Max called me this morning and had a good chat with him. Was quite upfront telling me that it was his idea about her moving in with him for a while. Also said it was not about love but sex. Asked me to come around tonight and we can all have a chat. I have agreed to go.
....Max has already proven his point ... he has
control of your wife, not you. In a real marriage, any discussions & agreements should be between
your wife and
you, and Max accepts the terms or disappears. By your meeting him, he's showing
YOU that he controls you, too, and he can tell his friends he "OWNS" you guys. Guys like Max, take what they want, when they want, and care little for anyone but themselves. Maybe its a deep seeded hate or reparation against white people, who knows, but he
IS taking control of your marriage, what's left of it.
If you're even capable of turning Max down and having your own conversation with your wife,
if she should balk, you should walk ... you can talk that rhyme crap to, when you have to, too!
ps ... and don't tell her anything IF you do walk. Pack up your stuff, and
THEN file for separation & divorce. She'll get the message when the Sheriff visits her to sign the papers. Otherwise, you'll have to listen to more of Max's
.