A few years ago, I worked in an office where a black woman and a white woman, both PAs in their early 30s, were openly talking about how 'stacked' and 'built' Anthony Joshua the boxer is. It was only me and them in that part of the office (I had been given a copy of a book about him and they saw it). They were quite openly saying how attractive they found him. I found it quite emasculating as they seemed to treat me like one of the girls!