It is interesting that this thread has gone on so long. I am not sure if it is related to cuckold angst or related to a deep desire of the cuckold to watch. In my opinion the decisions regarding sex (and other things for that matter) including when, how, where, how often etc. are all decisions to be mutually agreed upon. Agreed on by the black man and the woman. The white boy should listen and give his opinion IF ASKED. He otherwise should stay out of the way and be happy and supportive. In the ideal case his opinion and desires are largely irrelevant. His needs are met vicariously when the woman and the real man are happy. At least that is how I see it trying to answer the actual question.