Can I say my answer on this one even though it doesn't involved bbc?
I have a regular snuggle buddy since my split. He is my go to, even though we only have a weekender or over nighter once or twice a month. We both have busy lives, we both make the connection happens when it works for us. The bonus of a regular guy for go to's for me is no hassles over making a time or venue, tastes are similar and you know what you're getting and how you're getting it, you don't have to worry over romance or getting too deep emotionally but you have a person you're connected to for something other than just sex you can chat to when you're catching your breath.
Others will jump in and say 6 guys 4 times a week and that's cool for their lives, for me I am happy with one guy when our schedules let it happen, and I am happy to wait a little for times to work than go and find someone else new.