your suggestions please!!

Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by radouane, Feb 14, 2015.

  1. radouane

    radouane Member

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    Hello, how can i convince my wife to go black???
     
  2. Torpedo

    Torpedo Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    Ask her and see how she feels about. The majority of women do not cross the race barrier. The main question you need to ask yourself is: Do you want this for her or for you? More than one man has convinced a wife/girlfriend that was sexually content to bring additional people into their relationship and lived to regret it. If she is happy with what you are giving her take the compliment and go buy some porn to satisfy your fantasies. If she is really interested in IR sex she most likely has already tried it
     
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  3. radouane

    radouane Member

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    well it's gonna be good for both. She's not well satisfied sexually with me
     
  4. Torpedo

    Torpedo Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    In that case I would start with a movie that had an IR scene and see what her reaction is. Provided of course she is alright watching porn with you.
     
  5. radouane

    radouane Member

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    what if her reaction would be positive?
     
  6. bm_from_southjersey

    bm_from_southjersey Administrator Staff Member Real Person Gold Member

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    That's a question that you need to answer for yourself.
     
  7. kcwife4bbc

    kcwife4bbc Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    She either will or she will not. There really is no convincing her. I do know one thing, of you push to hard it can severely backfire. We have seen it before.
     
  8. MacNfries

    MacNfries Well-Known Member Sweet & Cordial Gold Member

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    radouane, you're one of the most confusing posters we've had here in a while. Half of your posts refer to convincing your wife to go black, and the other half of your posts refer to your girl friend. I even asked you a few weeks ago which it was, and you said you were NOT married ... and here you are, again, asking for help in convincing your WIFE to go black.

    Even if you're fantasy playing in your mind, you need to stick to one scenario ... are you MARRIED or are you SINGLE?
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  9. radouane

    radouane Member

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    Currently I'm married
    it has been for our marriage 45 days
     
  10. falcondfw69

    falcondfw69 Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    And after 45 days you need to add spice to your relationship by adding someone else in? Sounds like a doomed marriage from the start. If she is not satisfied with you, why don't you try and improve YOUR skills, before adding a 3rd party into the mix? There are plenty of places to go on the internet for that information. I mean real places. Not like porn movies that teach you to slap your woman around or treat her rough.
     
  11. radouane

    radouane Member

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    we've been together before we got married, and she noticed my problem in sex
     
  12. flsubboy4u

    flsubboy4u Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    I don't agree that all porn movies "teach you to slap your woman" etc. I think there are some hot interracial movies that can show your woman just how superior and sexy a black man really is. Black men move better in bed, have excellent bodies (especially in porn) and if you find "amateur interracial" videos they are usually the best. Moreover, there is a site dedicated to interracial fucking called "iloveinterracial" and it is all amateurs who went black and love interracial sex. That would be a good place to start. Leave a link to that sight on your desktop and let her find it and that could open a discussion about how much you find interracial sex exciting. Then you will find out what she thinks. She may at first, reject the idea of open marriage since that is what is "expected" of her. But over time, you can convince her to understand that YOU have no desire to be with another woman. I have introduced four women to interracial sex and open relationships and had a really great time. One was my girlfriend of eight years when I was in my twenties. She now has three interracial children, one male and two girls from three different males. Although the relationship got too crazy for us and eventually ended up with her living with her black boyfriend, it was a great and exciting experience. We will talk occasionally. Be aware though that once it starts, it does not stop just because you change your mind. A women who experiences sex that powerful and superior will be hooked for life. She will do it behind your back if she has to. It often becomes a powerful addiction and there is no turning back. Be certain you can handle the truth that you are inferior sexually to her lover before you go down that road. If she feels you are inferior to him, her attitudes about physical contact may change and her rules will be rules you will have to live by.
     
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  13. falcondfw69

    falcondfw69 Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    Then you should have done something about it
     
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  14. flsubboy4u

    flsubboy4u Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    Its nice to believe that you can "do something about" anything you want. Women are living thinking beings. You can't "do something about" everything. Sometimes you start something that changes everything. It gets complicated and is not quite as simple as finding a quick fix.
     
  15. Torpedo

    Torpedo Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    Good oral skills are just as, if not more important than good fucking skills. If you are adept at curling your partners toes with your tongue she will be less concerned about the size of your manhood. I have come to conclusion in my slightly more than 50 years of fucking that a lot of women seek extramarital sex because the husbands/partners are too lazy or self centered to learn to be good in bed.