Mac, you seem to the be the type of person that "LABELS" people, stereotypically it seems. From what I've seen from other comments you've posted...you like to DEBATE. I have no problem with debates, but one must be objective, not subjective. I will certainly answer your question - YES. A man sucking another man's cock...is a gay/bi act ....
A plethora of bullshit is what this conversation could turn into. I'd rather not dwell on bullshit. I'm here to admire hot-ass wives and fuck.
I just call 'em like I see 'em .. but there ya go ... you now agree it is gay. We drop all the rhetoric, and the duck really does become a duck. Not sure about all those other things you tag as "gay" ... although the prostate exam does seem that way to me, and the doctors that usually do that always seem to have Big Fingers ... guess I'll be concerned 'bout that when I'm having my prostate checked and both of the doctor's hands are on my shoulder.
But agree ... let's drop all the BS and get back to the ladies ...