Keeping your wife to yourself works only so far, usually first years of the marriage. Some write that love goes away, but not in our case. We are definitely strongly in love with each other 20 years since. But at some point you start wishing for more. Then you have a lover or a one-night stand and enjoy it. Then you start asking yourself and what about my wife: she may want to have it too. Faithfullness no longer applies. In our case, we went on a nude cruise and lost all inhibitions. My wife started having occasional affairs and faithfully reported back to me. And I got excited more and more. And then we started talking about black men, and I can assure you, our conversations were full of love and longing for each other, and our dreams and fantasies that we both wanted to fulfill. And we did. And will continue to do so, as long as health and good graces of our lovers would continue