Why not just marry a black male?

[45424-OH]

Ok I don’t know if it’s been asked or not but if so sorry about the repeat. But why not just marry a black male and cut through the chase or is it just for the thrill of knowing what you can do ladies?

 

[SuperDick]

Did you just say that black people cannot be racist?? Dumbest thing I have ever read on this site. Tell me something, have you ever heard of the Rwandan Genocide?

Not going down this rabbit hole, but you need to look up the origin of racism. And why it was created

 

[SuperDick]

It was plenty clear.

Thank you, like school education dnt teach or talk about racism providing the historical facts about it.

If you know origin, its a system create to oppress a selected group of people. And it is a behavior on how people are treating each other.

 

[Dellvan]

Exactly this. In all honesty, the sex ain’t even that special or worth it for someone to be talking to me like that and I think more black men need to start operating on that mindset because certain couples will be just as disrespectful just on the premise that just one guy in particular let’s them

Right. But sadly they don't.

 

[Jeane]

You should marry the person you fall in love with regardless of race. The reason a lot of married ladies are into this lifestyle is because its a fetish that supplements their marriage. The majority of womne are married a couple of decades and inthoer 40s before they experiment with black guys.

Exactly so. Hubby and I want a black man in our lives and do not expect love to enter into them. We love each other. We respect the indignation that may well be felt by a black man who, rightly proud of it, feels valued only for his cock. We expect to value our new friend as true adjunct to our whole family. Of course only if he wishes to be.

 

[Jeane]

Exactly so. Hubby and I want a black man in our lives and do not expect love to enter into them. We love each other. We respect the indignation that may well be felt by a black man who, rightly proud of it, feels valued only for his cock. We expect to value our new friend as true adjunct to our whole family. Of course only if he wishes to be.

Also, Blacks who resent, correctly, racism must agree that the backlash by white women, wives, young girls to try to make up for it has been welcome. It motivates me and my husband.

 

[bbcalpha]

Ok I don’t know if it’s been asked or not but if so sorry about the repeat. But why not just marry a black male and cut through the chase or is it just for the thrill of knowing what you can do ladies?

Well i don`t know about ur country but i do know here in England, black males have been marrying white english girls since 1850s.

 

[debW]

Well i don`t know about ur country but i do know here in England, black males have been marrying white english girls since 1850s.

Before that, if my history serves well, in the 1700s there was a rule of free city’s in England and Scotland, the city’s were London, Manchester, Bristol, Edinburgh and Glasgow, some others as well, if a black man made it to these city’s he was free, and there were many cases of black men marrying city English and Scots girls.

 

[WifeinSTL]

Of course, marrying a black guy is an option. I'm sure many young ladies do consider it. But for many others - would one black guy be enough?

 

[bbcalpha]

Before that, if my history serves well, in the 1700s there was a rule of free city’s in England and Scotland, the city’s were London, Manchester, Bristol, Edinburgh and Glasgow, some others as well, if a black man made it to these city’s he was free, and there were many cases of black men marrying city English and Scots girls.

I think ur dates may well be a lil bit out because that law did`nt come into ******* untill 12 April 1861 – 9 April 1865 in the time of The American Civil War because the slave trade did not end in England until 25 March 1807.

 

[Jeane]

This is a lovely thread we were not expecting as we hopefully started a search for a "desirable" Black man. We are learning things as well as understanding the wellsprings of some anger. My only experience with Blacks was my college prof beginning at age 19, basically a baby to him. But not a virgin. what started as my admiration for his erudition became essentially his willing student of sex, lasted almost a school year.
However it did not make me a "black cock lover" in the sense that I desired just that. I dated whites
Now, thanks largely to porn, I hope to relive that experience and my husband wants me to, saying also that wishes to take part. Does not entirely surprise me.

 

[debW]

I think ur dates may well be a lil bit out because that law did`nt come into ******* untill 12 April 1861 – 9 April 1865 in the time of The American Civil War because the slave trade did not end in England until 25 March 180

I think ur dates may well be a lil bit out because that law did`nt come into ******* untill 12 April 1861 – 9 April 1865 in the time of The American Civil War because the slave trade did not end in England until 25 March 1807.

You may be right about the dates, but I knew about the African men arriving in free city’s in the UK, because one was my great, great, etc granddad...the family story is he escaped at Liverpool, made Glasgow and had a fine life with his Scottish wife, so I was told by my nan.

 

[BabyfacedRebel]

Did you just say that black people cannot be racist?? Dumbest thing I have ever read on this site. Tell me something, have you ever heard of the Rwandan Genocide?

@StewM
Rwandan genocide had nothing to do with race.
That was a war rage amongst tribes.
Which was instigated by whites. Let's not forget that part.
I haven't seen a war where large groups of blacks waged war on a white nation without being provoked first.
History have more than plenty examples of whites instigating and or raging war against non white nation for their resources without being provoked.
Black folks get called savages when we retaliate, smh.

 

[MagicMikeATX]

Not trying to turn this into the great debate.

You have to look where racism was started, and the man purpose of it.

Black people , my people are the most oppressed people in the world, hated and not want anywhere basically. We damn sure didn't create racism so therefore we cannot be racists.

What you will feel from my people is the 400 too 500 years of angry and aggressive natural of not being treated fairly or equally with having the same right and all rights as others. And even today as I live in the USA, which is a system create for my people not to succeed in life we see different forms of racism and KKK members dressed not in white robes , but they are the doctors , lawyers, judges, teachers and etc, in plain plain face.

But not all white people are racist or any other racial group.

Dnt know why this site was created but I pretty sure someone had a good intention and a bad intention behind it.

Its all about what you focus on.

So please find someone on here that you can vibe with and have a good time.

They have an ignore button , report button or hell leave the website or dnt respond to someone who offends you.

I have spoken

Your first 'mistake' was trying to debate with a non verified member.

 

[StewM]

@StewM
Rwandan genocide had nothing to do with race.
That was a war rage amongst tribes.
Which was instigated by whites. Let's not forget that part.
I haven't seen a war where large groups of blacks waged war on a white nation without being provoked first.
History have more than plenty examples of whites instigating and or raging war against non white nation for their resources without being provoked.
Black folks get called savages when we retaliate, smh.

You are correct, it wasn't a racial war but a tribal or caste war. European involvement decades before caused territorial disputes among various kingdoms throughout the region. I stand corrected.

 

[BabyfacedRebel]

Guys wanna hit it then quit it. They'll have sex with girls they're not attracted to. This is why rating system exists. Guys want to marry their 10s, but will have sex with their 8s. That's why in eastern societies females don't fool around (at least until recently, with the influence of western television and media and internet making it's way to the east). The reason is that guys didn't want to mess around with women with *******, or women who felt overly free about sex. A. Guys want their own *******. B. Free attitude about sex opens the door to free attitude about cheating C. It's a patriarchal society, and a guy who ends up getting cheated on is seen as a punk or a weak man. He's paying the bills while the wife is doing one night thrills, and that is a pretty messed up picture. D. Societies are more tightly knit. Everybody knows everybody. You can't just get lost. So basically changing partners like underwear has no place in that society - it's social suicide. These are all some reasons why women in traditional societies have turned down men who are just in it for the pleasure, without commitment. Which is to illustrate that guys want to bang their 8s and quit it.

@chingchong Isn't the fact that we have all these societal pressures on women proof that we're not inherently monogamous?
Also it's a broad generalization that women from eastern societies don't fool around .

 

[SuperDick]

Your first 'mistake' was trying to debate with a non verified member.

, man you right, it won't happen again

 

[Torpedo]

Most of the women in the group are married, happily for the most part. They are nearly all from middle class to pretty wealthy. The males in the group give them something they can't get a home. Nobody is going to jeopardize a comfortable life style over sex. The sex is a hobby of sorts, one they indulge in enthusiastically. Some stay in the group for a year or less. A few have been around for a lot of years. Up until the last last few years interracial relationships came with a lot of stigma. Now even peanut butter commercials have interracial couples.

There is a good deal more to a relationship than just fucking. I have shared my bed with some women that were amazing in bed, but I sure as Hell wouldn't want to live with them. Nothing wrong with having intense orgasmic sex and then going to a quiet home. It all depends on what you need and want

 

[wit]

For my generation marrying outside your race was considered taboo. But I'm certain my daughters will marry black men and I will encourage them too.

Ideal mommy and wife. So, so sexy and our new standard going forward

 

[beenblackened]

I'm sure I would have if I started seeing them when I was younger.

 

[Donnamarie315]

As much as I love black men, I can't see getting married again. I love my freedom.