10 Biggest Turn Ons/10 Biggest Turn Offs

I think everyone, especially in an anonymous online forum should just let their freak flag fly. We’re all different with different desires, wants, needs, kinks, fetishes etc. so when it comes to what turns myself or others off, don’t take it personal or get offended. Everyone is entitled to what floats or doesn’t float the proverbial boat. My perspective is, if there are acts between consenting adults that bring pleasure/happiness …. It’s all good. Only exception from my perspective which you can take or leave, is people actualizing breeding fantasies. I just think it’s wrong to create a whole new person, who has no choice whether their existence is based primarily/exclusively on a sexual fetish. Off soapbox and on to my lists:

Top 10 Turn Ons (in roughly rank ordering)
1) Watching my wife get massively pleasured by a well hung black man (still working on making this happen)
2) Watching or hearing my wife get off on BBC toys, role play or sex talk
3) Watchihg my wife dance or in some other way interact with black men
4) Watching other (real) wives get sexually pleasured by a well hung black man.
5) Sweet, proper, faithful wife getting corrupted into a BBC loving slut.
6) My wife particularly, but any woman expressing a desire for a bigger cock, especially a black one
7) Stories or videos of white husbands who finally convince their sexy ass wives to take her first black cock, then can’t handle how much she fucking loves it, be careful what you wish for.
8) Pictures of well hung black guys. I know that sounds kind of gay but it’s not. I don’t get turned on because I want to do something with them nor have them touch me in any way, I just get really turned on seeing something that large, much larger than me, and then picturing how my sweet little wife would look, sound, move, etc. with that impressive cock inside her.
9) total fantasy land here because ******* is a crime of violence, but a well hung black man take a cute, innocent whute woman against her will, but as he’s “*******” her she is sexually getting off and is won over by her attacker. Like the James Blnd effect but on steroids. You know? When James Bond grabs a resistant female and she fights him but when he kisses her passionately she melts and gives it up to him then is a super fan afterwards? Same thing.
10) Love sexy asses and sexy tits in or out of sexy bras/panties. Also a big fan of thigh highs on the right woman.
11) (bending my own standard by adding an extra) Mild humiliation with wife comparing me and my performance to a BBC

Biggest turn offs
1) Guy on guy action. I don’t care if you call it bi behavior or just being a dutiful cuck, or whatever. Hard pass.
2) “They are the superior race and we are inferior” I don’t care which race is being called what. It’s BS across the board.
3) Breeding fantasies. Covered my thoughts above.
4) Women who make no noise when they are getting fucked. Some act like they are thinking about the NYTimes xword puzzle. Also, as hot as I thought Janet Mason was especially when I was first getting into this fantasy, what a WASTED opportunity. No real lustful noises, no screaming orgasms, too much smiling and laughing. Are you playing checkers or fucking? She could have been a fucking legend if she got the sex talk and acting right. My wife hated to hear her voice because she never seemed that really into the action, like a real white woman, taking a real BBC and getting her world rocked should sound.
5) Not repulsed by but just not that into seeing women do anal.
6) Hate watching women treat cucks like total *******. Those cucks are giving you freedom and unconditional love that few women ever experience. When they leave their cuck for their bull, and that bull grows tired of that same old pussy and dumps her? Each and every one of those cucks should rent a giant billboard that says “GO FUCK YOURSELF!!!” I may have a slight humiliation fantasy with respect to being compared in size and performance wise with BBC, but I am still a great partner, loving, caring, funny, and in demand. A woman treats me like that she can grab her ******* and go.
7) Woman on woman action … see anal sex. Doesn’t gross me out but doesn’t rev my engines either.
8) Hate seeing a video that touts black man on white WIFE action, and there is no wedding ring or any other indication that she is actually married, I pass on all but the most insanely hot single white women getting fucked if I don’t see a ring.
9) writing, cages, panty wearing, facial cum shots…… don’t disgust me but aren’t a turn on at all.
10) Small, medium or skinny dick black guy porn, or a white cuck who has a bigger cock than the bull. That’s not what gets my juices flowing. I want to see the black guy giving the white wife something I and most other white guys can’t.

Curious to see the lists of others. Thanks.

we are similar

let me start by saying that I know what she can have at home and the whole point is for her to have something different. She can hook up with any dude at any bar in minutes, but that would be cheating on me and thats unacceptable. The fantasy/hope is that she hooks up with someone different, rare, dare I say better than I. Def want a fit and very hung black bull. I am not gay or bi, I am also NOT homophobic, I can admit a guy looks good, has a nice body, or looks good fucking my wife. If bull is repulsed if I tell him that he looks great, then it wont be a match

Turn Ons
1) My wife undressing a very hung very fit black man and seeing his cock for the first time. Him slipping her panties off. (out comes her repressed slut part of her)
2) her holding his cock in her hands while both standing and kissing, something about seeing a long hardening back cock in her hands and against her white body and yes, the kissing, the appeal for me is that it involves another human being and seems like there has to be some chemistry, otherwise I'd buy her a huge dildo
3) That huge cock in her mouth
4) Her on her back, legs spread, he is in-between and placing his cock on her abdomen showing her just how deep inside he will be. The skin contrast, the realization that he is going to take up alot of space inside her, HOT!
5) That first penetration
6) Her riding him and goes all the way down to his balls, knowing she got 10in of black cock filling her up
7) Thinking about that cockhead, practically in her womb, which could explode at any minute. Something about the conflict in my mind of this potentially happening
8) watching her orgasm with his cock inside her and seeing the look in her eyes.
9) Knowing he is enjoying her beautiful body
10) Looking into her eyes the moment he unloads balls deep into her womb.

Turn Offs - not intended to insult anyone who is turn on by things that turn me off.
1) humiliation - not here for it, I am not tiny and even if I were, no, this is about mutual pleasure and if mutual pleasure for him or her involves degrading me then not going to happen
2) Cages or any panties, skirts, or bras for me, I aint cross dressing or pretending to be a sissy. Thats not who I am and I am not waiting in the next room, that feels like cheating on me. If he is fit and has a 10 inch cock, then probably can find a woman to fuck easy, point here is to fuck a white married wife, so hubby gets to watch and be close by, If he is extremely homophobic, prob not a good match, I certainly dont want him to fuck me, but I want to be on the bed this happens on.
2) Poor hygiene - unacceptable, thats my wife! No dirty smelly guy to come near her
3) disrespect - she is a human being, Please turn her into a bbc slut, dominate her, fuck the fucking fuck out of her, just treat her with respect
4) spit - sorry, I know a big man is going to need some moisture, but spitting on his dick or his hand and then rubbing it on his cock is gross, use her mouth, get her pussy wet and use that.
5) Being too rough - Also not here to watch her get beat up. If his mindset is to pleasure her and give her the fuck of her life, great, fuck the fuck out of her, but if his mindset is to tear her pussy apart, naw
6) red raw ass - as with #4 whats the mindset? Please enjoy her ass (its magnificent) but smacking it until it stings and will be marked just doesn't do anything for me, Please grab her cheeks, squeeze it, enjoy it, slide those figure in her crack. She has a beautiful ass, carress it, dont beat it
7) ED - I realize some very endowed men cant get rock hard, thats ok with me, and semi's are a turn on when the two of them first start, but to fuck her, limp or even soft semi's are mood killers in my opinion. If he's not that excited being with her and needs his hand to push his cock in, then find someone else.
8) quite cumming. I want to know, hear, see the orgasm from him and her, would be disappointing to see him stop pull out and be done. Dont need to scream, (she moans loud, so I'll know when she cums), but for him, at least tell me he is about to fill my wife with his seed.
9) Fingers or cock inside her ass. Again, when she hooks up with a bull, he is going to have a serious piece of meat, She cant handle me back there, anal with a 10 inch cock will not be enjoyed, it will be the end of the evening. And just because its a hole doesnt mean he can put something in it. she probably would love a finger or tongue touching it, but not a thumb in it, she is not a bowling ball.
10) ramming his cock down her throat. Bull's cock is to be worshipped by her, enjoy a blowjob. if he wants to go balls deep inside her body, lay her down on the bed and put his cock in her pussy and fill her the fuck up. Blinding her with her own tears and makeup isnt fun and making her puke is the end of evening
 
we are similar

let me start by saying that I know what she can have at home and the whole point is for her to have something different. She can hook up with any dude at any bar in minutes, but that would be cheating on me and thats unacceptable. The fantasy/hope is that she hooks up with someone different, rare, dare I say better than I. Def want a fit and very hung black bull. I am not gay or bi, I am also NOT homophobic, I can admit a guy looks good, has a nice body, or looks good fucking my wife. If bull is repulsed if I tell him that he looks great, then it wont be a match

Turn Ons
1) My wife undressing a very hung very fit black man and seeing his cock for the first time. Him slipping her panties off. (out comes her repressed slut part of her)
2) her holding his cock in her hands while both standing and kissing, something about seeing a long hardening back cock in her hands and against her white body and yes, the kissing, the appeal for me is that it involves another human being and seems like there has to be some chemistry, otherwise I'd buy her a huge dildo
3) That huge cock in her mouth
4) Her on her back, legs spread, he is in-between and placing his cock on her abdomen showing her just how deep inside he will be. The skin contrast, the realization that he is going to take up alot of space inside her, HOT!
5) That first penetration
6) Her riding him and goes all the way down to his balls, knowing she got 10in of black cock filling her up
7) Thinking about that cockhead, practically in her womb, which could explode at any minute. Something about the conflict in my mind of this potentially happening
8) watching her orgasm with his cock inside her and seeing the look in her eyes.
9) Knowing he is enjoying her beautiful body
10) Looking into her eyes the moment he unloads balls deep into her womb.

Turn Offs - not intended to insult anyone who is turn on by things that turn me off.
1) humiliation - not here for it, I am not tiny and even if I were, no, this is about mutual pleasure and if mutual pleasure for him or her involves degrading me then not going to happen
2) Cages or any panties, skirts, or bras for me, I aint cross dressing or pretending to be a sissy. Thats not who I am and I am not waiting in the next room, that feels like cheating on me. If he is fit and has a 10 inch cock, then probably can find a woman to fuck easy, point here is to fuck a white married wife, so hubby gets to watch and be close by, If he is extremely homophobic, prob not a good match, I certainly dont want him to fuck me, but I want to be on the bed this happens on.
2) Poor hygiene - unacceptable, thats my wife! No dirty smelly guy to come near her
3) disrespect - she is a human being, Please turn her into a bbc slut, dominate her, fuck the fucking fuck out of her, just treat her with respect
4) spit - sorry, I know a big man is going to need some moisture, but spitting on his dick or his hand and then rubbing it on his cock is gross, use her mouth, get her pussy wet and use that.
5) Being too rough - Also not here to watch her get beat up. If his mindset is to pleasure her and give her the fuck of her life, great, fuck the fuck out of her, but if his mindset is to tear her pussy apart, naw
6) red raw ass - as with #4 whats the mindset? Please enjoy her ass (its magnificent) but smacking it until it stings and will be marked just doesn't do anything for me, Please grab her cheeks, squeeze it, enjoy it, slide those figure in her crack. She has a beautiful ass, carress it, dont beat it
7) ED - I realize some very endowed men cant get rock hard, thats ok with me, and semi's are a turn on when the two of them first start, but to fuck her, limp or even soft semi's are mood killers in my opinion. If he's not that excited being with her and needs his hand to push his cock in, then find someone else.
8) quite cumming. I want to know, hear, see the orgasm from him and her, would be disappointing to see him stop pull out and be done. Dont need to scream, (she moans loud, so I'll know when she cums), but for him, at least tell me he is about to fill my wife with his seed.
9) Fingers or cock inside her ass. Again, when she hooks up with a bull, he is going to have a serious piece of meat, She cant handle me back there, anal with a 10 inch cock will not be enjoyed, it will be the end of the evening. And just because its a hole doesnt mean he can put something in it. she probably would love a finger or tongue touching it, but not a thumb in it, she is not a bowling ball.
10) ramming his cock down her throat. Bull's cock is to be worshipped by her, enjoy a blowjob. if he wants to go balls deep inside her body, lay her down on the bed and put his cock in her pussy and fill her the fuck up. Blinding her with her own tears and makeup isnt fun and making her puke is the end of evening
Ok there is some DAMN hot stuff in the turn on section. And there are things in both that I agree with. Some I’m not sure I feel the same way on… red ass… all depends on my wife. If she likes it and it really fulfills some sub fantasy she has it’s cooleo with me. Same with a finger up her ass. A 10” cock up there… that wouldn’t be good. Look up “anal leakage” and get back to me. The spit thing not a big deal for me. Kind of same as if he ate her pussy before fucking her. It’s all saliva but I would prefer it was actually lube. Everything else I am in agreement on not that you were waiting or even interested in my concurrence of what turns you on. 🙂
 
Right. So you’re a guy into this without a woman. I rest my case
I was into it in my relation before last (my last ex we were totally vanilla).

I want my next one to be either an open relationship or a cuckold relationship ;)

I thought people came to these forums looking for girls with that kind of relationship in mind anyway?
 
This site is great for many reasons but finding a female to start a relationship with is probably not in the cards. Stay for the fun.

As for finding that special woman…. Go about it the old fashioned way. When you find someone you really want to be with (and you get a sense they feel the same) share your fantasy and hope for the best. You can’t expect her to do it in real life, but I don’t think it’s unreasonable to expect her to indulge your fantasy via role play, toys and sex talk.

Good luck.
 
In no particular order... each one goes for watching as well as participating

Turn Ons:
1. Receiving Snowball - nothing gets me going like some dude blowing his load in a chicks mouth who then spits it down cucks throat Wowza!

2. Kiss After Suck - chick alternates between sucking bull and making out with cuck, bonus if she can deepthroat

3. Pregnant facesitting - My lady is currently 9 months preg (with bulls baby) so it can be pretty ******* from added weight/increased size of already thick ass/thighs, but I love it! If I die I due.

4. Using my saliva as lube for bulls cock - laying underneath her in 69 position getting her nice and wet for his huge cock then getting to watch upclose as he unloads in her balls deep, literally see his balls drain.

5. Listening to lady blow bull - hearing her struggle to take his entire 10 inches down, knowing when he's about to nut that he's gonna push himself as deep as possible, regardless of her ability to take it without gagging.

Turn offs:

1. Male on male direct contact: I don't suck my bulls cock or touch his cock intentionally in any way. If she's riding reverse cowgirl while I'm licking her front, if his dick pops put and hits me in the chin it's whatever, but nothing on purpose

2. Anything sadistic (masks. Dick locks, physical aggressivness) I'm already watching my lady get plowed by another dude, that's intense enough. Don't need to be in physical pain too.

3. Bull nuts on her face - boooo! Nut in her mouth! Every last drop should be turned into a nice glob dribbling into cucks mouth!

4. Anybody smaller than me - fortunately my bulls cock is about twice my length so no worries there!

5. Anything unsanitary, especially smells - shower up guys and gals, clean fun is the best fun
 
I think everyone, especially in an anonymous online forum should just let their freak flag fly. We’re all different with different desires, wants, needs, kinks, fetishes etc. so when it comes to what turns myself or others off, don’t take it personal or get offended. Everyone is entitled to what floats or doesn’t float the proverbial boat. My perspective is, if there are acts between consenting adults that bring pleasure/happiness …. It’s all good. Only exception from my perspective which you can take or leave, is people actualizing breeding fantasies. I just think it’s wrong to create a whole new person, who has no choice whether their existence is based primarily/exclusively on a sexual fetish. Off soapbox and on to my lists:

Top 10 Turn Ons (in roughly rank ordering)
1) Watching my wife get massively pleasured by a well hung black man (still working on making this happen)
2) Watching or hearing my wife get off on BBC toys, role play or sex talk
3) Watchihg my wife dance or in some other way interact with black men
4) Watching other (real) wives get sexually pleasured by a well hung black man.
5) Sweet, proper, faithful wife getting corrupted into a BBC loving slut.
6) My wife particularly, but any woman expressing a desire for a bigger cock, especially a black one
7) Stories or videos of white husbands who finally convince their sexy ass wives to take her first black cock, then can’t handle how much she fucking loves it, be careful what you wish for.
8) Pictures of well hung black guys. I know that sounds kind of gay but it’s not. I don’t get turned on because I want to do something with them nor have them touch me in any way, I just get really turned on seeing something that large, much larger than me, and then picturing how my sweet little wife would look, sound, move, etc. with that impressive cock inside her.
9) total fantasy land here because ******* is a crime of violence, but a well hung black man take a cute, innocent whute woman against her will, but as he’s “*******” her she is sexually getting off and is won over by her attacker. Like the James Blnd effect but on steroids. You know? When James Bond grabs a resistant female and she fights him but when he kisses her passionately she melts and gives it up to him then is a super fan afterwards? Same thing.
10) Love sexy asses and sexy tits in or out of sexy bras/panties. Also a big fan of thigh highs on the right woman.
11) (bending my own standard by adding an extra) Mild humiliation with wife comparing me and my performance to a BBC

Biggest turn offs
1) Guy on guy action. I don’t care if you call it bi behavior or just being a dutiful cuck, or whatever. Hard pass.
2) “They are the superior race and we are inferior” I don’t care which race is being called what. It’s BS across the board.
3) Breeding fantasies. Covered my thoughts above.
4) Women who make no noise when they are getting fucked. Some act like they are thinking about the NYTimes xword puzzle. Also, as hot as I thought Janet Mason was especially when I was first getting into this fantasy, what a WASTED opportunity. No real lustful noises, no screaming orgasms, too much smiling and laughing. Are you playing checkers or fucking? She could have been a fucking legend if she got the sex talk and acting right. My wife hated to hear her voice because she never seemed that really into the action, like a real white woman, taking a real BBC and getting her world rocked should sound.
5) Not repulsed by but just not that into seeing women do anal.
6) Hate watching women treat cucks like total *******. Those cucks are giving you freedom and unconditional love that few women ever experience. When they leave their cuck for their bull, and that bull grows tired of that same old pussy and dumps her? Each and every one of those cucks should rent a giant billboard that says “GO FUCK YOURSELF!!!” I may have a slight humiliation fantasy with respect to being compared in size and performance wise with BBC, but I am still a great partner, loving, caring, funny, and in demand. A woman treats me like that she can grab her ******* and go.
7) Woman on woman action … see anal sex. Doesn’t gross me out but doesn’t rev my engines either.
8) Hate seeing a video that touts black man on white WIFE action, and there is no wedding ring or any other indication that she is actually married, I pass on all but the most insanely hot single white women getting fucked if I don’t see a ring.
9) writing, cages, panty wearing, facial cum shots…… don’t disgust me but aren’t a turn on at all.
10) Small, medium or skinny dick black guy porn, or a white cuck who has a bigger cock than the bull. That’s not what gets my juices flowing. I want to see the black guy giving the white wife something I and most other white guys can’t.

Curious to see the lists of others. Thanks.
 
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