Which one would you choose ? In or out of the room ?

So your couples used to film ? How many times did they film before they stopped ? My husband said he would want to film every single time because each session would be priceless
So my husband came to me with two scenarios and asked me to pick one .

1st scenario - when I am fucking a BBC he stays in the room and records us from different angles while staying silent , just observing and obviously getting extremely hard !

2nd scenario - Hubby is in the room and sets the camera on record and faces it towards the bed and then leaves me and the bull alone and what ever happens in front of the camera , he will obviously accept .

For me I chose scenario #2 because I’d be wondering what to do and what my husband might want to see . It would be more stressful and I’d definitely wouldn’t be able to let go fully with the bull . Shockingly my husband agreed ! He said he’d be happy either way and just wants me at ease and able to fully let go sexually and just be free to find my satisfaction . He said as long as he sees it on camera he would be more than satisfied !

So what are y’alls thoughts ?
You are obviously a great lady and want to please your husband. He seems like a great guy and wants you to fully enjoy the time with a black man. You also have (it seems) a bit of nervousness which is absolutely acceptable and to be expected. What do YOU want?

I know for me, when I’ve been with a wife, we’ve met (all 3) to gain comfort. You will know whether you want him in or not.

One of the most erotic times I’ve had he left the room but remained around. In the middle of things we called him into the room as she wanted him to see her live in action. He came in and froze with a smile on his face.

He later said it was like watching regular TV, and flipping through channels and hitting a porn channel he didn’t know was available. With him missing the foreplay and all that followed, it was instant look at my wife! For her, she didn’t feel apprehensive wondering what he was thinking, was he still ok with it, what did he want her to do now etc.

Hope this helps. Glad to see some more DFW folks on here. You should verify!
 
In the end it is your decision. Personally I like both of them. I have had my spouse in the room, filming and taking pictures. I have also had times where I was alone with my Bull. I like having my spouse present and taking pictures and enjoying things at the same time. You will have to figure out which one is best for you all.
 
As the Hubby I will my litle imput. when we first started I was always in the room mostly filming or taking pics. Then we met a guy that would come over often and there were several times he was left alone with her and i was in my Office. I found that a big turn on for me. The last 2 guys she went to there place without me. I was there when we met and for the first time with 1 of them. again that was a huge turn on for me
 
It took my wife 4 years to start cuckolding me, and funnily enough, even though I was always going to be there the first time, she used to really over think it. Was worried if the gent didn't find her sexy/ dirty enough, should she look pretty or slutty, if she looked too slutty would it put him off, if she was very slutty would it put me off, would I get turned on enough, would I get upset/ jealous, would he lose interest half way through etc etc etc.

The reality was, she had an absolute ball, he fucked her like she was the hottest 20yo bikini model on the planet and she was stoked how turned on he was for her. Plus she admitted watching me masturbate while watching her, helped her let go, not worry about guilt, or any fall out the next day and that she could show me the inner slut she had kept hidden from partners/ ex's most of her life.
 
So my husband came to me with two scenarios and asked me to pick one .

1st scenario - when I am fucking a BBC he stays in the room and records us from different angles while staying silent , just observing and obviously getting extremely hard !

2nd scenario - Hubby is in the room and sets the camera on record and faces it towards the bed and then leaves me and the bull alone and what ever happens in front of the camera , he will obviously accept .

For me I chose scenario #2 because I’d be wondering what to do and what my husband might want to see . It would be more stressful and I’d definitely wouldn’t be able to let go fully with the bull . Shockingly my husband agreed ! He said he’d be happy either way and just wants me at ease and able to fully let go sexually and just be free to find my satisfaction . He said as long as he sees it on camera he would be more than satisfied !

So what are y’alls thoughts ?
You are correct i agree with you. Cucks forget about intamacy. Its way more about the wife and bull being at ease comfortable and relaxed. Im trying to learn her and her body so we can work this thing out. Niether the wife or the bull have putting on a performance 4 the husband as a top priority at all. He needs to be out of the room. I need her to relax and not worry about him.
 
You are correct i agree with you. Cucks forget about intamacy. Its way more about the wife and bull being at ease comfortable and relaxed. Im trying to learn her and her body so we can work this thing out. Niether the wife or the bull have putting on a performance 4 the husband as a top priority at all. He needs to be out of the room. I need her to relax and not worry about him.
I agree with its up to the wife, but there are a lot of bulls out there that want the cuck to witness them taking their wifes pussy in front of them, a lot get a huge ego boost/ buzz out of it, not all, but the ones we have met do prefer me being there.
 
I agree with its up to the wife, but there are a lot of bulls out there that want the cuck to witness them taking their wifes pussy in front of them, a lot get a huge ego boost/ buzz out of it, not all, but the ones we have met do prefer me being there.
No i dont mean never be there. I mean like the first time or 2 until we get it down. Yes you can watch in room just be quiet and out of the way. Yes film it. I dont want you to miss it
 
Cassandra and I had this discussion last night. In her mind, she’s doing this for me, she’s performing for me and she gets extremely turned on because of how it turns me on. This creates somewhat of a continuous loop of excitement. She sees me getting turned on, which turns her on, which in turn, turns me on, and so on and so on. Our dynamic is a little bit fucked up because we came to this lifestyle through the BDSM lifestyle where I was her dominate and I’m still at times, her dominate. Although for the past several months, she’s been primarily the dominate, when she’s playing she’s doing it for me as her dominate. It helps her justify in her mind that “good girls” don’t normally do this and it makes it okay to do because I’m telling her to do it and she wants to please me. Also, having me there and seeing my smile reassures her that I’m still okay with everything that’s going on. She also likes me close by so she can at times reach out and hold my hand or kiss me. There’s just something so very exhilarating to her to be kissing or touching me while having her Bull pound her. The dichotomy of tenderness she’s getting from me and the raw primal feeling of being fucked, lends well to the brain fuck. The other thing that caught her by surprise was how much I enjoy the clean up and how much it turns her on to have me dive in and devour her.

Very good questions and as stated earlier, you’re going to get many different answers. The correct answer is the one that works for you.
 
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Cassandra and I had this discussion last night. In her mind, she’s doing this for me, she’s performing for me and she gets extremely turned on because of how it turns me on. This creates somewhat of a continuous loop of excitement. She sees me getting turned on, which turns her on, which in turn, turns me on, and so on and so on. Our dynamic is a little bit fucked up because we came to this lifestyle through the BDSM lifestyle where I was her dominate and I’m still at times, her dominate. Although for the past several months, she’s been primarily the dominate, when she’s playing she’s doing it for me as her dominate. It helps her justify in her mind that “good girls” don’t normally do this and it makes it okay to do because I’m telling her to do it and she wants to please me. Also, having me there and seeing my smile reassures her that I’m still okay with everything that’s going on. She also likes me close by so she can at times reach out and hold my hand or kiss me. There’s just something so very exhilarating to her to be kissing or touching me while having her Bull pound her. The dichotomy of tenderness she’s getting from me and the raw primal feeling of being fucked, lends well to the brain fuck. The other thing that caught her by surprise was how much I enjoy the clean up and how much it turns her on to have me dive in and devour her.

Very good questions and as stated earlier, you’re going to get many different answers. The correct answer is the one that works for you.
Every couple is different. I'm her Dom and share her with who I want. She loves me being in charge and her ultimate goal is to please me. Bringing in a few BBCs is her submitting to my kink.
 
She won’t record it for you ? How do you get to enjoy ?

Everybody is different with their own kinks. One couple got off on me meeting the pretty hot wife alone in a hotel room . . . and sending her back home to him later . . . wearing dirty, black cum stained panties. He got off on her coming home with the undeniable "evidence" that she had been out fucking a black man all dried up in her underwear.

She would also meet men alone and record it sometime for him too. Talk about what you want. Experiment. And find the sweet spot in the experience. I personally love to fuck in front of the husband and let him see how much his wife enjoys that chocolate. See it all the way live. Some cucks love the dual feeling of exhilaration and humiliation all at once.
 
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So my husband came to me with two scenarios and asked me to pick one .

1st scenario - when I am fucking a BBC he stays in the room and records us from different angles while staying silent , just observing and obviously getting extremely hard !

2nd scenario - Hubby is in the room and sets the camera on record and faces it towards the bed and then leaves me and the bull alone and what ever happens in front of the camera , he will obviously accept .

For me I chose scenario #2 because I’d be wondering what to do and what my husband might want to see . It would be more stressful and I’d definitely wouldn’t be able to let go fully with the bull . Shockingly my husband agreed ! He said he’d be happy either way and just wants me at ease and able to fully let go sexually and just be free to find my satisfaction . He said as long as he sees it on camera he would be more than satisfied !

So what are y’alls thoughts ?
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So I have no issue with hubby being there. In fact I enjoy it both ways. One of the issues we have is the scheduling to get all 3 of us together at a time is an issue so we set up these two cameras in the bedroom. They are only $25 a piece and can record for like 3 days. Hubby can also view them anywhere. So if I dont want him in the room he can still watch from the livingroom, or he can sit at work in a meeting and see my pussy get pounded. Plus when he gets home he can pull the sd card and save the video or record it to his phone from the app.

Plus they are always there so I dont even have to think about or deal with setting up a camrea. I can just focus on enjoying myself.


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We have done both and both have pluses and minuses. For 1 it is great to have him there for good footage and videos and see what is going on, I forget he is even there to be honest. For #2 it is good to do this and then have him see what you were up to later when home and he reviews footage. He is like man you got fucked in so many positions sometimes or said XXX.
 
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