For me it was finding out that wife was having an affair. I was devastated but before i confronted her about it, i wanted to dig deeper and gather up everything to have a strong case. But as i started tracing back her activities and escapades, it became more and more humiliating and surprisingly arousing.
In the end i decided i just couldn't afford to go through a divorce and culturally it would be shameful for her as well. Which is when i started researching more on cuckolding and understood why i was getting aroused by my wife's infidelity.
I finally discovered that becoming a cuckold would absolve me of all the stress and agony brought by my wife's infidelity. I now had a purpose in this relationship which couldn't be taken away by anyone else. What remained was to initiate my wife into this arrangement slowly without letting her know that i know. I dilligently followed the guides mentioned on this website. It might seem to you that it is to bring a cheating woman into this, but it's a very delicate situation and not being cautious can easily break a marriage as fragile as this.
Suffice to say the mission was a success and we have been living a good life. No beating myself up for a failed marriage. No stress of performing.
In the end i decided i just couldn't afford to go through a divorce and culturally it would be shameful for her as well. Which is when i started researching more on cuckolding and understood why i was getting aroused by my wife's infidelity.
I finally discovered that becoming a cuckold would absolve me of all the stress and agony brought by my wife's infidelity. I now had a purpose in this relationship which couldn't be taken away by anyone else. What remained was to initiate my wife into this arrangement slowly without letting her know that i know. I dilligently followed the guides mentioned on this website. It might seem to you that it is to bring a cheating woman into this, but it's a very delicate situation and not being cautious can easily break a marriage as fragile as this.
Suffice to say the mission was a success and we have been living a good life. No beating myself up for a failed marriage. No stress of performing.