Hey all - I just wanted some advice on introducing my wife to dildos/vibrators. We are a young couple and have been married for 5 years, but we were high school sweethearts. Sadly, I have been the only sexual partner for her and she has always been on the shy side as she tends to be very insecure. Obviously, with me wanting to be her cuck one day or her to get introduced to the Hotwife lifestyle, it has not been an easy tasks to bring up. I am so surprised she hasn't been more proactive with introducing toys to the bedroom given my inability to stay hard or last for long...but any time I have had issues in the moment and brought it up, she makes the comment "I dont want a plastic toy inside me, I want you inside me". Anyone else has a similar experience?
Since getting her into the cuck/hotwife lifestyle might be too much for her right now, I also fantasize about seeing her with toys/dildos. We have played with some mini vibrators, but we are just getting to the point where she will say yes and she never is the one to ask for me to pull it out, I always have to be the one to ask or bring it up during sex. I learned the hard way, because the first time I bought one and tried using it, she said it was way too big and it completely turned her off from toys. A lesson to be learned there....
Fast forward to present day, we're back to using one and I feel like she is coming out of her shell a little bit. We used one over the weekend and had the hottest experience, she used it on her clit while I was thrusting...very hot! Now, I'd like to maybe take it up a notch and use a dildo....we have a smaller (5in) purple one with a suction cup, but its never been used.
Any advise for me to introduce the idea of playing with it? Obviously I would like to see her ride it so I can envision it being her BBC Bull, but I dont want to get the look of her being disgusted and creeped out by me. Baby steps....
Since getting her into the cuck/hotwife lifestyle might be too much for her right now, I also fantasize about seeing her with toys/dildos. We have played with some mini vibrators, but we are just getting to the point where she will say yes and she never is the one to ask for me to pull it out, I always have to be the one to ask or bring it up during sex. I learned the hard way, because the first time I bought one and tried using it, she said it was way too big and it completely turned her off from toys. A lesson to be learned there....
Fast forward to present day, we're back to using one and I feel like she is coming out of her shell a little bit. We used one over the weekend and had the hottest experience, she used it on her clit while I was thrusting...very hot! Now, I'd like to maybe take it up a notch and use a dildo....we have a smaller (5in) purple one with a suction cup, but its never been used.
Any advise for me to introduce the idea of playing with it? Obviously I would like to see her ride it so I can envision it being her BBC Bull, but I dont want to get the look of her being disgusted and creeped out by me. Baby steps....
