Hi PhillySubMale, thank you for sharing such an intimate story and glad to read your wife at least acknowledges your fantasy.
I could never determine where my similar fantasies came from. In hindsight I recall feeing humiliated through an ex girlfriend in my late teens. But in all honesty even before that I can recall non sexual acts of submission. So I guess my submissive nature has always been present.
But it sure has grown over the years! I too have had similar thoughts on submitting to a man and on occasions I have. For me it felt very natural but I have no desire for men other than pleasing them sexually.
I do however constantly fantasize about my wife being fucked by with men in ways I cannot.
I am fascinated how this fantasy continues to grow. It does everything other than go away.
Have you discussed or worked with a committed bull yet?
Thank you again for sharing and your contribution.
Thank you for addressing my post. My desire to share my wife started when she told me about a couple of hot dreams she had. One where she was touched by a man at a party and she knew she should stop him but was too turned on and let him continue. A couple of weeks later she told me she had another dream where she was at a party and had sex with a man under a blanket while people were around.
When she shared those stories I was incredibly turned on and let her know. I believed she must have shared them for a reason and asked her if she was interested in being with another man. She told me they were just dreams and I was reading too much into them. From that point on I had the desire to share her. I thought maybe it would pass but it doesnt go away and only grows stronger and is something I think about almost daily.
My wife enjoys the fantasy and will even comment on other men occasionally. She has even agreed to go out to a bar with me no panties. After we had some hot sex and when I asked her if she was excited that other men may have gotten a glimpse of her she said she was excited because she knew she was turning me on. I keep it all light and dont push it because I know it has to be what she wants and desires. I am happy as things are beause our sex life is off the charts.
That is one of the reasons I have not persued being with a man myself in real life. I know I would feel guilty and also would be worried about bringing home an STD. I have chatted with a few men about my desires but not gone through with anything.
We are approaching being empty nesters this fall and I am hoping this may open the door to more time for ourselves and maybe getting out more and seeing if she may be willing to explore. Some of her fantasies involve being seduced by a woman and I wonder if she met the right woman who is in the lifestyle and could maybe get the idea in her head to give another man a try.
I know it is all floating around her head and the fact she enjoys the fantasy leaves the door somewhat open.
For now I struggle with my desires to submit to a black man myself and want to do it while dressed. I read alot of the threads here and see how it often happens quickly that a man goes from straight to sissy in a short amount of time. I wonder to myself if it is something i could do in front of my wife. It really does confuse me and I try not to over think it.