I have been with my husband for over half my life. Sex stopped being fun when our ******* became teenagers and we got so involved in their lives, our work and our family life so sex went way to the back of the line of important things. For years it was something we did less and less frequent and now he has a lot of other interest other then his wife so it's a special occasion thing now that we're in our 50's. I was curious for years because I even heard all about black men back when I was in college! Once sex with my husband stopped being fun or pleasureable for me I started to get curious again.
The first time I went black I don't think the man I was with knew what he was getting! It was like years of frustration went away with all of the pleasure!
I think that is why some black men are interested in married white women. My husband does not know about what I do and I think that helps because I don't get to do it as much as I want to! So when the weekend finally arrives that I have been planning out for months, I know I can just let go. For him, it's a weekend of nothing but physical fun with an eager partner and I imagine that is a lot of fun for him!