My wifes lover is seeking a second job to pick up some more income. Id really hate for him to have to do this as for im sure it will cut into his availability to spend time with the wife and she really loves to be with him. I thought about offering him a sorta weekly allowance to keep him from having to do so but dont want to offend him in any way. Any ideas on how to aproach this with him? Has anyone else been in this situation? Advise please?