I am experienced but it’s just like knowing a woman when you’re seducing her. You pay attention to what she talks about sexually and pay closer attention to her signs and symptoms during the initial exploration of her body. Like knowing when you can buttfuck her. But maybe simpler. Be charming with your clothes on. Learn how to make that Pussy cum and control her with the clothes off. Then learn and start penetrating her filthy mind. She’ll ask you to own/use/have her in due time. With a couple many times the cuckie is truly in charge. Explore his desires, he’s usually the kinkiest of the triad. Not saying you have to have M/M contact, many bulls don’t understand that part. Understand how he wants her to be used, how he wants to be involved and what the ultimate fantasy for each of them is.
Let me know your progress grasshopper!