Wife tried it a few times and still not hooked...

I seem to be having the opposite problem from most people on here. My wife has tried it a few times and hasn't had much interest to make it happen again. I'd like to watch her more. Any thoughts on how to get her more interested?
Maybe its the Bull just because you have a big dick doent mean you know how to fuck
Try casting a wider net
 
I seem to be having the opposite problem from most people on here. My wife has tried it a few times and hasn't had much interest to make it happen again. I'd like to watch her more. Any thoughts on how to get her more interested?
Why was it that she tried it in the first place, Bustyblonde? Was it YOUR IDEA or HERS?
What I notice is that in many cases, wives are willing to consider doing just about anything, within reason, to keep their hubby's HAPPY and LOYAL to them. After all, there are plenty of younger, prettier girls out there, these days who can often lure their men away, particularly after they've had a couple of his ******* and lost that slim, trim teeny figure.
And, when a wife does these things for her man, the "thrill" to her sometimes doesn't measure up to the temporary thrill her husband has to get his nuts off. This is why its important to know what really, really turns a woman on ... to her it might be another woman, or maybe an occasional gangbang, or bondage or toys ... whatever. Having an interracial affair might not be at the top of HER agenda for a good time.
What if she wanted to see you sucking off men, and letting them cum on your face? You might not get excited over it ... would you still DO IT just to PLEASE HER? Most men wouldn't.
So, if she's NOT enjoying interracial as much as you'd like, its because it doesn't turn HER switches ON. Find out what does, then she'll be more apt to comply with what you want as well.
 
I seem to be having the opposite problem from most people on here. My wife has tried it a few times and hasn't had much interest to make it happen again. I'd like to watch her more. Any thoughts on how to get her more interested?
In the end, it just might not be her thing, or just something she wants occasionally. It wouldn't be the first time that spouses are on different levels in terns of sex drive or desire for extra encounters. I suggest sitting down and communicating with her about her needs and wants and maybe you all can get to the root of the situation. There could be something she's holding back or hasn't been able to put her finger on as to why there's not more interest. Once you figure it out, then progress might be made. Just my two cents 😊
 
I'll keep it a stack, a lot of guys probably won't be able to compete b/c having a larger Penis can make you lazy as hell or just stagnante on progressing w/ Sexual Experience.

Y'all may have a better experience if a deal is made w/ a "Long-Term Bull" who isn't to egotistical, to learn her body on a deeper level, or who doesn't mind being critiqued and trying again until the sex is exceptional.

Wishing you 2 the best regards in finding that "Match Made in Heaven.
 
Maybe you're not feminine enough? Have you thought about wearing your wifes panties around her so she will think less of you as a suitable sex partner?

That didn’t work for my wife. Maybe it’s because when all is said and done she still knows I’ll take her to pound town when she wants. She’s told me on more than one occasion that I really make those 4 inches count.
 
This thread is incredibly disrespectful to white men. Admin please handle it. As if every woman who tries a black man must love it and if not it's a "white boy's" fault. You people are comical
If you think that this thread is disrespectful to white men, you (a) should check out the Cuckhold forum and (b) get off B2W.

It's kinda like being on a Chevy chat page and complaining about bashing Toyotas... Ummm...

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Our agreement is to be there together. She doesn't want it any other way. And that is the fun for me in sharing my wife. She doesn't like to share me with other women, so I get my fun from watching her. It has nothing to do with being a "white boy", and just has to do with enjoying watching my lovely wife have a good time. If you want the facts, the problem is that I fuck better than the guys she's met on here so far, but I'm not turning this into a race thing bro. I'm getting to find her someone that can give it her as good or better than me, and we just haven't found that yet. For the record, many of the women I've been with have had a preference for black guys and found out that this "white boy" can put it down as good as any of their "black boys", so why make it a derogatory racial thing? I've shared my wife with black guys and had nothing but love and respect for the dudes. Why bring hate?

And I agree with that. I don't want to ******* her to do anything, that's why I'm trying to find creative ways to make it more enticing for her. She's very strong willed and is hard to ******* to do much of anything she doesn't want to do anyways. The times she has done it, she was very willing, and had a good time. She just doesn't want to be a freak as often as I do.
My wife is sort of the same way. I was talking with a bull the other day and he said she hasn't found the right bull yet. Most of the wives on this site had that right bull or combination of bulls to get her to the point where she'll embrace her inner slut. Makes sense
 
Your presence may be the reason why she is not hooked. You have not allowed her to be herself with her lover. Typical white boy all you care about is watching! You need to allow her to be with him privately for a while so they can get their sex flowing how they like it without your prying eyes being there. They have to figure out how they like to get it on, what turns them on and gets them going. You must be a young white boy its more than just sticking a dick in a pussy hole. Buy a clue!
I agree. In cuckoldry, three can be a crowd and very off-putting for a wife, especially when she's first-timing with her lover. Particularly if she is secretly attracted to and fascinated by the amazingly beautiful physiques and cocks of horny athletic young blacks---as I gather the majority of women are---and wants to physically adore them and get off on them unwatched by her husband, as my wife very passionately still does when the mood takes her and she needs to make love to my young black buddy.

My advice is to leave your wife alone with a handsome younger black potential lover for as long as it takes for natural interracial mutual attraction do its beautiful work, which could be many hours to a day or more.
 
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I definitely do enjoy her. Just trying to keep it fresh.
I think you know what you need to do, but for some reason you are "avoiding" it. I have this occur with a lot of husbands, they dont want to face the music, because the issue is them and they dont want to deal with that. Your wife will do what you want, but "do you really want that?"
You have to be careful what you wish for. And I honestly think the fantasy is more "hot" to you than the reality. You have been lucky so far that your wife hasn't said,"ok im into this"

I had a couple in 2019 that the husband "agreed" that his wife could be the slut she wanted to be. She wanted sex daily. The husband could not meet that demand. So she kept begging and begging him. He originally got her into swinging and used to take her to sex clubs, and then that stopped after they had their 1st baby. Her sex drive didnt stop, but his "interest" stopped.

When she met me, the husband became very afraid, he was faced with the reality, "what did I just do?"

It's Pandora's box. If your wife embraces this, she doesnt need you as much, yes your role sexually will be diminished and I dont think you want that. Not really!! Am I right?

The problem you are having right now is that you are "forsing your wife" I know you dont see it because its not overt. Its subtle. You are using your wife to fulfill your "porn" fantasy. your wife has clearly shown you she has zero interest in being a porn star for you. I dont blame her, its not a fun role for women, its completely degrading and negative. If you can't see that, then you need to work on your own issues. If you love your wife, then just talk to her and stop telling her your fantasies, at this point, she knows...she is probably like "OMG, AGAIN!????"

You are acting like a baby. a literal baby. Grow up, treat your wife with some love and respect and let her do her own fantasies. If you have trouble with that, let me know, Like I said, I have helped many couples build better lines of communication, but you are "stuck" in one position and cant seem to get out of it.
 
My wife is sort of the same way. I was talking with a bull the other day and he said she hasn't found the right bull yet. Most of the wives on this site had that right bull or combination of bulls to get her to the point where she'll embrace her inner slut. Makes sense
100% Correct

The bull is a key in this because it all comes down to good communication. In my area, NY/NJ/PA/CT, I am chosen a lot by newer couples because they tried it before and it didnt make any sense. The wife was like "why are we having sex with a 2nd guy?"
Like its so disconnected from reality that most women are laughing at how absurd the fantasy is in real life.

Women do not see sex the same way you do. And Im not saying women dont see sex the same way as men, because I am a man and I think I view sex the same as women. In fact, men that have a lot of experience, have figured out how women see sex and what they like. women are not that different from men, the problem is most of you guys are so WARPED with porn brain that you have screwed your minds up.

I recommend for guys NO PORN for a month. You have literally brainwashed yourself. Stop watching porn.
 
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