10 Biggest Turn Ons/10 Biggest Turn Offs

I think everyone, especially in an anonymous online forum should just let their freak flag fly. We’re all different with different desires, wants, needs, kinks, fetishes etc. so when it comes to what turns myself or others off, don’t take it personal or get offended. Everyone is entitled to what floats or doesn’t float the proverbial boat. My perspective is, if there are acts between consenting adults that bring pleasure/happiness …. It’s all good. Only exception from my perspective which you can take or leave, is people actualizing breeding fantasies. I just think it’s wrong to create a whole new person, who has no choice whether their existence is based primarily/exclusively on a sexual fetish. Off soapbox and on to my lists:

Top 10 Turn Ons (in roughly rank ordering)
1) Watching my wife get massively pleasured by a well hung black man (still working on making this happen)
2) Watching or hearing my wife get off on BBC toys, role play or sex talk
3) Watchihg my wife dance or in some other way interact with black men
4) Watching other (real) wives get sexually pleasured by a well hung black man.
5) Sweet, proper, faithful wife getting corrupted into a BBC loving slut.
6) My wife particularly, but any woman expressing a desire for a bigger cock, especially a black one
7) Stories or videos of white husbands who finally convince their sexy ass wives to take her first black cock, then can’t handle how much she fucking loves it, be careful what you wish for.
8) Pictures of well hung black guys. I know that sounds kind of gay but it’s not. I don’t get turned on because I want to do something with them nor have them touch me in any way, I just get really turned on seeing something that large, much larger than me, and then picturing how my sweet little wife would look, sound, move, etc. with that impressive cock inside her.
9) total fantasy land here because ******* is a crime of violence, but a well hung black man take a cute, innocent whute woman against her will, but as he’s “*******” her she is sexually getting off and is won over by her attacker. Like the James Blnd effect but on steroids. You know? When James Bond grabs a resistant female and she fights him but when he kisses her passionately she melts and gives it up to him then is a super fan afterwards? Same thing.
10) Love sexy asses and sexy tits in or out of sexy bras/panties. Also a big fan of thigh highs on the right woman.
11) (bending my own standard by adding an extra) Mild humiliation with wife comparing me and my performance to a BBC

Biggest turn offs
1) Guy on guy action. I don’t care if you call it bi behavior or just being a dutiful cuck, or whatever. Hard pass.
2) “They are the superior race and we are inferior” I don’t care which race is being called what. It’s BS across the board.
3) Breeding fantasies. Covered my thoughts above.
4) Women who make no noise when they are getting fucked. Some act like they are thinking about the NYTimes xword puzzle. Also, as hot as I thought Janet Mason was especially when I was first getting into this fantasy, what a WASTED opportunity. No real lustful noises, no screaming orgasms, too much smiling and laughing. Are you playing checkers or fucking? She could have been a fucking legend if she got the sex talk and acting right. My wife hated to hear her voice because she never seemed that really into the action, like a real white woman, taking a real BBC and getting her world rocked should sound.
5) Not repulsed by but just not that into seeing women do anal.
6) Hate watching women treat cucks like total *******. Those cucks are giving you freedom and unconditional love that few women ever experience. When they leave their cuck for their bull, and that bull grows tired of that same old pussy and dumps her? Each and every one of those cucks should rent a giant billboard that says “GO FUCK YOURSELF!!!” I may have a slight humiliation fantasy with respect to being compared in size and performance wise with BBC, but I am still a great partner, loving, caring, funny, and in demand. A woman treats me like that she can grab her ******* and go.
7) Woman on woman action … see anal sex. Doesn’t gross me out but doesn’t rev my engines either.
8) Hate seeing a video that touts black man on white WIFE action, and there is no wedding ring or any other indication that she is actually married, I pass on all but the most insanely hot single white women getting fucked if I don’t see a ring.
9) writing, cages, panty wearing, facial cum shots…… don’t disgust me but aren’t a turn on at all.
10) Small, medium or skinny dick black guy porn, or a white cuck who has a bigger cock than the bull. That’s not what gets my juices flowing. I want to see the black guy giving the white wife something I and most other white guys can’t.

Curious to see the lists of others. Thanks.
 
Everyone is entitled to what floats or doesn’t float the proverbial boat. My perspective is, if there are acts between consenting adults that bring pleasure/happiness …. It’s all good. Only exception from my perspective which you can take or leave, is people actualizing breeding fantasies. I just think it’s wrong to create a whole new person, who has no choice whether their existence is based primarily/exclusively on a sexual fetish.
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Read this: https://www.blacktowhite.net/thread...-about-raising-black-mixed-babies-etc.261078/
 
Really thought there would be more feedback.
For me the only turn on that you mentioned thar I’m not into would be the *******. For turn offs I love women on women action and like most anal. I’m also into the breeding fantasy but only as a fantasy. I also like interracial porn. the women doesn’t have to be married for me to enjoy.
 
I think everyone, especially in an anonymous online forum should just let their freak flag fly. We’re all different with different desires, wants, needs, kinks, fetishes etc. so when it comes to what turns myself or others off, don’t take it personal or get offended. Everyone is entitled to what floats or doesn’t float the proverbial boat. My perspective is, if there are acts between consenting adults that bring pleasure/happiness …. It’s all good. Only exception from my perspective which you can take or leave, is people actualizing breeding fantasies. I just think it’s wrong to create a whole new person, who has no choice whether their existence is based primarily/exclusively on a sexual fetish. Off soapbox and on to my lists:

Top 10 Turn Ons (in roughly rank ordering)
1) Watching my wife get massively pleasured by a well hung black man (still working on making this happen)
2) Watching or hearing my wife get off on BBC toys, role play or sex talk
3) Watchihg my wife dance or in some other way interact with black men
4) Watching other (real) wives get sexually pleasured by a well hung black man.
5) Sweet, proper, faithful wife getting corrupted into a BBC loving slut.
6) My wife particularly, but any woman expressing a desire for a bigger cock, especially a black one
7) Stories or videos of white husbands who finally convince their sexy ass wives to take her first black cock, then can’t handle how much she fucking loves it, be careful what you wish for.
8) Pictures of well hung black guys. I know that sounds kind of gay but it’s not. I don’t get turned on because I want to do something with them nor have them touch me in any way, I just get really turned on seeing something that large, much larger than me, and then picturing how my sweet little wife would look, sound, move, etc. with that impressive cock inside her.
9) total fantasy land here because ******* is a crime of violence, but a well hung black man take a cute, innocent whute woman against her will, but as he’s “*******” her she is sexually getting off and is won over by her attacker. Like the James Blnd effect but on steroids. You know? When James Bond grabs a resistant female and she fights him but when he kisses her passionately she melts and gives it up to him then is a super fan afterwards? Same thing.
10) Love sexy asses and sexy tits in or out of sexy bras/panties. Also a big fan of thigh highs on the right woman.
11) (bending my own standard by adding an extra) Mild humiliation with wife comparing me and my performance to a BBC

Biggest turn offs
1) Guy on guy action. I don’t care if you call it bi behavior or just being a dutiful cuck, or whatever. Hard pass.
2) “They are the superior race and we are inferior” I don’t care which race is being called what. It’s BS across the board.
3) Breeding fantasies. Covered my thoughts above.
4) Women who make no noise when they are getting fucked. Some act like they are thinking about the NYTimes xword puzzle. Also, as hot as I thought Janet Mason was especially when I was first getting into this fantasy, what a WASTED opportunity. No real lustful noises, no screaming orgasms, too much smiling and laughing. Are you playing checkers or fucking? She could have been a fucking legend if she got the sex talk and acting right. My wife hated to hear her voice because she never seemed that really into the action, like a real white woman, taking a real BBC and getting her world rocked should sound.
5) Not repulsed by but just not that into seeing women do anal.
6) Hate watching women treat cucks like total *******. Those cucks are giving you freedom and unconditional love that few women ever experience. When they leave their cuck for their bull, and that bull grows tired of that same old pussy and dumps her? Each and every one of those cucks should rent a giant billboard that says “GO FUCK YOURSELF!!!” I may have a slight humiliation fantasy with respect to being compared in size and performance wise with BBC, but I am still a great partner, loving, caring, funny, and in demand. A woman treats me like that she can grab her ******* and go.
7) Woman on woman action … see anal sex. Doesn’t gross me out but doesn’t rev my engines either.
8) Hate seeing a video that touts black man on white WIFE action, and there is no wedding ring or any other indication that she is actually married, I pass on all but the most insanely hot single white women getting fucked if I don’t see a ring.
9) writing, cages, panty wearing, facial cum shots…… don’t disgust me but aren’t a turn on at all.
10) Small, medium or skinny dick black guy porn, or a white cuck who has a bigger cock than the bull. That’s not what gets my juices flowing. I want to see the black guy giving the white wife something I and most other white guys can’t.

Curious to see the lists of others. Thanks.
I'm a similar situation to you. I think a lot of guys in this forum are into being humiliated. I also think a lot of guys who are attracted to cuckold are either closeted or have suppressed bisexual tendencies.

To be clear there's nothing wrong with either of these things, provided everyone consents; but I am totally hetero and humiliation and anything involving sissy, anything remotely homosexual or anything about superiority of a race, in either direction, does nothing for me, and they even turn my stomach, honestly.

I'm not sure if I can give you exactly ten turns ones and turn offs but a non-specific number of both:

Turn offs:
1. Anything to do with humiliation, cages or "cleaning up".
2. Anything homosexual. If my gf does something with multiple guys, they should be hetero. I'm okay with either having an orgy or watching her have an orgy, but I am not doing anything with any guy. That is a red line for me.
3. Lack of respect. Just because she has more freedom than me, there still has to be respect.
4. Selfishness. It's meant to be a one way open relationship that is sexually exciting for BOTH of us, not just a pass for her to sleep with anyone (and all her sideguys must be black),
5. Guy on guy action. Girl on girl isn't that great either (my ex was bi and it was nice from time to time but it's a bit overrated). I prefer multiple black men fucking the ******* out of my girl haha.
6. Bedroom racism. I have read stories about fantasies of the black guying being a slave fucking his master's wife, and I also read about "black superiority" etc here too. Neither of these things appeal to me, honestly, especially the former.

Turn ons:
1. Big booty Spanish and Latina girls. Greeks and Lebanese are good too. My ex was Spanish and I think girls from Spain are the ones that I have found to be the most open to this idea, and they are also curvy and facially beautiful.
2. Having great sex with my girl and ONLY my girl.
3. My girl having great sex with me AND loads of even better sex with multiple big black men with big black cocks... They should be larger than me because that's part of the excitement.. preferably around 8" or bigger.
4. Hearing my girl squealing and seeing her leg vibrate and as one of her bulls puts it in a bit deeper.
5. My girl being pumped hard by multiple big black men repeatedly.
6. When she squirts all over his cock.
7. When she is dancing with a group of black guys in the corner of the club and they are getting erect as she grinds her big butt on their groin area, just before she lets them know she wants to do something with all of them.
8. (This is the only mildly "humiliating" thing I like) massaging lubricant into her vagina and her anus* in the bathroom before she heads to the bedroom where her bulls are waiting to punish her.
9. Giving her a kiss on her butt cheek and telling her I love her before she goes into the bedroom with him/ them.
10. Her making eye contact with me as he/ they orgasm and ejaculate into her. The single hottest experience of my life was when my ex was having double penetration with two black guys (and the one in her pussy was absolutely huge) and they both came at about the same time... She just looked at me and stared as they emptied their balls into her vagina and her anus.
I doubt that moment will ever happen again because so many variables need to go right for it to happen, but I masturbate thinking about it often.

* She rarely had anal sex with them but it did happen from time to time and so we prepared her for it just in case.

Let me know what you think. Ps: I think we are the same in that we are non humiliation "Alpha cucks". Peace
 
Yeah, we are of a similar mind. Fantasy role play and fulfillment between two or more consenting adults is awesome but producing a baby based on a fetish. Messed up. I was listening to a consenting adults podcast and there was a woman on there with a breeding fantasy. Got really off on it. She was using the rhythm method for BC but wasn’t even doing that strictly. She winds up getting pregnant then decides “enough of fantasy play” and has an abortion. That life they created was just a prop. That’s sick and twisted.
 
I'm a similar situation to you. I think a lot of guys in this forum are into being humiliated. I also think a lot of guys who are attracted to cuckold are either closeted or have suppressed bisexual tendencies.

To be clear there's nothing wrong with either of these things, provided everyone consents; but I am totally hetero and humiliation and anything involving sissy, anything remotely homosexual or anything about superiority of a race, in either direction, does nothing for me, and they even turn my stomach, honestly.

I'm not sure if I can give you exactly ten turns ones and turn offs but a non-specific number of both:

Turn offs:
1. Anything to do with humiliation, cages or "cleaning up".
2. Anything homosexual. If my gf does something with multiple guys, they should be hetero. I'm okay with either having an orgy or watching her have an orgy, but I am not doing anything with any guy. That is a red line for me.
3. Lack of respect. Just because she has more freedom than me, there still has to be respect.
4. Selfishness. It's meant to be a one way open relationship that is sexually exciting for BOTH of us, not just a pass for her to ******* with anyone (and all her sideguys must be black),
5. Guy on guy action. Girl on girl isn't that great either (my ex was bi and it was nice from time to time but it's a bit overrated). I prefer multiple black men fucking the ******* out of my girl haha.
6. Bedroom racism. I have read stories about fantasies of the black guying being a slave fucking his master's wife, and I also read about "black superiority" etc here too. Neither of these things appeal to me, honestly, especially the former.

Turn ons:
1. Big booty Spanish and Latina girls. Greeks and Lebanese are good too. My ex was Spanish and I think girls from Spain are the ones that I have found to be the most open to this idea, and they are also curvy and facially beautiful.
2. Having great sex with my girl and ONLY my girl.
3. My girl having great sex with me AND loads of even better sex with multiple big black men with big black cocks... They should be larger than me because that's part of the excitement.. preferably around 8" or bigger.
4. Hearing my girl squealing and seeing her leg vibrate and as one of her bulls puts it in a bit deeper.
5. My girl being pumped hard by multiple big black men repeatedly.
6. When she squirts all over his cock.
7. When she is dancing with a group of black guys in the corner of the club and they are getting erect as she grinds her big butt on their groin area, just before she lets them know she wants to do something with all of them.
8. (This is the only mildly "humiliating" thing I like) massaging lubricant into her vagina and her anus* in the bathroom before she heads to the bedroom where her bulls are waiting to punish her.
9. Giving her a kiss on her butt cheek and telling her I love her before she goes into the bedroom with him/ them.
10. Her making eye contact with me as he/ they orgasm and ejaculate into her. The single hottest experience of my life was when my ex was having double penetration with two black guys (and the one in her pussy was absolutely huge) and they both came at about the same time... She just looked at me and stared as they emptied their balls into her vagina and her anus.
I doubt that moment will ever happen again because so many variables need to go right for it to happen, but I masturbate thinking about it often.

* She rarely had anal sex with them but it did happen from time to time and so we prepared her for it just in case.

Let me know what you think. Ps: I think we are the same in that we are non humiliation "Alpha cucks". Peace
Sent you a direct message with some questions and thoughts. Good list. I think I am a bit more into mild humiliation than you are. My perfect balance? “I love you baby so much, and love being with you, but I can’t help myself, his cock is so much bigger and fills me up so much, and goes so much deeper, it just makes me cum so fucking hard. I just can’t resist fucking him. I need that BBC.”
 
Yeah, we are of a similar mind. Fantasy role play and fulfillment between two or more consenting adults is awesome but producing a baby based on a fetish. Messed up. I was listening to a consenting adults podcast and there was a woman on there with a breeding fantasy. Got really off on it. She was using the rhythm method for BC but wasn’t even doing that strictly. She winds up getting pregnant then decides “enough of fantasy play” and has an abortion. That life they created was just a prop. That’s sick and twisted.
I won't comment on another people's fantasies and fetishes, but I will go on record as saying it's not my thing personally.
 
Sent you a direct message with some questions and thoughts. Good list. I think I am a bit more into mild humiliation than you are. My perfect balance? “I love you baby so much, and love being with you, but I can’t help myself, his cock is so much bigger and fills me up so much, and goes so much deeper, it just makes me cum so fucking hard. I just can’t resist fucking him. I need that BBC.”
Yeah that sounds pretty hot. Similar to what I'm looking for.

I saw the message, thank you. It was a bit on the long side so I'll answer you a bit later if that's alright :)
 
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