What was the Rookie mistake that you made

[ggosselin]

Guys, what was the rookie mistake you made on your first time sharing your wife?

Mine was: starting to stroke myself when my wife only begun giving a bj to the Bull. Ended up cumming 5 min after and the rest of the intercourse was kinda weird. Now I wait until everything is over before even considering it.

My wife mistake was to fuck with the life guard at the beginning of our vacation at the resort. She gave him all he wanted. after that, we heard small laughs everytime we went by the lifeguard house. Now when we stay longer at a place, we wait until last few days before doing the crazy *******. LOL

 

[Neilson]

Not really a mistake I suppose but eating his cum cemented my role as cuckold rather than wife sharer.

Most of time I think that's OK but every so often it gets to me.

 

[allymanding]

for me it was expecting to say No and the bull would obey.

 

[ggosselin]

for me it was expecting to say No and the bull would obey.

and what did he do?

 

[allymanding]

he ignored me and stuck his bbc into my butt

 

[StacyZ]

he ignored me and stuck his bbc into my butt

He would be a one and done.

 

[ggosselin]

he ignored me and stuck his bbc into my butt

for us that part is very clear if she says no, it's no. So far always been respected

 

[allymanding]

he wasn't rude. He just felt it was his to have, and in the end, I did like it.

 

[ggosselin]

he wasn't rude. He just felt it was his to have, and in the end, I did like it.

Than good for you, You discovered something

 

[DeniedCuck-UK]

Deffo don’t cum until they have finished lol

 

[Jrodgers]

Agreeing to wear a cock cage in first time threesome. Now it's expected All the time.

 

[OneAboutLife]

Definitely playing with myself too much during. Once I went at it it took all of about 20 seconds and a few very slow and controlled thrusts before I came.

 

[BethBB]

for me it was expecting to say No and the bull would obey.

I also learned that quickly ... that you can tell a white guy "No", but you can't tell a black man "No".

 

[Dman1992]

Than good for you, You discovered something

Ally rite to let bull use her ass.
when ho is owned by bbc NO is not an answer unless the issue is worked out when bull takes control.

 

[Maxfield0316]

In our experience, its usually the bulls making mistakes and false assumptions. Which leads to them failing our vetting process and not getting laid by me.

 

[Nidhi Hardaha]

In our experience, its usually the bulls making mistakes and false assumptions. Which leads to them failing our vetting process and not getting laid by me.

This! Yes same here. Its usually the BBC that thinks they rule the world and beyond just because they wield big cocks.

But we have made mistakes i.e. not talking about what is on/off the table before an encounter and speaking for the other partner when the BBC offers to try something we haven't before.

 

[Maxfield0316]

This! Yes same here. Its usually the BBC that thinks they rule the world and beyond just because they wield big cocks.

But we have made mistakes i.e. not talking about what is on/off the table before an encounter and speaking for the other partner when the BBC offers to try something we haven't before.

Too many people quick to leap into bed. We like to meet and interview the 'bull' first. They know up front there will be no action on a first meet, we check the std paperwork in person and ask questions, always in a public place to see if we want to go further. They also know we only play as a couple, she never meets on her own. We always make sure they respect the rules of consent and understand that if either of us chooses to revoke consent, it ends immediately. We weed out a lot who are not a good fit. Thuggish/gangster types never make it past the interview. We're picky and we always make sure they understand whats on the table up front if they pass the interview. Vetting is something that needs to be done and we don't make time for those who are unwilling to go through the process.

 

[tomtomjim]

Not really a mistake I suppose but eating his cum cemented my role as cuckold rather than wife sharer.

Most of time I think that's OK but every so often it gets to me.

not so much a cuckold but a man who submits to women or wife

 

[tomtomjim]

you eventually learn that you are not like you think and it is often difficult to accept at first and that no matter how careful some dates will not be great

 

[OneAboutLife]

Yet another rookie mistake I’m learning of. Maybe some others have developed this as well. Except for a couple times of wearing a cock cage I’ve just stroked myself being mindful not to cum. Upwards of a couple hours at a time I’ve been hard doing my best not to cum. The last couple times it’s just been me and my wife I’ve told her I came when I didn’t as I could not cum. I think I’ve built up such a tolerance when it’s just us.