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AWESOMEI was away with some mates for the weekend last week and wife went to stay with her bull for a few nights. She said his mate Max would probably be calling as well. We both know Max quite well and the 4 of us have had "fun" a few times. Anyway when I arrived home on Monday night Linda was quiet and not saying much about her weekend or asking much about mine saying she was tired. Next night when she came home from work she hit me with a bombshell that she was moving out," for a while", her words. Then what really was out of the blue said she was moving in with Max. She was right up front about it saying she loves sex with them and feels "restricted" with me around. She took some time off work this week and has now moved out with mostly just her clothes and a few personal things. I am still trying to get my head around this but I am also getting aroused thinking of her with Max, having loads of sex with him and Jay, he is only a 2 minute walk away. I have called her a few times but says she would rather communicate by text for now and saying she just needs a break away for a while.
Or maybe she's better. It's the internet. Who knows.No loss, you're better off without her.
....Of course this is a risk you knew was possibly there. That said, however, their commitment to a relationship doubtfully exists between them and she'll be running back when they tire of her and get another white chick, or, when she gets pregnant. Either way, she's shown her sincerity & commitment (or lack of) with you and I can't see a long term relationship btw the 2 of you. Its easier to suggest what to do, looking from the outside as we are, but you'd be crazy to desire a continuation. If it was me, I'd take that time away from her to move out, leave no forwarding address, and then file for divorce and begin a new life. You're looking at the "rest of your life" here ... I can't imagine she's worth the headaches and miseries she'd cause down the road + considering she'll realize you took her back once and then do it again and again.I am still trying to get my head around this but I am also getting aroused thinking of her with Max, having loads of sex with him and Jay.... would rather communicate by text for now and saying she just needs a break away for a while.
I was away with some mates for the weekend last week and wife went to stay with her bull for a few nights. She said his mate Max would probably be calling as well. We both know Max quite well and the 4 of us have had "fun" a few times. Anyway when I arrived home on Monday night Linda was quiet and not saying much about her weekend or asking much about mine saying she was tired. Next night when she came home from work she hit me with a bombshell that she was moving out," for a while", her words. Then what really was out of the blue said she was moving in with Max. She was right up front about it saying she loves sex with them and feels "restricted" with me around. She took some time off work this week and has now moved out with mostly just her clothes and a few personal things. I am still trying to get my head around this but I am also getting aroused thinking of her with Max, having loads of sex with him and Jay, he is only a 2 minute walk away. I have called her a few times but says she would rather communicate by text for now and saying she just needs a break away for a while.
Not sure whether this is real or fantasy, but I'll reply to the former.I was away with some mates for the weekend last week and wife went to stay with her bull for a few nights. She said his mate Max would probably be calling as well. We both know Max quite well and the 4 of us have had "fun" a few times. Anyway when I arrived home on Monday night Linda was quiet and not saying much about her weekend or asking much about mine saying she was tired. Next night when she came home from work she hit me with a bombshell that she was moving out," for a while", her words. Then what really was out of the blue said she was moving in with Max. She was right up front about it saying she loves sex with them and feels "restricted" with me around. She took some time off work this week and has now moved out with mostly just her clothes and a few personal things. I am still trying to get my head around this but I am also getting aroused thinking of her with Max, having loads of sex with him and Jay, he is only a 2 minute walk away. I have called her a few times but says she would rather communicate by text for now and saying she just needs a break away for a while.
It doesn't sound like she is really leaving him unless that's what he wants. The impression I get is that she just wants some time to indulge her fantasies. She said she just wants to separate for a while. Her husband really should support her. She will be back and the marriage will be stronger, even if she chooses to do it again in the future.I can’t speak for all women, but I’ll never leave hubby just for sex. My sex life is wonderful with my bull, why leave hubby? I’ve got all the freedom I need...
I think that if she really left u isn’t only for sex, but there are other reasons.
I can’t speak for all women, but I’ll never leave hubby just for sex. My sex life is wonderful with my bull, why leave hubby? I’ve got all the freedom I need...
I think that if she really left u isn’t only for sex, but there are other reasons.
There it is. She just wants space. Let her know that you support her and will be there when she wants to move back. This is really a very good situation for you. Embrace it!We have been communicating by text. First she reminded me that her having sex with a black guy was my idea and that we were both happy to meet with other guys and continue the experience. She says she has never had any feeling for these guy other than for sex. Says that she felt restricted, even though she has stayed over a few times, and having to leave or when we host they leave. Says she knows it will probably end sooner rather than later but just wants to let go and not feel as if she is still living with her parents and has to rush home all the time.