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Does someone knows a good sex survey ? My wife do not want to talk about sex . a survey could help so she may comes out of her shell .
 
Does someone knows a good sex survey ? My wife do not want to talk about sex . a survey could help so she may comes out of her shell .
I searched under sex survey quiz and a number of good ones come up.
Please let us know if you find one that works for the both of you. Good luck.
 
Does someone knows a good sex survey ? My wife do not want to talk about sex . a survey could help so she may comes out of her shell .
There is an app you might check out called Spicer on the apple store. It ask you and your partner questions and only shows answers to which you both answered yes. This lets you answer honestly and avoid difficult situations if she is not into it.
 
Spicer is one of the little steps I have taken. I am interested in anything you guys have done. I know some of these little things can make a big difference.
 
Spicer is one of the little steps I have taken. I am interested in anything you guys have done. I know some of these little things can make a big difference.
Thx , sounds like an opportunity . i ll try to find it . as we are in china it will be difficult . but not impossible
 
I searched under sex survey quiz and a number of good ones come up.
Please let us know if you find one that works for the both of you. Good luck.
We do nt have google in china . search engines here did nt show any - unfortunately . but thx for advice
 
Spicer is one of the little steps I have taken. I am interested in anything you guys have done. I know some of these little things can make a big difference.
I am not familiar with the term “Spicer” can you help me understand as it may be helpful.
I agree on the little things making a big difference it’s a wonderful process.
 
I am not familiar with the term “Spicer” can you help me understand as it may be helpful.
I agree on the little things making a big difference it’s a wonderful process.
Its an app on the Apple store. I would think its available on other platforms as well. Just search for "Spicer". It lets you and a partner answers questions about sex and only shows the answers to the ones you both answer yes. The app is free and many question packs are free. They also sell some of the question packs(how they make there money). Sometimes its embarrassing to ask certain questions if her answer is no(The I can't believe you asked me that comment). Since the app is asking the question its not on you.
 
Its an app on the Apple store. I would think its available on other platforms as well. Just search for "Spicer". It lets you and a partner answers questions about sex and only shows the answers to the ones you both answer yes. The app is free and many question packs are free. They also sell some of the question packs(how they make there money). Sometimes its embarrassing to ask certain questions if her answer is no(The I can't believe you asked me that comment). Since the app is asking the question its not on you.
Thank you for the reply. Great idea!
 
Thank you for starting this thread. I definitely need guidance. I am a 52 yr old married white msn that has gone from wanting my wife blacked to wanting black men for myself. It’s been a whirlwind of emotions and a lot of the comments from other men like me had helped but I need to talk with other men like me to help me u understand my feelings and help guide me.
Well, I'm not like you. I'm a dominant Bull that is exsperienced enough to
give you a few thoughts. Probably a diffrent look at the thing your stuck up on.
I have gotten caught up on false perspectives or assumptions that have stopped my forward movement.
Give me a try. You have nothing to loose.
 
Well, I'm not like you. I'm a dominant Bull that is exsperienced enough to
give you a few thoughts. Probably a diffrent look at the thing your stuck up on.
I have gotten caught up on false perspectives or assumptions that have stopped my forward movement.
Give me a try. You have nothing to loose.
Hello how r u?
 
I am a 55 yr old married white man. I have been fantasizing with my wife about sharing her for a fee years and while she enjoys the fantasy she has said she doesnt see herself doing it for real. We have had conversations about where my desires come from and she acknowledges them and I respect her wishes to keep things as a fantasy. She knows the door is open and we have left it at that.

My I will call it an issue is over time as she has been reluctant I found myself doing more fantasizing on my own which has led me down the path of begining to putting myself in her place as the recipient of bbc. Wearing her panties and thigh highs as I jerk to IR porn and developing feelings of wanting to be feminized by a dominant black man.

I never had any feeling like that before. I love my wife and I am attracted to her and other women and I feel straight. I am having a hard time understanding how I can identify and feel straight in life 99% of the time, yet when I have some alone time I put on panties, fire up IR porn and fantasize about being a sissy and submitting to black men.
 
I am a 55 yr old married white man. I have been fantasizing with my wife about sharing her for a fee years and while she enjoys the fantasy she has said she doesnt see herself doing it for real. We have had conversations about where my desires come from and she acknowledges them and I respect her wishes to keep things as a fantasy. She knows the door is open and we have left it at that.

My I will call it an issue is over time as she has been reluctant I found myself doing more fantasizing on my own which has led me down the path of begining to putting myself in her place as the recipient of bbc. Wearing her panties and thigh highs as I jerk to IR porn and developing feelings of wanting to be feminized by a dominant black man.

I never had any feeling like that before. I love my wife and I am attracted to her and other women and I feel straight. I am having a hard time understanding how I can identify and feel straight in life 99% of the time, yet when I have some alone time I put on panties, fire up IR porn and fantasize about being a sissy and submitting to black men.
Hi PhillySubMale, thank you for sharing such an intimate story and glad to read your wife at least acknowledges your fantasy.
I could never determine where my similar fantasies came from. In hindsight I recall feeing humiliated through an ex girlfriend in my late teens. But in all honesty even before that I can recall non sexual acts of submission. So I guess my submissive nature has always been present.
But it sure has grown over the years! I too have had similar thoughts on submitting to a man and on occasions I have. For me it felt very natural but I have no desire for men other than pleasing them sexually.
I do however constantly fantasize about my wife being fucked by with men in ways I cannot.
I am fascinated how this fantasy continues to grow. It does everything other than go away.
Have you discussed or worked with a committed bull yet?
Thank you again for sharing and your contribution.
 
Hi PhillySubMale, thank you for sharing such an intimate story and glad to read your wife at least acknowledges your fantasy.
I could never determine where my similar fantasies came from. In hindsight I recall feeing humiliated through an ex girlfriend in my late teens. But in all honesty even before that I can recall non sexual acts of submission. So I guess my submissive nature has always been present.
But it sure has grown over the years! I too have had similar thoughts on submitting to a man and on occasions I have. For me it felt very natural but I have no desire for men other than pleasing them sexually.
I do however constantly fantasize about my wife being fucked by with men in ways I cannot.
I am fascinated how this fantasy continues to grow. It does everything other than go away.
Have you discussed or worked with a committed bull yet?
Thank you again for sharing and your contribution.

Thank you for addressing my post. My desire to share my wife started when she told me about a couple of hot dreams she had. One where she was touched by a man at a party and she knew she should stop him but was too turned on and let him continue. A couple of weeks later she told me she had another dream where she was at a party and had sex with a man under a blanket while people were around.

When she shared those stories I was incredibly turned on and let her know. I believed she must have shared them for a reason and asked her if she was interested in being with another man. She told me they were just dreams and I was reading too much into them. From that point on I had the desire to share her. I thought maybe it would pass but it doesnt go away and only grows stronger and is something I think about almost daily.

My wife enjoys the fantasy and will even comment on other men occasionally. She has even agreed to go out to a bar with me no panties. After we had some hot sex and when I asked her if she was excited that other men may have gotten a glimpse of her she said she was excited because she knew she was turning me on. I keep it all light and dont push it because I know it has to be what she wants and desires. I am happy as things are beause our sex life is off the charts.

That is one of the reasons I have not persued being with a man myself in real life. I know I would feel guilty and also would be worried about bringing home an STD. I have chatted with a few men about my desires but not gone through with anything.

We are approaching being empty nesters this fall and I am hoping this may open the door to more time for ourselves and maybe getting out more and seeing if she may be willing to explore. Some of her fantasies involve being seduced by a woman and I wonder if she met the right woman who is in the lifestyle and could maybe get the idea in her head to give another man a try.
I know it is all floating around her head and the fact she enjoys the fantasy leaves the door somewhat open.

For now I struggle with my desires to submit to a black man myself and want to do it while dressed. I read alot of the threads here and see how it often happens quickly that a man goes from straight to sissy in a short amount of time. I wonder to myself if it is something i could do in front of my wife. It really does confuse me and I try not to over think it.
 
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