What was your reason to get into the lifestyle.

Funnily enough I was actually a (white) bull first.

I think in Italy, Greece, Spain, Turkey etc they fetishise Nordic looking people somewhat; although I think that the demand for black men is growing exponentially also there.

I'll try to keep this relatively brief:

I was teaching English to a beautiful young Romanian girl when I was living in Rome, she was married to a much older Italian guy. She flirted with me loads and her husband kept saying things like "My wife says you are a handsome boy" etc. I actually resisted her quite direct attempts at first but eventually after her repeatedly asking to come over "just to talk and have coffee", I gave in.

We fucked for ages (one of the best fucks of my life) and about 2 minutes after I came in her, I was laying on the bed exhausted and I heard what sounded like a man coming. Turns out the fucker was in the wardrobe the whole time.

I was actually a bit shocked truth be told, but it became a regular thing in any event.

Since then I have also been a bull to another Italian couple with a woman from Puglia, and a Spanish couple in Seville that are about the same age as me.

Then I got with a Spanish girl who I had seen grinding up on black guys several times in the club before I went home with her. I told her about my past, and several months later I had got this burning desire to see her with some of those black guys, and given that I had been a bull, I also wanted to experience the other side of it. She has always said things like "she doesn't think monogamy is human nature" etc and so long story short, I spent more time masturbating while she was being destroyed by black cocks than actually fucking her myself. This was a full on cuckold relationship.

During quarantine I met another Spanish girl on tinder who had explicitly said in her bio she was looking for a cuckold. It didn't really last though because to be honest I think just wanted a pass to have sex with anyone rather than share the fetish with a boyfriend. Looking back, we should've just gone for an open relationship rather than a psuedo cuckold. Sex with her was pretty good though, I'll give her that.

Looking back, I miss my first cuckold relationship the most. I hope to find another 🇪🇸🍑💁🏽‍♀️🚶🏿‍♂️🚶🏿‍♂️🚶🏿‍♂️🚶🏿‍♂️🚶🏿‍♂️🚶🏿‍♂️🚶🏿‍♂️🚶🏿‍♂️🚶🏿‍♂️🚶🏿‍♂️
 
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The best way to make him understand is to show him. And you will see his reaction. - A boner never lies. ;) Most guys will be willing to at least try it under the right conditions.

A Woman needs to listen closely to why he is reluctant. Then work on establishing ground rules to follow that are acceptable by him in order to get step by step closer to your goal. She needs to reassure him that she loves him and their relationship will always come first and no rules will be violated.

Basically it is just the same like when the man would have brought it up - just the other way around. ;) The difference is, the chances of a Woman "convincing" her husband or boyfriend are much greater than the other way around because most Women are good "convincers" while most men are not. :| *sigh*
So true total.communication is poryant my Hotwife has a couple of regulars that shr Fucks one of the guys i dont approve of
I feel.he just wants to.fuck her nothing else not dinner daning enjoying life .i think.any hotwife neds it all.I don like him.but she tells mr that she lijes the way he fucks her..i accept it to a point but iet her well.know every coue of months with him. I.let my wife know its great to fuck and get what you need but any guy you fuck beeds to be respin and not threat her lije a piece of meet to fuck
 
As a teen reading Penthouse Forum letters and found myself most excited at the married White wives with Black guys… what would put it over the top is unprotected no condom and the guy shooting his load deep….I would later find out from my wife that is all married wives favorite fantasy no pulling out.
 
As a teen reading Penthouse Forum letters and found myself most excited at the married White wives with Black guys… what would put it over the top is unprotected no condom and the guy shooting his load deep….I would later find out from my wife that is all married wives favorite fantasy no pulling out.
There is nothing wrong with a woman getting well.fucked asomg as she doesnt get an umeanted pregzm y and the guy is D and D free
 
I'm not actually in the lifestyle at the moment BUT...I became interested when I was exposed to cuckolding porn. At first the idea was that my woman would be mine and mine alone. There was no way that I could share my treasure with another man. Even though I felt this way, I watched the porn more and more and I always loved IR porn. Eventually I watched some trainer/******* videos and I started to imagine my wife with BBC every time I was having sex or masturbating. Confused but determined to figure out my stance on the idea of sharing her I thought I could sperate emotions and love from the act of sex for our mutual pleasure. We talked about it and found a fellow marine on the base we were stationed to and had a threesome with him twice. He was bigger than me and I found emails that my wife had sent him without my knowledge and it hurt me. We haven't done anything like that since. 10 years later we almost did it with a black friend of ours but he flaked. We had gone over some ground rules and I was ready to try it again. Now I'm giving my wife full permission to sleep with BBCs without retaliation from me. It might never happen but if it does I think I'm ready.
 
SOmos pareja swinger bisexual los dos de Cuba yo soy negro y dotado 51 años y más de 34 años en este mundo mi actual pareja 31 y juntos por 10 años en mi caso mi primera experiencia sexual fue con un hombre y aunque como dije soy totalmente bisexual desde el principio supe que podía disfrutar de las pingas de los hombres pero nada más así que cuando tuve la primera vez con una chica entendí que me gustaba el sexo con ambos sexos claro que el mismo conocimiento de haber tenido una pinga dentro de mis agujeros y ver como mi novia disfrutaba teniendo mi pinga dentro me llevo a hablar de él deseo de vernos uno al otro con la pinga de alguien dentro y así empeze
 
SOmos pareja swinger bisexual los dos de Cuba yo soy negro y dotado 51 años y más de 34 años en este mundo mi actual pareja 31 y juntos por 10 años en mi caso mi primera experiencia sexual fue con un hombre y aunque como dije soy totalmente bisexual desde el principio supe que podía disfrutar de las pingas de los hombres pero nada más así que cuando tuve la primera vez con una chica entendí que me gustaba el sexo con ambos sexos claro que el mismo conocimiento de haber tenido una pinga dentro de mis agujeros y ver como mi novia disfrutaba teniendo mi pinga dentro me llevo a hablar de él deseo de vernos uno al otro con la pinga de alguien dentro y así empeze
esta en miami?
 
Totally agree. I enjoy the show from afar. However, the most exciting part of any show, for me, is my wife's ability to relax, release and enjoy; expressing her satisfaction and glee with her grunts and groans...send me through the roof.
 
What was your reason to get into the lifestyle.
For us we got into it so she could be thoroughly satisfied. I had already been a cuckold for many years in a previous relationship and absolutely loved and enjoyed it. I knew I could step aside and accept my place as the less endowed beta male, Allot less LOL.
Secondly, I was never in denial about it, I knew and accepted that I was less than adequate to satisfy most women, espically now as an adult. I really knew she needed more than what I had to offer sexually. She had three previous well hung lovers in her life and absolutely was certain that she needed that in a lover. Now seven years later she has had four black lovers and vows she will never go white again.
I knew it would end up that way and I am very proud of her. We moved three times with my job, hence three of the four black men, she really only wanted one select man as a lover.
She needed a passionate lover with a big hard cock who had skills and physical ability that I have always lacked. She needed a man with stamina because she really has endurance, she needs sex to last for hours with a good lover that match her insatiable abilities. That is really what most women probably need but some have never had it and others don't really care about it. I think it makes perfect sense for the dedicated cuckold that has accepted he is not a match to understand that once she finds what she needs to be satisfied she should no longer feel obligated to react to her inadequate cuckold as if he is still her primary lover. I understood, I gave that up when I surrendered her to an ALPHA SUPERIOR BLACK MAN who could easily satisfy her and bring her to multiple orgasms. We are still seriously committed partners with each other but the dynamics change when you enter into the interracial cuckold lifestyle. As a man I can honestly say I will always miss the feeling of going inside her with my hard penis or having access to her as my woman. That's the hardest aspect of the lifestyle, when you have to be brutally honest with yourself and respect where she is coming from. My tiny little almost four inch micro penis never did a thing to please or excite her, instead it actually frustrated her but she never complained. She really wanted to make love and be fucked so she could experience several orgasms as she had in the past. When that happens she becomes a tremendously passionate energized lover herself. Her enthusiasm to thoroughly satisfy her lover is unbelievable, she does things to him that she would have never even considered doing to me and of course I can't blame her and would never hold it against her. To hear her moans, her deafining screams and wittness how she reacts to him is a gift, they are sounds and screams I would have never experienced in my lifetime if it was just the two of us together. The other great gift is the cream pie along with the privilege to sometimes put my hand around his manhood to guide him inside of her, it's unbelievable how wet she gets. It really helped me to understand the physical difference of what she must feel when he is inside her compared to me, he's not only twice my size in length but also in thickness, his circumfrence is unbeliveable. As a cuckold, it genuinely humbles me. I never ever thought I would want to have another man's cock in my hand and certainly not ever my mouth, but now I feel privileged to orally clean or fluff him. I absolutly have no interest in outside of this specific cuckold scenario. In spite of my shortcomings, haha, I have become very useful in this three-way cuckold as a submissive when they allow me to serve. I was the one who encouraged her to go for the BBC, she allows me to jerk off and get relief and I find it satisfies my needs, especially when I'm watching them in person it is such a wonderful and exciting aphrodisiac.
Please tell me that somewhere in the beginning of this it only sounded like you were complaining but you really weren’t. Please tell me that because you have a cucks dream lifestyle. A pure dream and if you ever want to switch places let me know and it’s done. You are a lucky ass hubby!
 
When I came out as bi to my wife it started a greater conversation about sexuality, past experiences and our desires. She has a very strong desire to please people. Making people happy actually gets her off. So, if she can use her sex to make people happy...we all get off. We also discussed the fact that there are certain things that I cannot do for her sexually. I have an average dick (6.5") but with her amazing ass, doggy style can be a little challenging sometimes. She likes it hard and deep from behind. So, enter the guest cocks. Additionally, she never had a "slut phase" in her 20's like a lot of us do. We started dating when she was 27 and I was only her 4th man. Now, into her mid-late 30's, she is at 18 men and loving life. She will say that at times it can be a bit exhausting trying to maintain multiple "relationships" but for the most part we really enjoy the lifestyle. We have made some awesome connections, men we still consider friends, and some connections that were absolutely just one and done. I would appreciate a man that wants to be more than just a fuck for her because I do not think that two people can be "everything" to each other. Having another man to be a part of our lives and give her (and me) things that we can't give each other is what the lifestyle is for us. We've been together 12 years, married 10+ and open for 8+ and no, we are not going back.
Lucky dude!
 
unfortunately she is closed minded about stuff like that and it's very disappointing. I bought butt plugs to prepare for a pegging and she almost left me over that saying I was just getting too weird. just being honest to a fault.
You need to sit down with your wife and ask her why she doesn’t respect your desires. Period
 
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