Why is fucking wives more enjoyable than fucking single females?

[DTWsavageBBC]

Some cuckold couples are interested in being Black-owned. I'm wondering -- does the idea of sexually owning a couple or the wife appeal to Bulls? By sexually owning, I mean you would become exclusive and the wife would belong to you sexually. She would be completely submissive to you and serve you sexually whenever you wanted. The husband/cuck would have a subservient role in the relationship.

Hmmmm. Kind of an obvious answer to that question I would think. Although we Bulls are all different. I find many couples are actually searching for a worthy bull to give complete control to. Worthy will look different for each couple but sexual prowess, charming/seductive, experienced in releasing both of your inner desires and respectful of your relationship and boundaries is usually the way I end up with ownership of a couple. If they want you to own them just because you have a juicy BBC they obviously don’t understand what it truly means or not clear on why they should offer their gift of submission, and I don’t want it.

 

[Yonkers92]

Personally I love having cuck/stag/hubby in attendance. Brings out the exhibitionist in me and I enjoy pleasing and using the wife so well she forgets he’s there. Does slutty things she doesn’t or rarely does. And gets totally into being used for my pleasure! Every couple is different but once you identify their boundaries I push right up to the limit of them!

Right on bro!!!
You’re clearly more experienced. How are you able to tell how far you can push it? How do you read their dynamics?

 

[nottscuck]

Are you completely cut off? I bet the jealousy you feel is pretty intense ?

Mostly cut off, yes , and I am excluded from almost all her encounters too , so get to feel the jealousy at home on my own , certainly never allowed to be with her and her reg BF .
There is nothing like it , waking up on your own and after a few moments realising it and realising your wife is in a hotel waking up with another man ... a better one

 

[MagicMikeATX]

I’m pretty new in the lifestyle. Just had my second wife a day ago. It seems to me that having sex with married women and their hubbies watching is much more of a turn on than vanilla sex. I’m trying to understand why?
One major reason is probably the intense power dynamic in such a scenario makes me feel more like the dominant alpha male that I am. Any other thoughts?

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because its just sex and nothing else. No BS, no strings. You both know what's up ?

As far as feeling like a dominant alpha male, it shouldn't take another guys woman to make you feel that way. You either ARE or ARE NOT.

I only fucked single chicks my entire life until a few years back I got into this lifestyle. But I always been The Man ?

 

[DTWsavageBBC]

Right on bro!!!
You’re clearly more experienced. How are you able to tell how far you can push it? How do you read their dynamics?

I am experienced but it’s just like knowing a woman when you’re seducing her. You pay attention to what she talks about sexually and pay closer attention to her signs and symptoms during the initial exploration of her body. Like knowing when you can buttfuck her. But maybe simpler. Be charming with your clothes on. Learn how to make that Pussy cum and control her with the clothes off. Then learn and start penetrating her filthy mind. She’ll ask you to own/use/have her in due time. With a couple many times the cuckie is truly in charge. Explore his desires, he’s usually the kinkiest of the triad. Not saying you have to have M/M contact, many bulls don’t understand that part. Understand how he wants her to be used, how he wants to be involved and what the ultimate fantasy for each of them is.

Let me know your progress grasshopper!

 

[Yonkers92]

because its just sex and nothing else. No BS, no strings. You both know what's up ?

As far as feeling like a dominant alpha male, it shouldn't take another guys woman to make you feel that way. You either ARE or ARE NOT.

I only fucked single chicks my entire life until a few years back I got into this lifestyle. But I always been The Man ?

Hehehehe okay Mr Magic.
I don’t agree with your simplistic view of it but we are all entitled to our opinion. For me there’s more to it than “just sex”
Agree about the alpha male though. You either are or not ?

 

[sheetmusic]

Hmmmm. Kind of an obvious answer to that question I would think. Although we Bulls are all different. I find many couples are actually searching for a worthy bull to give complete control to. Worthy will look different for each couple but sexual prowess, charming/seductive, experienced in releasing both of your inner desires and respectful of your relationship and boundaries is usually the way I end up with ownership of a couple. If they want you to own them just because you have a juicy BBC that don’t understand what or why they should offer their gift of submission and I don’t want it.

I agree, you would think it's obvious. We have met many Bulls who have no interest in domination or ownership. They just want to fuck a good-looking wife and move on to the next experience. We finally found a truly dominant Bull recently. He fucked my wife on several occasions and she was hooked. She said it was his dominance that appealed to her the most. We are in the early stages of ownership now.

 

[Yonkers92]

I am experienced but it’s just like knowing a woman when you’re seducing her. You pay attention to what she talks about sexually and pay closer attention to her signs and symptoms during the initial exploration of her body. Like knowing when you can buttfuck her. But maybe simpler. Be charming with your clothes on. Learn how to make that Pussy cum and control her with the clothes off. Then learn and start penetrating her filthy mind. She’ll ask you to own/use/have her in due time. With a couple many times the cuckie is truly in charge. Explore his desires, he’s usually the kinkiest of the triad. Not saying you have to have M/M contact, many bulls don’t understand that part. Understand how he wants her to be used, how he wants to be involved and what the ultimate fantasy for each of them is.

Let me know your progress grasshopper!

Woah!
Solid points and advice. Thanks so much!! ??

 

[DTWsavageBBC]

The dual intimacy...she's still into him, he's into her, but she's giving her body and passion to you in that moment. The ability to make her feel things physically that the person she calls husband can't. Knowing that you'll be on her mind before and after the encounter. Can't get all of that from someone who is single.

Well stated

 

[Report]

I’m pretty new in the lifestyle. Just had my second wife a day ago. It seems to me that having sex with married women and their hubbies watching is much more of a turn on than vanilla sex. I’m trying to understand why?
One major reason is probably the intense power dynamic in such a scenario makes me feel more like the dominant alpha male that I am. Any other thoughts?

As a wannabe cuck I love when black guys say they love having the husband there watching and that it adds to their excitement as well. I don't so much believe in the alpha male thing in real life, as it's pretty hard to define, but playing out the fantasy is a huge part of the fun. So much of this lifestyle is fantasy played out in real life.
I think a lot of experienced Bulls in the lifestyle know that the white men who are into IR porn and watching their wives with BBC are literally OBSESSED with it. They can't get enough of it and are probably addicted to it. It must be a huge POWER TRIP for the Bull to know that he is giving a unique thrill for the wife and at the same time giving intense visual stimulation for the husband. The bulls are directly and indirectly giving sexual pleasure to both parts of the couple. I can only imagine how much of an ego stroke it would be for the black Bull to have a wife in doggystyle position in front of him and look over and see the husband with a hard-on and taking photos of his performance.
It's so great to see other black bulls here chime in and say that having the husband there gives them a bit of a thrill too! This lifestyle is so much fun!

 

[BBC4BUNNIES]

I’m pretty new in the lifestyle. Just had my second wife a day ago. It seems to me that having sex with married women and their hubbies watching is much more of a turn on than vanilla sex. I’m trying to understand why?
One major reason is probably the intense power dynamic in such a scenario makes me feel more like the dominant alpha male that I am. Any other thoughts?

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[geoffrya]

as most married women fuck bareback and being married they try their best to knock them up????

 

[Yonkers92]

The dual intimacy...she's still into him, he's into her, but she's giving her body and passion to you in that moment. The ability to make her feel things physically that the person she calls husband can't. Knowing that you'll be on her mind before and after the encounter. Can't get all of that from someone who is single.

Thanks brother. Spot on!

 

[Carolynlester]

For any single women there are lots of men that are ok for sex but really few that are for good for a relationship, so dating for single women is commitment focused. That’s something my wife criticizes on her single friends, they are missing all the fun. Once a relationship rings the security and confidence and emotional containment then any risk taken would be just for the sake of fun.

I'm single but in no way interested in a serious relationship.
Only nsa adult fun with mature black gentlemen.

 

[Johnsmith707]

I’m pretty new in the lifestyle. Just had my second wife a day ago. It seems to me that having sex with married women and their hubbies watching is much more of a turn on than vanilla sex. I’m trying to understand why?
One major reason is probably the intense power dynamic in such a scenario makes me feel more like the dominant alpha male that I am. Any other thoughts?

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you feel like they need something only you could provide?

 

[Anthony0542]

The dual intimacy...she's still into him, he's into her, but she's giving her body and passion to you in that moment. The ability to make her feel things physically that the person she calls husband can't. Knowing that you'll be on her mind before and after the encounter. Can't get all of that from someone who is single.

Good explanation of this from the bull side. Not only knowing that she’s thinking about you but knowing she’s thinking only about how great the sex is with you and not thinking about a relationship with you. We all know when you give that good D to a single, she might try to own you. In this lifestyle, the bull does the owning.

 

[Yonkers92]

Good explanation of this from the bull side. Not only knowing that she’s thinking about you but knowing she’s thinking only about how great the sex is with you and thinking about a relationship with you. We all know when you give that good D to a single, she might try to own you. In this lifestyle, the bull does the owning.

Great points here guys. I don’t think vanilla sex can be as thrilling as this with regards to the mental and emotional stimulation. Damn!!

 

[Anthony0542]

I feel like a lot of this lifestyle comes down to the sexual intensity the cuck receives from the experience. As a black male, I read some of this stuff and I can’t believe all the ******* that is being done....”I’m like I’d never allow all this to happen because I’d be pissed as *******”...but I’m starting to realize it’s that emotional intensity that converts to intense sexual arousal for cucks that allows them to overcome all the jealous and negative emotions.

As long as that sexual arousal is high, they are willing to stay in the lifestyle- matter of fact they might be addicted to it

Now I understand why the humiliation, the power dimensions, letting your wife go fuck without watching, etc. It adds to the intensity of the moment and increases sexual arousal - and when sexual arousal is high, you’ll do anything

 

[Sabrina]

The thrill of the "Cheat" for the wife and man.
The taking of another man's wife for the man.
Alpha dominance enhanced.

 

[Anthony0542]

Great points here guys. I don’t think vanilla sex can be as thrilling as this with regards to the mental and emotional stimulation. Damn!!

No doubt, Yonkers. Great thread by the way. The physical aspects we get....it’s just plain physics. Heavier weight pressed against sensitive areas = more intense reaction. Example is deep tissue massage- this massage causes more of an intense reaction than regular massage and takes time getting used to it but once you are used to it - it’s great.

The mental aspect of this is BEYOND wild and so interesting. The mental aspect deserves a minor in college. I’d be willing to Major in Marketing and minor in Cuckolding psychology. When someone comes up with that minor - I’m getting it.