Started out as swingers and slowly edged our way into the hot wife lifestyle. Found that being compatible with one person is much easier than trying to make it work for four. One day while looking through SLS I found a very attractive single black gentleman that peaked my interested. Husband said "go for it". It was great! He was respectful, beautiful, and a great time. Got me hooked.
What was your reason to get into the lifestyle.
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Who would not respect whose? Or where was the difference between yours and his? Thanks.
You seem like an easy-goin' down-to-earth person, really. Your husband is a lucky man and must be very proud of his Hot Wife. It is refreshing to see a Woman who knows what she wants and goes for it, and makes the decision without hesitation, where many Women would start questioning even themselves.
i was asking because i know a lot of Women would not have taken it positively, if their man would suggest something for her he did with his ex. Questions can come up like: 'Does he want me to be more like his ex?' which may lead to the assumption: 'He likes his ex more than me and wants me to change to become more like her', or 'My purpose in our relationship is just to fill the gap that she left'.
It takes a strong and confident Woman to "jump in" on the offer of entering a sharing lifestyle, also a person who puts a lot of trust into the partner and relationship. How long have you been together at the time your man brought up this lifestyle? And did he tell you about the lifestyle he had had with his ex early on in your relationship or only later? TY
No reason, it just happened on a vacation in Caribbean at St Lucia first time 
yes he told me so i knew about the relationship he had with his x and we had just got together when it happened but you have to remember i wanted this too i had never done anything like that and was anxious to try it myself
we have been together 23 years and have 2 grown boys together
The only way it really works well is when both partners are on the same page.
It can be one of the most rewarding lifestyles then, i believe. It makes me happy whenever i read/hear success stories like yours - a couple of decades, long running in the lifestyle, happy partners with a strong relationship. What more can you ask for? (A personal note/question: ...and how can i find that?) Thank you
We are just starting. TBH she has always been more highly sexed than me, even more so as we have got older. It's been fantasy talk for years and she now wants to do it for real.
Its just for fun and games....
ChristyandJake
Couple
Oh I was dating guys behind my husband back and when I met this dominant black stud who took it to another level so
Ironically, we both were in the lifestyle when we met. Her ex had gotten her into it, but then got cold feet. I got into it because I love sex and the variety. Together we've played on and off over the past several years. Unfortunately age and sex drive have taken their toll, so we don't play as much as we did in the past. We've also shifted more to the hotwife scenario where we add additional men to our playtime.
I got involved to learn about my sexuality and whoo I was really. I was so innocent when I started all this but knew i enjoyed sex i knew i enjoyed black men and being under his control so i needed to learn who and what i was and pretty much everything about sex
satchseven
Active Member
So how many have you fucked?
SissyStag3o5
Male
totally understand that. my penis has shrunk due to T levels, age and weight. so I can't last more than a few mins as well. She has a healthy sex drive when in the mood, so this was the best solution. also lets me explore my female side. now with lack of use, she rubs my little thing for a few seconds and it just makes a mess. She requires a real man, and sometimes, I do too.
Same for us, IT was naughty, it was erotic. It was fun.
Used to live in Ogden and can verify that. Plenty of bitches to fuck
Just that i love sex
I love the thrill of it. There’s nothing sweeter to my ears than hearing sum1’s wife gulping down a quart of hot thick baby batter or wearing it out the door.
ChastityAdam
Male
(Micro Penis + Premature Ejacalutor) - Expensive vibrator * Her orgasm...
Basically, the more she enjoyed her toys and doing it solo, the less mine was needed. I'm now in Fulltime chastity and fully pussyfree. It was a pretty easy choice for her. My small disappointing dick, or keep me in chastity and enjoy herself.
Basically, the more she enjoyed her toys and doing it solo, the less mine was needed. I'm now in Fulltime chastity and fully pussyfree. It was a pretty easy choice for her. My small disappointing dick, or keep me in chastity and enjoy herself.
I guess I would say curiosity as well as a love of sex. I had been with black men before my husband and it had always been something that had stuck on his mind. I still am friends with a lot of black men as well so I think it even kept it in his mind more. We like to be out of the box and kinky so it seemed like something fun and exciting for both of us to explore and we both ended up loving it.
