There is a forty year old in house attorney where I work who has two young children and is currently going through a divorce from her white husband. She has a younger Black Lover who she just raves about; can't live without him, best sex ever, she adores him, etc... I'm not sure if she was seeing him before or after the breakup, but she refuses to reconcile with her soon to be ex no matter how much he begs. She's found a Real Man and will never give him up!