I should have known years ago. It wasnt until just a few years ago that I figured it out, but the signs were always there, even from my first real girl friend. The one night I really remember was a night we were supposed to go out, but she never showed. Her sister did not know where she was nor did her room mates. They just said some guy called and she went. Finally she got home very late and we argued and talked. I would find out he called her and asked her out as a good bye. She would spend the next several hours getting felt up and making out with this guy. She then told me that if I was to be her husband I would have to get used to it. I caved almost instantly. I agreed and she proceeded to show me all the things she did. Later that night, we would both lose our virginity. It was not until my current wife began cuckolding me that I realized I was going to be one long before I got married. When did you realize you were going to be one?