What do you do when you want to meet a bbc for the first time with your wife & you want to stay discreet as possible ?
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Make sure you pick wisely. You don't have to show your faces. Not even nude pics. But it will perk interests. And hellos. If he's interested it won't be a problem. If it's a random fuck there's no need to get personal besides knowing he's safe. D/dfree well groomed good hygiene. And has a personality for pleasure.but not looking for love. He should know that's your wife and she will remain so. But will be sure to have discretion for all parties involved. Plus it makes it more exciting. Like her undercover brotha. Lol
As far as meeting ...
a place that is public . But quiet. Even somewhere where you don't have to be out an seated. A coffee house. A public store. I've meet a couple at a sports store lol... Walking the aisles as they made there way down my aisle private with a chance to just walk away if they aren't interested. Dicks sporting goods was one place I once met a couple. I think they made the right purchase. And soon after we made our way to their home. But we hit it off with conversations first. Went to their care and actually was a bit crazy. Drove right into there garage with nosey neighbors. But respect is most important. Your bull should understand and respect your privacy. Not interested in showing up uninvited or bragging to others. Meeting at a quiet hotel or motel. Is a better idea. Until you know him well enough to trust his actions. But make sure he's treated like a human n not just a toy. You'll get the most out of your pleasure if all parties are comfortable with the situation.
As far as meeting ...
a place that is public . But quiet. Even somewhere where you don't have to be out an seated. A coffee house. A public store. I've meet a couple at a sports store lol... Walking the aisles as they made there way down my aisle private with a chance to just walk away if they aren't interested. Dicks sporting goods was one place I once met a couple. I think they made the right purchase. And soon after we made our way to their home. But we hit it off with conversations first. Went to their care and actually was a bit crazy. Drove right into there garage with nosey neighbors. But respect is most important. Your bull should understand and respect your privacy. Not interested in showing up uninvited or bragging to others. Meeting at a quiet hotel or motel. Is a better idea. Until you know him well enough to trust his actions. But make sure he's treated like a human n not just a toy. You'll get the most out of your pleasure if all parties are comfortable with the situation.
Love how you think been blackened
There is always a certain level of risk of exposure in the lifestyle and I understand trying to mitigate that risk as much as possible. But you should remember, that risk exist for the Black Male as well, so it goes both ways. I believe that at some point, your identity is going to be revealed and the risk of exposure won't go away. You would have to trust that even after you meet in person, the male won't "out you" in the future. That's on the extreme end of things. From a practical standpoint, there has to be some physical attraction to potential play partners other than from the neck down. What a waste of time it would be, to have exchanged pics of the body only and when the initial meeting takes place, the face is unattractive! Again, this goes both ways.
If sharing pictures is your major concern, take the suggestion of some of the others on this thread. Set up a video chat on one of the messenger apps like Kik or Snapchat. Not only will you see what the play partner looks like, you get to gauge personality as well. If you're nervous about video chats, send face pics that are G-Rated, perhaps a Facebook pic or a LinkedIn pic that is already out in the general public. If you send nudes, those should have the faces blurred or be from the neck down with tattoos or other identifying features hidden thereby protecting your identity.
I tend to have the most success when couples I play with know upfront that they're not the only ones with something to lose. I make it plain to them that I have just as much risk of exposure as they do. I'm a professional executive. I'm a business owner. I'm a ******* with adult children. I'm somewhat known in my community. And when I communicate with them, I offer my face pics up front (G-Rated tp root out the pic collectors) and it usually gives them license to respond in kind. Thus, by the time we meet in person for the first time, there are no surprises and awkward moments and we can relax and get to know each other and look forward to the adult fun we all are seeking.
Napoleon1831
Male
My and her bull have an almost boyfriend/girlfriend type romantic dating relationship. But it only works because he lives in a different city where she doesn't know many people
Since only interested in spontaneous, NSA with strangers.
We always meet strangers at a swingers club or party. This way, strangers, if they show and do not connect, they may still have a great night.
She, on the other hand, always has a great night.
We always meet strangers at a swingers club or party. This way, strangers, if they show and do not connect, they may still have a great night.
She, on the other hand, always has a great night.
GaBlackSnake
Male
I have set up several meet and greet with myself and several guys in my group or FaceTime or email
good advice!
This is whats called "talkin out yo ass".
What and you hit it off and want regular meetings, but before you meet it's a 2 hour drive, my wife in the past has dated BBC's that lived in the same road as us ( She did not realise when he first picked her up) and another one that was the manager at a club lots of our friends used. never any problems.
What do you do if you go for a meal together ?? wear a bag over your head!!!
I often have dinner prior and it's no issue. I had one circumstance that I actually had friends come to my table with my husband and our third and greet me. I introduced my friend as a work colleague, and we were enjoying a dinner after a conference. End of story. if youre concerned then go to another town or make your arraignments away from your town like in the big city.
My ex wife is gorgeous. I'm like fuck it. Everybody already knows. But she's my ex. Her life her decisions. I'm comfortable being married to a bona-fide porn star. In and out no feelings. Get money make memories. Leave it there. But I'm monogamous. Everything is 60/40
blkbull4whtcpl
Male
Always thoughtful responses Annie...I agree as it has been my experience also. I've been invited to couple's home during family parties/bbq/gatherings. Often introduced as either husband's co-worker from another office or wife's co-worker...same situation. A few times...the physical chemistry has given the wife and I away(both times, the sister confronted the wife privately) but most of the time, people don't pay that much attention.
blkbull4whtcpl
Male
As for to share a face pic or not...I've actually done this both ways several times. When I have agreed to not share face pics...they have already sent pics with unique specific identifiers. For the meet, it is away from my normal social areas and very public. Once you meet...it still comes down to energy and chemistry. Great looking or not so great...we have to click. As far as, public places quiet enough to openly talk but not so quiet that others hear. I wouldn't suggest a restaurant unless you can get a bar table near a corner. Less people around to hear your conversation...believe me...it can be heard by others. Bookstores, coffee shops, grocery stores are perfect places to meet openly without people caring too much why we are talking. If there is an interest worth exploring...usually then will take to restaurant or bar...by then we can just talk and feel the vibe.
blkbull4whtcpl
Male
ABSOLUTELY...but this is also a double edged sword. I prefer the women I see to be married...it ensures a far greater chance of no drama and privacy. Notice, I said...greater chance...just because he is married or she is married doesn't guarantee anything. Especially for men! Women are far more private and careful NOT to get caught. The key is to be matched...if your a single guy fucking other women, stick with the women who openly are engaged in sex outside the marriage or single/divorced women (LOTS of them). Otherwise...married guys playing around...make sure to play with wives who DO NOT want to be exposed and risk their marriage or standing in their community. Both parties have to have something serious to lose. That keeps most people honest...especially when it comes to pics and vids.
Why bother. Get him to fuck her with plenty of facials. Love to see jizz on her tongue.
Never share the face AND the body in same picture. One or the other when dealing with strangers.
