know it has to be what she wants and desires. I am happy as things are beause our sex life is off the charts.
That is one of the reasons I have not persued being with a man myself in real life. I know I would feel guilty and also would be worried about bringing home an STD. I have chatted with a few men about my desires but not gone through with anything.
We are approaching being empty nesters this fall and I am hoping this may open the door to more time for ourselves and maybe getting out more and seeing if she may be willing to explore. Some of her fantasies involve being seduced by a woman and I wonder if she met the right woman who is in the lifestyle and could maybe get the idea in her head to give another man a try.
I know it is all floating around her head and the fact she enjoys the fantasy leaves the door somewhat open.
For now I struggle with my desires to submit to a black man myself and want to do it while dressed. I read alot of the threads here and see how it often happens quickly that a man goes from straight to sissy in a short amount of time. I wonder to myself if it is something i could do in front of my wife. It really does confuse me and I try not to over think it.
I defiantly enjoy exploring a more feminine side. Have only tried limited wearing of panties which I enjoyed. Would like to take the next step but not sure wat to do. You have any thoughts?Very similar thoughts as well. The older I’ve become (55), the more my fantasies have morphed into being the woman. Probably lower testosterone. But, you’re not alone my friend!
You are a lucky guy!I want bbc for my wife so bad! She even wears QOS thongs
Did things ever progress?well my wife brought it up im 62 shes 53
Very nice! Sounds like this has moved beyond just discussion?yes she loves bbc now alot
I defiantly enjoy exploring a more feminine side. Have only tried limited wearing of panties which I enjoyed. Would like to take the next step but not sure wat to do. You have any thoughts?
it sounds you shared you fantasy and desires with your wife and beyond that it’s up to her. If and when she has questions be prepared to answer all her questions. Your very fortunate she is asking questions as I feel it demonstrates she is still giving this thought and is processing all this info.I think I really need to evaluate where my wife stands. I have opened up to her about my desires of sharing her and had serious conversations. I know at this time she enjoys the fantasy but says she doesnt want to take it further and do I leave it at that? She has no idea anout the panty wearing and that is not something I am willng to disclose to her. I feel as long as I leave the panty wearing and wanting to be sub to a man as fantasy I do not need to share that with her. I do not see myself succumbing to those desires and doing it behind her back.
I believe I would like to take it further but unsure pabout the best steps besides keeping the fantasy going and let her know it is something I want to explore with her.
it sounds you shared you fantasy and desires with your wife and beyond that it’s up to her. If and when she has questions be prepared to answer all her questions. Your very fortunate she is asking questions as I feel it demonstrates she is still giving this thought and is processing all this info.
Maybe bring it up now and then just to see if there is anything she needs of you. I try and remember this is for my wife and any pleasure I may receive comes as a result of hers. This was difficult for me to come to that determination but I did find a certain point of balance in my mind using that approach. It also allowed me to further submit which I enjoy.
If you are not comfortable discussing the panties then leave that out. If things move forward then that maybe a good time to introduce new things.
As I may have mentioned allow this to grow naturally and perhaps the right guy, time and place will present itself. I submit more and more to my wife and over the last few months she spends more time with a guy she volunteers with. I doubt anything will happen but I always show my encouragement and support.
Please let us know how this goes for you.
I wish my wife thought that waywere can my husband chat with this he needs some help
She does a lot more than just “wear” them. She inspires sexy af dreams, and showcases the heck out of themI want bbc for my wife so bad! She even wears QOS thongs
Thanks for sharing.Wife is 47 I'm 48. I've been working on her to go black. She says it will never happen for real. She is definitely a big cock kind of gal. Her toys are all over 8 plus inches thick bbc toys. She takes ever inch of them but needs the real thing to push her over the edge. The few times I was able to use them as a strap on she went nuts and I think she's scared she's going to get hooked or knows that she needs it.