.... the problem is when men see those type of fantasies aired by a woman some of them can't distinguish between the fantasy and real life situations
Extreme, sexual, fantasy play of any kind really need "safe words" that anyone participating can say that stops everything. Otherwise, No becomes Yes, and sounds of Pain become sounds of Pleasure. Personally, I would never participate in a fantasy *******, which a lot of girls seem to fantasize about. The courts almost always side with the females. If a woman wants raped, she should go to NY Central Park at 2AM.