A place for cuckolds and wannabes to chat

[Maleslave]

Hi Nancyscuck,
Whe chat about it a while ago and thank you for your support. But I think I should share and confess open here my felings too.
Actualy that's why I'm here.

I just can't satisfy my wife anymore. It give stress for both of us. I have the feeling I have to perform and fulfill expectations that I cannot live up to. My wife get frustrated because the man she love isn't the man she sexualy need. So whe both are agree meanwhile whe need another man in bed when whe having sex. It would take away a lot of stress for me and my wife will have better sex.

I'm a married cuckold wannabe in my 50's my wife almost there to. It makes me crazy thinking about my wife getting laid in front of me by a bbc. In her fantasy my wife also desire for it because she needs more than my average cock, but she's to affraid to let it happen yet.
I recognize a lot. Just like you I just can't satisfy my wife anymore. It give stress for both of us. I have the feeling I have to perform and fulfill expectations that I cannot live up to. My wife get frustrated because the man she love isn't the man she sexualy need. So whe both are agree meanwhile whe need another man in bed when whe having sex. It would take away a lot of stress for me and my wife will have better sex.

Whe do have a Femdom relation. It started more then 10 years ago from the moment I told her my submissive feelings. Initially my wife started to cry because she thought I did not love her anymore. But because we kept talking and I let her read the stories of Elisse sutton she began to see what kind of man I was. She is naturally Dominant but remained calm for almost 20 years because she loved me. From then, step by step, she let herself go and showing her Dominance to me. Whe both love that she controls me sexually by wearing a chastity. She behaves as challenging as possible and let me satisfy her orally while she humiliated me saying how submissive I should be. True he years, she also knows of my cuckold feelings. She also has feelings of excitement at the thought that another man with a bigger dick fucking her while I sucking her nipples. It seams she get more open for it as time go by and it's just a matter of time until she cuck me with another man.
I realy desire to shear her with a man with a big dick who realy sexualy sattisfy her.

I always got excited as a young guy thinking about my girl have sex with another boy but tought It was crazy and wrong. I tried to drive out those thoughts. It even happend in a public swimming pool. There was a big jacouzzy for about 20 people. Whe where in it and my wife, then my young girlfriend lay very relaxed and realy enjoyed the hot water and bubbles. I sit on her left and there was another man beside her on her right. Even it was pure innocent I started to imaging that she enjoyed his hand between her legs while and he was fingering her.
I got realy hard. Suddenly she stud up and wanted to do something different. I realy had to talk to her to wait a little longer or all those people whould have seen my rock hard dick.

@ PhilluysubMale, I realy understand your feelings but I dont have such great sissiy feelings. My wife is bisexual and cucked me already in the past with a few woman. Actualy I love to lick her pussy and her ass even more then I want to penetrade her. She love it when I spoil her like her former bisesxual and lesbian girlfriends. Sometimes whe have sex like lesbians to. Whe sissoring each oter and both love it that way.

 

[nancyscuck]

Hi Nancyscuck,
Whe chat about it a while ago and thank you for your support. But I think I should share and confess open here my felings too.
Actualy that's why I'm here.

I just can't satisfy my wife anymore. It give stress for both of us. I have the feeling I have to perform and fulfill expectations that I cannot live up to. My wife get frustrated because the man she love isn't the man she sexualy need. So whe both are agree meanwhile whe need another man in bed when whe having sex. It would take away a lot of stress for me and my wife will have better sex.

I'm a married cuckold wannabe in my 50's my wife almost there to. It makes me crazy thinking about my wife getting laid in front of me by a bbc. In her fantasy my wife also desire for it because she needs more than my average cock, but she's to affraid to let it happen yet.
I recognize a lot. Just like you I just can't satisfy my wife anymore. It give stress for both of us. I have the feeling I have to perform and fulfill expectations that I cannot live up to. My wife get frustrated because the man she love isn't the man she sexualy need. So whe both are agree meanwhile whe need another man in bed when whe having sex. It would take away a lot of stress for me and my wife will have better sex.

Whe do have a Femdom relation. It started more then 10 years ago from the moment I told her my submissive feelings. Initially my wife started to cry because she thought I did not love her anymore. But because we kept talking and I let her read the stories of Elisse sutton she began to see what kind of man I was. She is naturally Dominant but remained calm for almost 20 years because she loved me. From then, step by step, she let herself go and showing her Dominance to me. Whe both love that she controls me sexually by wearing a chastity. She behaves as challenging as possible and let me satisfy her orally while she humiliated me saying how submissive I should be. True he years, she also knows of my cuckold feelings. She also has feelings of excitement at the thought that another man with a bigger dick fucking her while I sucking her nipples. It seams she get more open for it as time go by and it's just a matter of time until she cuck me with another man.
I realy desire to shear her with a man with a big dick who realy sexualy sattisfy her.

I always got excited as a young guy thinking about my girl have sex with another boy but tought It was crazy and wrong. I tried to drive out those thoughts. It even happend in a public swimming pool. There was a big jacouzzy for about 20 people. Whe where in it and my wife, then my young girlfriend lay very relaxed and realy enjoyed the hot water and bubbles. I sit on her left and there was another man beside her on her right. Even it was pure innocent I started to imaging that she enjoyed his hand between her legs while and he was fingering her.
I got realy hard. Suddenly she stud up and wanted to do something different. I realy had to talk to her to wait a little longer or all those people whould have seen my rock hard dick.

@ PhilluysubMale, I realy understand your feelings but I dont have such great sissiy feelings. My wife is bisexual and cucked me already in the past with a few woman. Actualy I love to lick her pussy and her ass even more then I want to penetrade her. She love it when I spoil her like her former bisesxual and lesbian girlfriends. Sometimes whe have sex like lesbians to. Whe sissoring each oter and both love it that way.

Hi Maleslave, thank you for your heartfelt reply and you’re welcome.

We seem to be similar in a number of ways. In hindsight even though I thought I was satisfying my wife I have come to understand I did not. Over time she just lost interest in intimacy.
In the beginning it was hard to understand then I began to accept and now I get aroused when I realize I am pussyfree.

What is stopping her from finding a lover? I am not able to put myself inside my wife’s head but my guess on some level we are still in love and she feels it would be hurtful to me if she fucked someone else.

I feel it is good for your wife to express her dominant side and you show your acceptance. Hopefully this allows her confidence to grow.

If you are allowed to cum have you cleaned up your cum yet. It was hard for me to do the first few times but I now enjoy doing it on my own. Perhaps your submissiveness has grown to a point where you see the occasional guy? That was a big step for me to accept. But it felt so natural for me to do.

Have you had a long discussion with a dominant man? That did wonders for me after chatting with hungteacher.

My fantasies continue to grow but all follow a cuckold theme of watching my wife being satisfied by another guy. So far I have not run out of fantasies!

Enjoy the journey in becoming a cuckold. I do not see anything wrong in being one. I am just not wired to completely satisfy a women even though I fantasy about it frequently time to time.

Thank you again for sharing and please continue to keep us updated.

 

[Kinky_grl84]

were can my husband chat with this he needs some help

Wanna chat

 

[Maleslave]

Hi Maleslave, thank you for your heartfelt reply and you’re welcome.

We seem to be similar in a number of ways. In hindsight even though I thought I was satisfying my wife I have come to understand I did not. Over time she just lost interest in intimacy.
In the beginning it was hard to understand then I began to accept and now I get aroused when I realize I am pussyfree.

What is stopping her from finding a lover? I am not able to put myself inside my wife’s head but my guess on some level we are still in love and she feels it would be hurtful to me if she fucked someone else.

I feel it is good for your wife to express her dominant side and you show your acceptance. Hopefully this allows her confidence to grow.

If you are allowed to cum have you cleaned up your cum yet. It was hard for me to do the first few times but I now enjoy doing it on my own. Perhaps your submissiveness has grown to a point where you see the occasional guy? That was a big step for me to accept. But it felt so natural for me to do.

Have you had a long discussion with a dominant man? That did wonders for me after chatting with hungteacher.

My fantasies continue to grow but all follow a cuckold theme of watching my wife being satisfied by another guy. So far I have not run out of fantasies!

Enjoy the journey in becoming a cuckold. I do not see anything wrong in being one. I am just not wired to completely satisfy a women even though I fantasy about it frequently time to time.

Thank you again for sharing and please continue to keep us updated.

What my wife stopping from finding a lover is indead she love me and just like your wife she's affraid it will dammage our marriage.
In her hart and mind she is a married wife an mom.
She always loved confident and macho guys, wich I'm not. When we first meet she had a few relations with guys like that but she had to see they didn't treath her well and mostly cheated on her. So ther I was Mr. nice guy who realy loved and cared about her. Sex was always great and
we have traveled a beautiful path together. During our marriage she discoverd her bi-sexual feelings an confessed them to me. I was very understanding and let her have a few adventures with other woman. I think and love the tought that was a first step to become a cuckold. Later Whe started our Femodom relation wich still go on but to be honnest not that intence like it used to be at this moment. During that period I was on a Femdom formum where a Black Master coached me in being submissive.

To answer your question he teached me to eat my own cum. When he give me a command to do someting with my wife by our next appointment and it didn't go well, our I just didn't do it he let me wank myself and eat my cum. The first time it was realy hard but after a few times I didn't mind and it was someting natural. At least it was a punishment.
Unfortunely he left the forum after a while and it stopped.

One time during a Femdom session my wife let me wank myself against her leg while humiliating me and after I blew my load on her leg she let me lick it off till the last drop. When I told her one time I would love to experience a cum kiss she give me a blow job and after I had cum she started to french kiss me while her face was above mine and I swallowd all my own cum.

The current state in our marriage is that she know and accept my submissive attide and cuckold feelings during our sexlife.
She love me to be submissive as her sexslave and is thankfull she's free when the day comes when she is tempted or given the chance to have sex with a man she sexually desires for.
And they certainly are, she admits herself.

Her sexual feelings and her body desire for more.

 

[jd123456]

I started this threads for cuckolds and wannabes like me to chat about their path to becoming a cuckold or the progress they have made.

It is also a place acknowledge those that have guided us in taking those “baby steps”

For me hungteacher has guided me immensely by always providing advice that I was able to follow. He has also taught me a lot about myself. I consider him to be a true dominant. Hopefully one day I can help arrange for a bachelorette party to visit him in sunny Arizona.

So a a cuckold or a wannabe what have you learned about this lifestyle that could benefit us?

My biggest challenge has been trying to understand enough about this lifestyle to better explain it to my wife.

Hungteacher has taught me that although this is mostly about the needs of my wife a small (very small) percentage is about my emotional and physical needs.

Love this thread. Appreciate the knowledge. I’m def a wanna be stag/cuck/hotwife lifestyle lover.
My girlfriend is young and sexy and has a very high sex drive.
I’m not that big when it comes to my dick, I’m like 6 inches but only as thick as a unpeeled banana…. Haha def have felt my girlfriend needing more during some sex occasions.

But recently I convinced to her that I had a 3 some with my ex and told her that my ex secretly loves black guys and wanted to try one and I let her and we both fucked my ex . Told her it was amazing and that if she ever wanted to do something like that I wouldn’t mind .

Dm me for more of the story and a update

 

[nancyscuck]

Love this thread. Appreciate the knowledge. I’m def a wanna be stag/cuck/hotwife lifestyle lover.
My girlfriend is young and sexy and has a very high sex drive.
I’m not that big when it comes to my dick, I’m like 6 inches but only as thick as a unpeeled banana…. Haha def have felt my girlfriend needing more during some sex occasions.

But recently I convinced to her that I had a 3 some with my ex and told her that my ex secretly loves black guys and wanted to try one and I let her and we both fucked my ex . Told her it was amazing and that if she ever wanted to do something like that I wouldn’t mind .

Dm me for more of the story and a update

Hi jd123456 glad you enjoy this thread. It’s a place for us to share our experiences. I have also found many of us feel uncertain on how to open up with others as this can be a difficult fantasy to understand.
Hopefully your girlfriend will develops enough comfort and desire to be with a black man of her choosing. Would you like to watch or be involved in other ways?
Thanks again for your contribution.

 

[jd123456]

Hi jd123456 glad you enjoy this thread. It’s a place for us to share our experiences. I have also found many of us feel uncertain on how to open up with others as this can be a difficult fantasy to understand.
Hopefully your girlfriend will develops enough comfort and desire to be with a black man of her choosing. Would you like to watch or be involved in other ways?
Thanks again for your contribution.

Yes I also want to watch while in chastity

 

[nancyscuck]

Yes I also want to watch while in chastity

Would love to be caged. I have small balls so not able to wear a cage as I slip out. While it’s on I am so compliant!

 

[whitedude124]

I started this threads for cuckolds and wannabes like me to chat about their path to becoming a cuckold or the progress they have made.

It is also a place acknowledge those that have guided us in taking those “baby steps”

For me hungteacher has guided me immensely by always providing advice that I was able to follow. He has also taught me a lot about myself. I consider him to be a true dominant. Hopefully one day I can help arrange for a bachelorette party to visit him in sunny Arizona.

So a a cuckold or a wannabe what have you learned about this lifestyle that could benefit us?

My biggest challenge has been trying to understand enough about this lifestyle to better explain it to my wife.

Hungteacher has taught me that although this is mostly about the needs of my wife a small (very small) percentage is about my emotional and physical needs.

I have an addiction to bbc porn. All types of it too from coxkolding to ******* to those videos where it showed a girl on half the screen and a bbc on the the half. Those were my favorite videos to watch. I watched it heavily everyday from 24 to 27. From 27 I go a few months clean then I fall back into it and I am 30 now. I’ve been good on note watching a lot of porn but I always want to go back to my routine of calling a girl on a sex site and have her ignore me while I watch porn. I was on the military and had a black team leader who was really hard on me. I got hazed and humiliated by him. I also got blacked out ******* once in the military and woke up next to a black dude in his house but I was clothed. I didn’t remember anything and he said nothing happened. Then later on in life I got addicted to bbc porn. I had to stop because I couldn’t get it up for my gf anymore. Should I still watch it?

 

[waynerobertson]

Have talked to several cucks and they WANT to stop but its too late. Addiction is a powerful thing and hard to walk away from.

 

[nancyscuck]

I have an addiction to bbc porn. All types of it too from coxkolding to ******* to those videos where it showed a girl on half the screen and a bbc on the the half. Those were my favorite videos to watch. I watched it heavily everyday from 24 to 27. From 27 I go a few months clean then I fall back into it and I am 30 now. I’ve been good on note watching a lot of porn but I always want to go back to my routine of calling a girl on a sex site and have her ignore me while I watch porn. I was on the military and had a black team leader who was really hard on me. I got hazed and humiliated by him. I also got blacked out ******* once in the military and woke up next to a black dude in his house but I was clothed. I didn’t remember anything and he said nothing happened. Then later on in life I got addicted to bbc porn. I had to stop because I couldn’t get it up for my gf anymore. Should I still watch it?

Thank you for sharing. If you feel this is getting the way of normal life and relationships then yes you should try and stop. If you cannot stop on your own then I would get some help.
Interesting idea of calling a girl and then being ignored. Has your taste in porn changed over the years. 2 or 3 years ago I watched very little bbc porn but now I watch about 90%! I often wonder what type of porn will come next. Do you think anything happened?
Thanks again for being a part in f this thread.

 

[whitedude124]

It started off with feet then pee then sph/cei bbc cheating and I’ve been hooked on bbc ever since

 

[nancyscuck]

It started off with feet then pee then sph/cei bbc cheating and I’ve been hooked on bbc ever since

Yes sounds very familiar to me. This is a very powerful fantasy. I also enjoy shemales.

 

[Firestone70]

Wife is 47 I'm 48. I've been working on her to go black. She says it will never happen for real. She is definitely a big cock kind of gal. Her toys are all over 8 plus inches thick bbc toys. She takes ever inch of them but needs the real thing to push her over the edge. The few times I was able to use them as a strap on she went nuts and I think she's scared she's going to get hooked or knows that she needs it.

I have the same situation. She has black toys, big which she takes easily and gets orgasm but she dont want to meet a black bull in real life. I send to her lots of videos during daytime and all day long. Now We stand still. Next step? Any advice. She is Bbw. Big ass, big boobs. Made for big black cock. Have a nice day everybody. Best wishes from Sweden.

 

[Maleslave]

I have the same situation. She has black toys, big which she takes easily and gets orgasm but she dont want to meet a black bull in real life. I send to her lots of videos during daytime and all day long. Now We stand still. Next step? Any advice. She is Bbw. Big ass, big boobs. Made for big black cock. Have a nice day everybody. Best wishes from Sweden.

One golden rule. If she's not ready or doesn't want it you can't ******* her. Even my wife discoverd, admit and realise she need a man with a big cock it's up to her if and when it's going to happen. To bad for us wannabe's but that's how it is! Dont give up talkopen and honest about your feelings and just wait until she's menatly ready.

 

[Maleslave]

Yes sounds very familiar to me. This is a very powerful fantasy. I also enjoy shemales.

I recently discovered that I'm atrackted to shemales to. That's the only secret I have for my wife.
She doesn't know yet. I dont know if should talk her about it or just keep thay as my little fanatsy secret.

 

[nancyscuck]

I recently discovered that I'm atrackted to shemales to. That's the only secret I have for my wife.
She doesn't know yet. I dont know if should talk her about it or just keep thay as my little fanatsy secret.

I was with a very beautiful shemale as I just wanted to suck cock. Before I new what was happening I was on my back getting pounded with my legs in the air. I really enjoyed being taken.
Are you going to share with your wife? Please share your fantasy with us.

 

[nancyscuck]

One golden rule. If she's not ready or doesn't want it you can't ******* her. Even my wife discoverd, admit and realise she need a man with a big cock it's up to her if and when it's going to happen. To bad for us wannabe's but that's how it is! Dont give up talkopen and honest about your feelings and just wait until she's menatly ready.

So true!! This is great advice thank you.

 

[nancyscuck]

It started off with feet then pee then sph/cei bbc cheating and I’ve been hooked on bbc ever since

Yes sounds very similar especially the sph, cei and bbc.

 

[john1984]

were can my husband chat with this he needs some help

Is he need help? Pm me